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8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
the luckiest girl in the world.....,
This review is from: The Luckiest Girl in the World : A Young Skater Battles Her Self-Destructive Impulses (Mass Market Paperback)
Katie Roskova is a preteen ice skater striving to be a champion. She attends a private school where she keeps up her popularity, her 3.5 G.P.A, and most importantly, her smile. Along with her hectic schedule, each day Katie also shelters a secret. This secret is the only thing that keeps her sane when she begins to lose sight of her goals and her grip on reality, what she calls `spacing out'. She knows that is anyone ever finds out about her secret, she will be thought of as a monster. So she hides her secret, just as she hides the pair of scissors that are now lying in her bag protected by a clean white washcloth. The same pair that, previously that day, slid down her wrists, her elbows, her thighs, anywhere she could easily hide away. She would be tagged as a 'cutter' if anyone bothers to pay attention, but nobody expects it. Katie hides her secret well and always has, but the one-day she slips her English teacher starts to suspect the pretty little skater girl. Katie begins to lose control and her world, as she knows it, begins to spin quickly out of control. She is then challenged with keeping up her championship dreams, not disappointing her mother or her counselor, Sandy, and keeping her `condition' under control.
Steven Levenkron, the author of The Luckiest Girl in the World, does a respectable job portraying self-mutilation, which is a rising issue that is threatening teens and adolescents more and more each day. He, in my opinion, takes things a step farther. Instead of writing about what people commonly think `cutters' are, which is reclusive, depressed, and lacking friends, he writes about the truth. How self-mutilation touches the lives of everyone including the people like Katie, who you think are too wonderful to believe that they could ever be involved in something of that stature. The Luckiest Girl in the World is an exceptionally written novel that can be enjoyed by everyone. It is inspirational, compassionate, and tells you the truth about what people are going through when they turn to self-mutilation. People like Katie, who think that they are not the `cutting' type and are confused by what they do, can read this novel and regain their hope. It tells `cutters' that they are not alone and people will not completely hate them for what they do. It also shows people who are not `cutters' what it feels like to be in that kind of situation, in full force. I can say that this novel is an ultimate piece of salvation.
8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
superficial and short on facts,
By Deb Martinson (Seattle, WA USA) - See all my reviews
This review is from: The Luckiest Girl in the World : A Young Skater Battles Her Self-Destructive Impulses (Mass Market Paperback)
Levenkron takes an incredibly complex subject and turns it into a movie of the week. He's got his facts wrong -- the type of repetitive/compulsive self-injury he depicts is not related to psychosis at all. It's obvious that the all-wise, all-loving incredibly perceptive white-haired male psychotherapist is meant to be him, and the school counselor he uses as contrast is a cartoonish bad guy. The reader never really gets a good idea of what's going on, why the girl cuts, or why she stops. Most self-harm is about coping, not psychosis -- people who never learned good ways to handle overwhelming feelings (or lack of feeling/dissociation) sometimes turn to physical self-harm as a way of reducing physiological arousal and getting back to a noramal state for them. Levenkron doesn't address this at all. In the five years I've been running a self-harm support email list, the dozens and dozens of people I've seen stop hurting themselves have achieved it by learning to look at their feelings and actively choosing another way (besides self-harm) to cope. Some had therapists to guide them. All of them did a lot of really hard work to relearn coping. The magical-therapist assumption doesn't validate that or even take it into account. It's not the absolute worst possible book on this subject, but I'd've expected better.
5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
Sickeningly simplistic,
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This review is from: The LUCKIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD: A Novel (Hardcover)
As in his previous work of fiction, The Best Little Girl In The World, Levenkron explains a disorder away with family problems, in this case a father who left and a mother who physically abused her child in order to "encourage" her. This girl is conveniently surrounded by people who care about her, in particular "Sandy Sherman", the ever-so-wonderful psychologist (featured previously in The Best Little Girl...) who jots down notes about her progress, letting the reader know how well our Katie is coming along. It simplifies a complex disorder into "family problems and too much pressure make little girls want to cut themselves". Levenkron, in the guise of Sandy Sherman, explains that Katie has a personality disorder which triggers her moments of "spacing out", something which is *not* common to self-injurers and should not be used to explain it. A final word of warning to anyone who hurts themselves, or has recently stopped - this book is *extremely* triggering, and should be avoided.
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