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The Language of Blood [Paperback]

Jane Jeong Trenka
3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)

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June 23, 2005
“A book that translates, and transcends, the eternal question of home, belonging, family,
identity.” —Star Tribune (Minneapolis)

My name is Jeong Kyong-Ah. My ancestry includes landowners, scholars, and government officials. I have six siblings. I am a citizen of the Republic of Korea. I come from a land of pear fields and streams, where people laugh loudly and honor their dead. Halfway around the world, I am someone else.

Jane Jeong Trenka and her sister Carol were adopted by Frederick and Margaret Brauer and raised in the small, homogeneous town of Harlow, Minnesota—a place “where the sky touches the earth in uninterrupted horizon . . . where stoicism is stamped into the bones of each generation.” They were loved as American children without a past.

With inventive and radiant prose that includes real and imagined letters, a fairy tale, a one-act play, crossword puzzles, and child-welfare manuals, Trenka recounts a childhood of insecurity, a battle with a stalker that escalates to a plot for her murder, and an extraordinary trip to Seoul to meet her birth mother and siblings. Lost between two cultures for the majority of her life, it is in Korea that she begins to understand her past and the power of the unspoken language of blood.

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Trenka remembers with gross delight headless chickens dancing around until collapse at her adoptive family's farm. She writes, "I wanted my head to be removed, a metaphor so strong that only later did I realize that it was not a death wish at all.... What I longed for was wholeness, for my body to be as white and Northern Minnesotan as my mind." Original and beautifully written reflections like these fill Trenka's memoir, a brave exploration of her identity as a Korean adoptee and pensive young woman trying to negotiate between two mothers and two lives. She traces her life from young, eager-to-please child to questioning adolescent. Once at college, she is stalked by an acquaintance with a sick fascination with her Asian heritage, forcing her to ask important questions about exoticization and violence. Finally, she brings readers with her to Korea, where she is reunited with her birth mother and homeland. Unlike some first-time writers, Trenka is unafraid with her prose and rarely falls into cliches, which is especially admirable given the subject matter. She brazenly dabbles with playwriting, screenwriting, crossword puzzles, myths and dream sequences throughout her account. Her journey, from the conservative Christian roots of rural Minnesota to her cramped and corrupt homeland of Korea, is winding, but it ends at an important place for both reader and writer: transformation. She writes, "I have made it my task to reconstruct the text of a family with context clues, and my intent is... to trust in the mysterious; to juxtapose the known with the unknown; to collect the overlooked."
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

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Adoption memoirs are not rare, but this one stands out because of the quality of the writing and because of the aspect of adoption it portrays. Jane at six months and sister Carol, at four and a half, Korean by birth, were adopted by a Minnesota couple with strong German Lutheran roots. The girls were from a home beset by poverty and the drunken abuse of their birth father. Being sent away was an act of love by their Korean mother. Their adoptive parents loved the girls and raised them as their own. And here lies the problem for Jane. Their Korean identity was never addressed, leaving her with a strong sense of not belonging in either culture. Eventual contact with her birth family leads to a rift with her American parents. The author interweaves the account of her life, already tangled in time and place, with legends and plays, creating an incredibly introspective and moving piece. Perhaps not a comfort to transcultural adoptive parents, but thought-provoking reading on an important issue. Danise Hoover
Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 244 pages
  • Publisher: Graywolf Press (June 23, 2005)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1555974260
  • ISBN-13: 978-1555974268
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.2 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #635,021 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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20 of 22 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars To An Adult Adoptee, this book is like a bible. March 8, 2004
Format:Hardcover
I actually met Jane Jeong Trenka before reading her book. She's one of the nicest, most understanding people I've ever met and reading her book only makes her more human and therefore more lovable.

As a Korean Adult Adoptee trying to break new ground with support groups and helping adopted childrens' programs in the North East, I find this book to be a wonderful escape from the "sugar-coated" world I present adoption through to the kids I work with, because I can so closely relate to it.

It is for this reason that I recommend this book to any adult adoptee or any person who is a relative or close friend of any adult adoptee. It gives us a glimpse of what we feel: longing, sadness, loss, curiosity, anger, resentment, and many more feelings beyond those that words can describe.

This book is an important milestone in the journey of our development for adult adoptee support groups and should be regarded as such. There are no words to describe how much this book will mean to some of us.

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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing October 12, 2005
Format:Paperback
I first became aware of this book after I began researching my own adoption.I grew up in a very white suburban area, and was one if not the only minority in the area. I found this book extremely helpful in helping me come to terms with my own adoption and identity. An Asian American adoptees' voice is rare in the literary world, but Trenka does a beautiful job in describing and retelling the life of an adoptee.
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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Modern Twist on Memoir Proves Successful June 28, 2005
Format:Paperback
Jeong Trenka's memoir succeeded in being everything but a typical memoir. These are no mere stories. Her life is no mere series of events. By mixing her prose with drama, poetry, and imagined interactions, Jeong Trenka creates a journey much like that of Maxine Hong Kingston's "Warrior Woman": a blend of legend, history, and true life. Emotionally genuine, spiritually alive, fresh and new. A great read.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
1.0 out of 5 stars As Misleading as It Is Self-Pitying
As someone who comes from a family of both adoptive parents and adoptees, I often read adoption related literature. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Trevor Fraser
4.0 out of 5 stars Very beautiful story, beautiful writing as well
This book is a surprise to me. I had very low expectations despite the good reviews, and though I disliked the opening letter from mom to daughter, and the play set ups, the... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Ada Ardor
4.0 out of 5 stars Blood Bonds
This is a heartfelt memoir by a woman adopted from Korea to Minnesota. Virtually every adoptee wants to know his or her origin, but Trenka's urge was especially strong. Read more
Published 10 months ago by Chris Beal
5.0 out of 5 stars TRA-ness
I've been wanting to read this memoir for as long as I was made aware of it. I'm always interested in what other transracially adopted persons create because they share a history... Read more
Published on January 1, 2011 by Kevin Allen
5.0 out of 5 stars A great book
There were two negative reviews for this book (the third is a repeat and is unfair). Frankly neither of them show any kind of knowledge about the psychology of an adoptee. Read more
Published on June 7, 2007 by Rachel
4.0 out of 5 stars not perfect but very worth reading for anyone connected to adoption
I find it interesting that three of the negative reviews for this book all use the same language but the writer/s claims to be the parent of Korean children, a Korean with no... Read more
Published on August 15, 2006 by Auburn
4.0 out of 5 stars Chaotic, But Lovely Story
The story is a about a young Korean adoptee, raised in a small Minnesota town, who struggles to find identity. Read more
Published on May 8, 2006 by Monica Poling
1.0 out of 5 stars Not for me
Five beginnings in two pages - she lost me. Too bad because the opening was terrific - a letter in broken English about the dysfunction that led to the adoptions in the first... Read more
Published on October 19, 2005 by Just
5.0 out of 5 stars MEMOIR OF ADOPTION
I really liked this memoir. It is about the adoption of a Korean baby by a Minnesota family and that adoption's consequences. Read more
Published on September 16, 2005 by Anne Salazar
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic, Moving work of art
Trenka goes beyond lyrical with her poignant and emotional writing. Yes, her chapter titles are in Chinese, yet do you ask why? Read more
Published on April 22, 2005 by ProfSurie
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