Review
"..an outpouring of love from lifes companions joins a compassionate consolation found in natures simple wonders. --
Spiritual Director Margaret OBrien, OSU"Terry poignantly captures an astonishing and totally unexpected outpouring of love from life's companions...." - Spiritual Director Margaret O'Brien, OSU --
The Long Islander, October 4, 2001..poems and prayers sent by friends...intermixed with ...cheering observations, arranged by season, of the ordinary details of her day. --
Oyster Bay Guardian, NYWith tenderness and delicacy, Kindnesses exposes the raw wound of loss to the healing light of truth and memory. --
Rabbi Jeffrey Salkin, Port Washington, NY
From the Author
After my sister's death I sought a way out of sadness but did not find if for the longest while. My journal of rage and gratefulness, my sustaining talks with friends, my heightened delight in the ordinary details of my surroundings - of the churchyard fox, the rock club, my imaginary garden - helped for the moment. But sadness always settled in again like mist.
..in my journey through the seasons of grief, at long last, sadness has given way to gratefulness and understanding. Tears still come sometimes, surprising me at being so deep and unforeseen. But I am different now, richer of mind and spirit in this my sixtieth year, wiser sometimes, more patient, more grateful. And when I slow down or take a mindful glance I am, endlessly, nourished by the small wonders of the day. Truly, all is well. I wish the same for all of us - in mountain or plain, desert or forest, inland or coast, in all our seasons.