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Labor of Love: A Midwife's Memoir [Hardcover]

Cara Muhlhahn (Author), Ricki Lake (Foreword), Abby Epstein (Foreword)
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December 30, 2008
“Labor of Love…makes me want to stand up and shout, ‘Yes! Right on, sister!’” — Christiane Northrup, MD, author of Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

“A practicing certified nurse-midwife … [Muhlhahn] has the battle scars to prove it … as well as enough emotional dings to give her plain-speaking single mom’s memoir an edge.” — Booklist

Cara Muhlhahn is force of nature. Single mom, jazz singer, salsa dancer, traveler, and midwife to more than 700 babies, she holds nothing back in her astonishing memoir. As one of today’s most beloved and sought-after midwives, Muhlhahn delivers an engaging story of the choices and sacrifices she has made in order to live a life of passion and devotion. At an early age, Cara wanted to make a difference in people’s lives. She decided she would help women during their most significant experience—giving birth.

Balancing her medical knowledge with intuition, the challenges of single parenthood with work, and personal sacrifices with the joys of birth, Muhlhahn captures what it’s like to know your purpose, and live life to its fullest. Written with searing honesty, Labor of Love will inspire and amaze.

--This text refers to the Paperback edition.


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A practicing certified nurse-midwife in New York for more than a dozen years, Muhlhahn has the battle scars to prove it, in the form of piles of paid and unpaid parking tickets as well as enough emotional dings to give her plain-speaking single mom’s memoir an edge. Not the stereotypical Birkenstock-shod, granola-munching earth mother, she has nonetheless always unapologetically marched to the beat of her own drummer. From the moment she decided a life of service was her destiny, she never looked back. A series of life events seemed to send her headlong into midwifery, often in the face of harsh disapproval from many in the mainstream American medical arena. She stood her ground and demanded her propers as someone who empowers women during the crucial process of giving birth—and she was featured in Ricki Lake’s documentary The Business of Being Born. Although midwifery is beginning to enjoy greater mainstream medical approval, Muhlhahn still wants more, especially special license plates to avert all those pesky parking tickets. --Donna Chavez

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“This book is surprising. Mothers-to-be will be held spellbound, but fans of spiritual memoir and insider health-care accounts will learn a thing or two as well.” —Library Journal, starred review

“A practicing certified nurse-midwife in New York for more than a dozen years, [Cara Muhlhahn] has the battle scars to prove it, in the form of piles of paid and unpaid parking tickets as well as enough emotional dings to give her plainspeaking single mom's memoir an edge.” —Booklist

“It's easy to like Muhlhahn; she bursts through the page as an authentic, exuberant person.” —Mothering.com

“Cara Muhlhahn is at the forefront of a growing trend of at-home births in New York City...[Labor of Love] recounts her colorful past—from vagabonding in the South of France to an eye-opening journey to Morocco—and some of her most harrowing deliveries. But ultimately, for Muhlhahn, it’s about more than home birth. “My allegiance is to women and choice,” she said, “and not being sold down the river into circumstances they’re going to regret. That’s my bottom line.” —The Villager, 12/3/08

“...I was totally fascinated when I heard about the new book Labor of Love. Written by a midwife, the memoir is all about women who have home births--meaning, they have their babies at home... I love the book. It's fascinating.” —Glamour.com Smitten Blog

“In addition to singing the praises of women’s childbirth wisdom in an accurate and compelling way, Labor of Love is also an incredibly good read! Makes me want to stand up and shout, ‘Yes! Right on, sister!’” —Christiane Northrup, MD, author of Mother-Daughter Wisdom, The Wisdom of Menopause, and Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom

“Reading this book comes second only to the moving experience of having Cara deliver your baby. Candid, funny, passionate, exhilarating, and occasionally heartbreaking, this story will undoubtedly speak to readers interested in the unsung superheroism of midwives. But it will also appeal to anyone who has contemplated how to fully integrate life and work. In this era of compartmentalizing, Cara moves with dervishlike grace between baby-catching, parenthood, spirituality, travel, and, well, even parking to show us that with the right combination of humility and drive, anything is possible.” —Daphne Beal, author of In the Land of No Right Angles

“We benefit so much from the specific stories of midwives like Cara Muhlhahn, whose ability to support childbearing women with extraordinary skill and understanding is so clear in this important memoir. Her bravery and persistence will go a long way in helping us move away from current trends that so often harm both women and babies.” —Judy Norsigian, Executive Director, Our Bodies, Ourselves

“Midwives are the heroes of our times, and Cara Muhlhahn is no exception. Her intelligent and compelling story gives intimate insights into birth and midwifery, as well as the glorious history of how she became a midwife. Labor of Love is also an eye-opening account of the US maternity care system: highly recommended for parents and parents-to-be as well as midwives; obstetricians; doulas; childbirth educators; and all involved in the care of pregnant and birthing women.” —Sarah J. Buckley, MD, homebirth mother of four and author of Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering: A Doctor’s Guide to Natural Childbirth and Gentle Early Parenting Choices

