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Kids Who Outwit Adults [Paperback]

John Seita (Author), Larry K. Brendtro (Author)
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August 23, 2005
This book is an educator s survival guide for working with hostile and resistant youth. It contains strength-based interventions that have benefited thousands of youths in trouble including author John Seita himself. In 1967, Seita was an abandoned, abused youth court-ordered to Starr Commonwealth, a private residential facility. Author Larry Brendtro, a psychologist, was president of Starr. Today they work together to train hundreds of professionals each year in the cutting-edge techniques of positive youth development. In Kids Who Outwit Adults, the authors disclose the private logic behind kids violent and defiant acts. They weave together an effective, rewarding approach based on successful and proven resilience models, insights from their years of experience, and youths own heart wrenching accounts. They illuminate the internal strengths and external supports kids need in order to break out of negative behavior patterns. Seita and Brendtro are your guides through the deeper world of youth scare tactics and coping mechanisms. With the penetrating wisdom found in this book, readers will: · Get beyond the bravado to build a solid trust connection · Uncover each youth s unique potentials · Build on strengths instead of dwelling on deficit and deviance · Remain positive in the face of hostility · Gain greater understanding of protective strategies, including fight/flight/fool, conceal and confuse, and sabotage · Avoid the pitfalls of the 10 myths of detachment · Calmly navigate antagonistic encounters, control contests, and manipulation games · Work positively with all kids even those whose behavior is depressed/hopeless/suicidal, oppositional defiant, or hypervigilant This book is one of two titles that NES acquired from Sopris West (2001). The cover of the book has been revised significantly (the Sopris cover had graffiti in the background with a gang of youth in the foreground); however, the text has not changed (the line endings and page endi


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Dr. John Seita is a former youth at risk who beat the odds. He was removed from his mother's home at the age of eight. Abused and neglected as a child, his journey though children's institutions and countless foster homes was a litany of degradation and humiliation. His unrestrained anger at his mother and at the system led to a childhood of anger and loneliness, one during which he fought with adults, counselors, teachers, house parents, childcare workers, and anyone else who crossed his path.

Today he is Assistant Professor in the School of Social Work at Michigan State University where he also has appointments with the MSU Extension/4-H and with the Michigan Agricultural Experimental Station. He is the author of Kids Who Outwit Adults (with Larry Brendtro); God Is in the Kitchen and Other Everyday Miracles; and In Whose Best Interest (with Martin Mitchell and Christi Tobin). He has written extensively in various journals on subjects related to youth development and program evaluation.

Prior to coming to Michigan State, Dr. Seita worked for five years as a program director for the W. K. Kellogg Foundation in Battle Creek, Michigan. He has also worked as a Research Associate and Adjunct Professor at Western Michigan University and has also been a youth worker in several treatment settings.

Dr. Seita attended Western Michigan University, earning his bachelor’s degree in sociology, his master’s degree in educational leadership, and his doctorate of education in educational leadership.

Larry Brendtro, Ph.D., is President of Reclaiming Youth International, a nonprofit organization of networking professionals, policy leaders, and citizens concerned with troubled children. He holds a doctorate in education and psychology from the University of Michigan. He has been a youth worker, teacher, principal, and psychologist. For 14 years, he was the president of Starr Commonwealth. At the University of Illinois, he and Herb Quay developed programs for behavio


Product Details

  • Paperback: 172 pages
  • Publisher: Solution Tree (August 23, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1932127321
  • ISBN-13: 978-1932127324
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 5.9 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #785,580 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Dr. John Seita is the author of four books and multiple articles on foster care. He holds a doctorate from Western Michigan University. He is on the faculty of the School of Social Work at Michigan State University where he also has appointments with MSU Extension/4-H and with the Michigan Agricultural Experimental Station.

Dr. Seita is a former youth at risk who beat the odds. He was removed from his mother's home at the age of eight and spent the remainder of his childhood and adolescence in multiple foster homes, detention facilities, group care settings and on the streets. Abused and neglected as a child, his journey though children's institutions and countless foster homes was a litany of degradation and humiliation.

Today Dr. Seita is a much sought after consultant and keynote speaker who has traveled internationally. He may be contacted at his website: http://www.johnseita.com/

 

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Please Tell Us More, September 4, 2007
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The book contains the harrowing first person narrative of Dr. Seita's childhood through early adulthood. He has lead a remarkable life. A deeper exploration of Dr. Seita's experience including the motivation and methods he used to deceive and confuse the adults who came to help him would benefit anyone who seeks to reach children who are coming through equally hellish travails. But Dr. Seita offers only generalizations like those he lists in a section titled "Claiming Unclaimed Kids" such as "10. Touch in Small Ways, 11. Give Seeds Time to Grow, and 12. Keep Faith and Hope Alive."
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Life in the Streets for a purpose, December 16, 2002
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Let me say upfront that like Antwone Fisher I am a product of the Cleveland child welfare system. We were in the sytem about the same time, and may have had some of the same caseworkers.

Mr. Fisher and I appeared on a panel discussion on National Public Radio some time ago. I have great respect for him and am thrilled for his success with his movie and his book. I am so happy that the foster care sytem is being exposed for what it is due to Antwone efforts.

As for me, I too, am a former youth at risk who beat the odds. I was removed from my mother's home at the age of eight and spent the remainder of my childhood and adolescence in multiple foster homes and group care settings. At least 15 in all; it was horrible and I was angry.

Abused and neglected as a child, my journey though children's institutions and countless foster homes was a litany of degradation and humiliation. My unrestrained anger at my mother and the child welfare system led to a childhood of anger, loneliness and one where I fought with adults, counselors, teachers, house parents, childcare workers and anyone else who crossed my path.

Still I believe that I had an indomitable sprit and in refusing to be vanquished, I did became strong at the broken places.

I wrote Kids Who Outwit Adults to cause you to examine your own view of the children that you care for, and even your own view of yourself.I also wrote this book to provide insight into the foster care experience. I wanted to go simply beyond a sad story and an inspiring story to a story with solutions.

In the spirit of solutions, I wrote this book to disclose the "private logic" behind the somethimes troubling behavior of kids' who have gone through the child welfare system. I discuss various ways to reach kids by weaving together what I hope is an effective, highly rewarding approach based on tried-and-true resilience models, insights from my years of experience, and kids' own heart-wrenching accounts. I identify the "internal strengths" and "external supports" kids need in order to break negative behavior patterns.

Peace,

Dr. John R. Seita

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5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent, March 22, 2007
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Almost finished reading the book. Very helpful in my job. It is easy to read, easy to follow, and moves along quickly.
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Stories of youth battling adults are among the most powerful themes in literature: The prodigal son defies his father; Romeo and Juliet deceive their parents; Huckleberry Finn tricks his foster mother and rafts away on the river. Read the first page
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distrustful youth, disposable kids, outwit adults, respectful alliance, private logic, provocative therapy, challenging youth, reclaiming youth, positive youth development, conflict cycles, national educational service, alienated students, youth prison, difficult kids, troubled youth
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New York, Family Privilege, Good Will Hunting, Larry Brendtro, Opportunity Lens, Pessimism Lens, Developmental Audit, Receiving Home, John Seita, African American, Guilford Press, National Educational Service, Reclaiming Youth International, University of Michigan, Circle of Courage, Life Space Crisis Intervention, Response Ability Pathways, Starr Commonwealth, Arlin Ness, Positive Peer Culture, Savage Spawn, American Psychiatric Association, Austin Powers, Frank Fecser, Harvard University Press
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