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If I'd Known Then What I Know Now: Why Not Learn from the Mistakes of Others? You Can't Afford to Make Them All Yourself! [Paperback]

J. R. Parrish (Author)
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January 2003
If I’d Known Then What I Know Now is an inspiring, Pay It Forward-type manifesto for achieving success and happiness from childhood to retirement. Equally suitable for anyone from eight to eighty, it is actually a life guide or map that will help the reader traverse the roads of life, showing how to avoid the minefields and grab the gold ring by making the best choices when facing life’s most important decisions.

The great value for readers is that they get the answers on what to do before they need to make the decision. So, the thirteen-year-old gets to learn the do’s and don’ts of successful dating before ever going out on that first date. The newlywed learns about parenting before actually becoming one. This handbook for life will remain with readers year after year, helping them with life’s most important decisions at just the time when they need the information.

If I’d Known Then What I Know Now is packed with wisdom for people of all ages. Its simple style incorporates humor and storytelling to teach people how to learn from the mistakes of those who have gone before them. Opening with three of life’s most important principles for success regardless of age, the book is then organized in a handy lesson-by-lesson format with an eye toward age appropriateness. Lesson one, for example, is geared to seven- to fifteen-year-olds, and covers such topics as dealing with mom and dad, school, manners, and good habits. By lesson five, for those fifty-five and up, it’s more concerned with investments, health, retirement planning, and growing older gracefully.


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How many times have you lamented, "If only I’d known then what I know now"? The purpose of this book is to arm you with knowledge. The wisest of you will want to learn from the mistakes of others, eliminating much of the pain and suffering inherent in learning by personal experience. Experience is a good teacher, but none of us lives long enough to learn all our lessons by this method alone. The best way to learn is from the experience of others, which can make your journey through life less painful and much more rewarding. This fine book will reward everyone lucky enough to read it-assuming they’re also patient and determined enough to implement its lessons.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 136 pages
  • Publisher: Cypress House; 1 edition (January 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1879384493
  • ISBN-13: 978-1879384491
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.8 x 0.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (27 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #806,881 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Parents Best Freind, March 14, 2003
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Mark Zamudio (San Jose CA USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: If I'd Known Then What I Know Now: Why Not Learn from the Mistakes of Others? You Can't Afford to Make Them All Yourself! (Paperback)
It's is amazing how children learn. Others speak to your children in one breath exactly what you have shared with them for years and the children can not repeat a single word you have spoke while they can recall with perfect clarity the words of others with the exact same teachings.

Our family has taken turns reading JR's book at dinner time and it quickly and easily unlocked conversations that were previously difficult to convey without our children's eyes glazing over. Our 3 kids (15-B, 12-G & 12-B), have all commented about the valuable teachings found within each chapter. Our communication with each other has grown and improved and the attitudes toward one another are more positive and helpful. If you are raising children do yourself a favor and read the first chapter or two together and I know for a fact you will love the feedback from your kids and your spouse.

I believe JR's book will be just like "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" where it took time before everyone reviewed the subject matter for themselves and determined how great the story is to the viewer. Thanks JR for your wonderful words and taking the time to place them in a book for all of us to enjoy.
Mark

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A little something, the world needs more of!, March 16, 2003
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Shirley Remington (Ashland, Oregon USA) - See all my reviews
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Parrish's book is brimming with powerful sayings that stay in the mind, just waiting to be conjured up at the right moment. I find myself reflecting on the words in this book on a daily basis. It is a particularly powerful tool if you want to improve your relationships and be a more likeable person. We all want to feel important and Parrish provides some real gems that will surely make you someone others want to be around. As I apply these principles to my life and share them with my family, I find our household harbors more peace and less conflict. We seem to be more focused on each other and as Parrish predicted, my children are seeing that, "All I give is given to myself."

I highly recommend this book to people of all ages. I was particularly inspired by his encouraging message about those who have found the success they desired after mid-life. Upon reading it I felt renewed and empowered about the possiblilties my future holds.

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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A Pat on the Back and a Point in the Right Direction., April 10, 2003
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I was lucky enough to read early drafts of this extraordinarily helpful and insightful book. I made suggestions and they were graciously accepted by the author--this graciousness is seen on every page of the book. This is advice from an unpretentious source, honest and to the point.
While reading the section relevant to my life (Lesson Two: Ages 16-25), I realized that I'm right on track for a successful life. As the chapter reassured me that I'm doing OK, it also offered suggestions that I hadn't thought about.
For example, one point Mr. Parrish brings up is that school is about learning, not grades...grades are secondary to knowledge acculmulation. This seems like common sense, but in this competitive world it's a long forgotten value.
Another great thing about this book is how he offers advice for almost every aspect of one's life, and he modifies that advice to adapt it to each age bracket. An incredibly daunting task accomplished with grace and precision.
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