Labor or Love is not just a lovely book about midwifery, but a wild, joyous journey through a remarkable woman’s life.  Like a ride on a roller coaster, the memoir starts out fun but by the end will take your breath away. Every childbirth professional, midwife, student midwife, labor and delivery nurse, doula, and physician should read it and be prepared to laugh and to weep.” —Patricia Harman, CNM, MS, author of The Blue Cotton Gown: A Midwife’s Memoir

“Authentic and important, Labor of Love reveals how mothers are transformed by a positive birth experience. In reading Cara Muhlhahn's story, I am reminded that midwives themselves are also positively transformed by serving women in this life event. Voices like hers are desperately needed in this world of defensive medicine.” —Ina May Gaskin, MA, CPM, author of Ina May's Guide to Childbirth

“As a pediatrician and the father of three kids, I encourage parents to respect the body's natural defenses and to avoid unnecessary or even detrimental interventions. This very philosophy is what drives Cara Muhlhahn as she works with expectant mothers. In Labor of Love, she shares the story of how she came to deliver babies exclusively in the homes of their mothers. With today's focus on defensive medicine, Cara's message is critical.” —Michel Cohen, MD, author of The New Basics: A-to-Z Baby & Child Care for the Modern Parent

Labor of Love is not just Cara Muhlhahn’s memoir, it is a rare look into the often secret world of planned home birth. Cara shares her own very personal story, but in doing so, she also shares the stories of the women she cares for during pregnancy and birth. Cara’s story debunks the myth perpetuated by the medical profession and the media that planned home birth is risky and that midwives who do planned home births lack the knowledge and skills to keep women safe. This midwife embodies all that contemporary midwives are: intelligent, analytical, knowledgeable, skilled, caring, passionate. A must-read for women and their families, and for midwives, doulas, childbirth educators, nurses, and obstetricians.” —Judith A. Lothian, Associate Professor, College of Nursing, Seton Hall University, and co-author of The Official Lamaze Guide: Giving Birth with Confidence

“After decades of misinformation in the United States about how dangerous childbirth is, this wonderful book gives a clear and penetrating explanation of what a midwife is and what she does, exploding all the myths and misconceptions about midwifery and the risks of planned out-of-hospital birth. The book needs to be read by all obstetricians, labor and delivery nurses, policy makers and all women who are pregnant or may become pregnant.” —Marsden Wagner MD, MS, Director of Women’s and Children’s Health for the World Health Organization

“Cara Muhlhahn’s passion, self awareness, and purity of heart have infused her life’s work as a midwife. This unique journey is authentically and beautifully shared in Labor of Love. Cara is a pioneer in midwifery, due to her profound impact on the profession and what we know about birthing, as well as the hundreds of clients she has served. She is a woman, a mother, and an entrepreneur with clarity, consciousness, power, and divinity—the ultimate merging of intellect with intuition. A must read for all women.” —Denise Spatafora, author of Born Clear --This text refers to the Paperback edition.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Kaplan Publishing; 1 edition (December 30, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1427798214
  • ISBN-13: 978-1427798213
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 5.2 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #954,174 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars I expected more..., July 12, 2009
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I wish that I could have liked this book. As a homebirth midwife, I really wanted to like it. However, I was bored reading it, found the author's tone very arrogant and the writing style lacking. I liked her in the Business of Being Born, and perhaps with a better editor, this book would have been a better read.

I also didn't like how she made it seem as though midwives who are not Nurse midwives are somehow inferior. That was the vibe I got from this book, she says several times about how she feels that her nursing training was so helpful to her as a midwife. The U.S. is one of very few, if not the only country in the world that has midwives who are also nurses. As a direct entry midwife who also has had experience working in hospitals and in doctor's offices, I can say that my hospital based training was not nearly as helpful as the training I have received under other midwives in out of hospital settings.

A midwife's story, All my Babies, Listen to me Good, or A baby catcher are better choices when reading a midwife's memoir.
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16 of 19 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Love the subject, bored by the book, February 15, 2009
This review is from: Labor of Love: A Midwife's Memoir (Hardcover)
The work this midwife does and the importance of her message about homebirth really made me want to like this book. That said, it took me three weeks to read it because I was bored by it and forcing myself to finish it. She is boastful in her references to herself, her writing lacks depth of character - void of all the highs and lows of life that make a book interesting, and the piece reads more like a self-congrats than a memoir. I really wish I could have loved this book because I love midwives and I love homebirth.
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1.0 out of 5 stars The arrogance of the author is a huge turn-off, January 18, 2011
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This book has the potential to be fantastic. But the stories about homebirths and the business of midwifery are completely eclipsed by the author's arrogance and self-absorption. The entire book consists of the author singing her own praises, while insulting or making passive-aggressive digs at anyone who has ever opposed her viewpoint. What a turn-off.
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