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Kiss Mommy Goodbye (Signet)

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This is a well written novel of suspense. The plot is expertly crafted and well nuanced, keeping the reader turning the pages. With dialogue that rings true, it makes for a riveting read.

The story revolves around a young woman, Donna Edmunds, who works for an advertising agency. She meets a very handsome man, Victor Cressy, at a company party, and he wines and dines her in dramatic fashion, sweeping her off her feet. Finding him to be a fantastic and attentive lover, as well, he is the man of her dreams. When he proposes two months later, she accepts, thinking that she has died and gone to heaven. What she does not know is that she in on her way to living a hell on earth. You see, Victor Cressy is a sociopath.

At first, the change in Victor and their relationship was imperceptible. It began subtly with a question here, a question there, a suggestion here, a suggestion there. It then escalated to demands that had to be met, assertions of imagined slights, rules that had to be obeyed. Victor separated Donna from her old friends and family, until her isolation was total. It finally culminated in a control so complete that Donna, as a person in her own right, no longer existed. The cycle of extreme and profound psychological abuse had attained its goal. The old Donna was merely a memory, as the new Donna was too afraid to say anything, do anything, or opine on anything. Instead, a Stepford wife with two children had replaced her.

In reality, Donna was a woman on the edge of a nervous breakdown, an enigma to all who would meet her, asserting herself in bizarre ways which were only a cry for help . One day, Donna meets a man who recognizes her profound despair and treats her as a human being. She begins an affair with him, which enables her to reach deep into herself and come to terms with her life and her marriage. She asks Victor for a divorce and custody of the children.

The court scenes for the ensuing divorce and custody action are wonderfully drawn, as they are the setting for explaining the deterioration of the marriage. The points of truths in their respective accounts are told from different perspectives in a three dimensional, well fleshed narrative that is tautly drawn. One gets a very definite sense of the psychological horror of the marriage and the reason for Donna's almost total annihilation of self.

The divorce is granted, but she retains custody of the children. Donna soon finds out that even though she won, she lost, just as Victor had promised. Five months after the divorce, with the visitation arrangements in place, all had been going smoothly. Victor seemed to have adjusted to the situation and, when they met, treated her with civility. One weekend, he picked up the children, as usual, and admonished them to kiss their mother goodbye. It was not until they failed to return as promised, that she realized the import of his admonishment. Victor had merely lulled her into a false sense of complacency. In reality, her nightmare was far from over and was, in fact, just beginning.

I don't know if this was Joy Fielding's first book, but it's the first book by her that I read and I still read it every year or so and it's been about 15 years! What I love about "Kiss Mommy Goodbye" and all her other books, is that the main character - always a woman - finds herself in unusually horrendous circumstances; she may come to the breaking point, she may even break, but she comes back to herself in a totally realistic way. This is a great book to read when you think you can't do anything right because you can come back fighting right along with the heroine! It is probably my most favorite of all her books! Read her!

I don't know where Fielding gets it ~~ but she always manage to get me to keep turning the pages of her books! This one is so suspenseful that it was driving me nuts just to put the book down.

The book starts out with Donna Cressy fighting for the custody of her children. Her ex-husband Victor was painting a different sort of picture of Donna to get custody of the children. Then Fielding writes of the beginning of the marriage and it's downfall. Victor Cressy is the man who twists every single conversation that Donna carries with him into a raging psychological battle till you, the reader, begs for mercy! Donna begins to feel battered down and beaten ~~ not by flying fists but by the mental anguish she was going through. Nothing she did ever pleased the guy. So finally, she decided to end the marriage and the book gets even more interesting ~~ Victor told her that if she ever left him, he'd obliterate her. And he tried his best.

Fielding writes so convincingly of a broken marriage and a woman's fight for survival and fight for belief in herself. She writes so convincingly of Donna's plight when Victor kidnaps the children ~~ her fear and anger and helplessness. This book is every mother's nightmare. It is also every wife's nightmare.

I would not read this book at the beach or in front of the fireplace ~~ I would read it in bed with the covers over my head. This is a fright worse than monsters underneath the bed ~~ it could happen to you if it hasn't! And Fielding takes you right into a nightmarish marriage and its aftermath. She is well-known for her stories and the white-knuckle grip on the sheets, couch or wherever till the last page is turned. She won't fail you in this book!

2-7-03

This was the first 'thriller' I'd ever read, as well as being the first Joy Fielding. What can I say? I couldn't put it down. The main character was enjoyable for being so real, and not being obsessed with being a feminist. The events that occurred were awful, yet amongst all that lay the story of a woman who would do anything for her children and the man who loved her for who she was. A car chase and a court case thrown in to add action, and a very human story, one of a woman's strength, at the core of it.

Even though this text was written when i was a baby, I inherited this book from my mother and its tattered pages are constantly referenced in my library. I have texts from Bubel, as well as Powell, on the same subject matter, but I enjoy this author's nonsensical approach to the subject matter (and her personal experiences in gardening), as well as the wonderful diagrams of seedling leaves on the inside covers!

Having read See Jane Run - this one lives up to the hype of Joy Fielding. I find her story line compelling and her characters fully thought out and described. her book is a complete page turner!!!!!!!! Buy it - you will not regret it!

Heartrending and thrilling From the beginning of the book you can identify yourself in the principal person, Donna. It's never boring it's like a thriller. It shows the different trues. You don't have to be a mother to understand the dramatic situations. Rebecca Sundin, Franziska Küng

This was such a mess with you head kind of book! Donna has lived in an mentally abusive relationship for six years. It starts out all roses and ends up with her doubting every move she makes. She has brought two children into the world the first out of love; the second out of rape by her husband. When Donna asks Victor in the beginning of their relationship what would happen if they didn't work out. His answer, "I'd obliterate you." And that is exactly what he does. After the judge finds in favor of Donna in regards to custody of their two children, Victor kidnaps them. As the search for her children goes on, Donna continues to struggle with all the scars from being mentally abused. She falls into actually being the abuser in her new relationship.

As a reader you can see what Victor is doing and it is frustrating!! I will say that it did seem to slow down a bit after the kidnapping of the children. It didn't bother me much because we see this part of an abusive victims life where they must deal with what has happened and what needs to be done to heal the wounds. Great writing and glad that I finally got to read this one.

Having read most of Ms. Fielding's novels, I was very disappointed in this earlier work. Maybe if I had started with this one it would have seemed better than it actually was but her later novels were so very tense and gripping that this one just didn't measure up to expectations. As usual though, it was a female in jeopardy with a menacing husband/ex-husband kind of a story which is her main plot line. It was not BAD but if I had my druthers, I would druther have skipped this one.

I HAVE READ MOST OF MS. FIELDING'S BOOKS AND THIS ONE WAS GOOD, VERY SUSPENSEFUL, BUT I DON'T THINK IT WAS ONE OF HER BEST. WITH THAT SAID, I WILL SAY THAT IF SHE COMES OUT WITH ANOTHER NEW RELEASE I SURE WOULD GRAB IT.