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Late, Lost, and Unprepared: A Parents' Guide to Helping Children with Executive Functioning [Paperback]

Joyce Cooper-Kahn , Laurie Dietzel
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October 24, 2008
(2009 National Parenting Publications Awards (NAPPA): Honors Award)

Executive functions are the cognitive skills that help us manage our lives and be successful. Children with weak executive skills, despite their best intentions, often do their homework but forget to turn it in, wait until the last minute to start a project, lose things, or have a room that looks like a dump! The good news is that parents can do a lot to support and train their children to manage these frustrating and stressful weaknesses.

Late, Lost, and Unprepared is a must-have book for parents of children from primary school through high school who struggle with:

Impulse Control (taking turns, interrupting others, running off)

Cognitive Flexibility (adapting to new situations, transitions, handling frustrations)

Initiation (starting homework, chores, and major projects)

Working Memory (following directions, note-taking, reading and retaining info)

Planning & Organizing (completing and turning in homework, juggling schedules)

Self-monitoring (making careless errors, staying on topic, getting into trouble but not understanding why)

Written by clinical psychologists, Late, Lost, and Unprepared emphasizes the need for a two-pronged approach to intervention: 1) helping the child to manage demands in the short run, and 2) building independent skills for long-term self-management. Full of encouragement and practical strategies, the book's organization--short chapters with overviews, summaries, case studies, tips, and definitions--makes it easy to grasp concepts quickly and get started.

Part I, What You Need to Know, provides information about: what executive functions are and how weaknesses in these skills affect development; the impact of weak executive function on children's emotional lives and their families; how professionals assess executive function problems; and associated conditions (AD/HD--children with an AD/HD diagnosis always have executive skills issues--learning disabilities, autism spectrum disorders, Tourette syndrome, etc.).

Part II discusses What You Can Do About It including how to change behavior and set reasonable expectations, and offers specific intervention strategies for children of different ages, varying needs, and profiles.

Late, Lost, and Unprepared is chockful of ideas for helping your child or student be productive and independent--today and in the future.


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Drs. Cooper-Kahn and Dietzel have filled a very important need for parents-- putting the essential concepts of the executive functions into practical words and actions. They have written a book that families have been asking about for years. This practical guide will be a tremendous help to children, teens, and young adults as they learn the key skills to better manage their learning and problem-solving. --Gerard Gioia, Ph.D., Director, Neuropsychology, Children s National Medical Center

Here we have [one of the] first practical manuals for parents that is replete with realistic, science-based, and compassionate recommendations for helping children and young adults weak executive abilities. The authors are to be congratulated for their straightforward, clear, and concise presentation of the material, and their litany of parental recommendations for making accommodations and for managing and improving the self-regulation problems of children.
--Russell A. Barkley, Ph.D., Clinical Professor of Psychiatry, Medical University of South Carolina, Charleston, SC

In their powerful and thoughtful book, Drs. Cooper-Kahn and Dietzel have hit a home run for the team of parents and children dealing with organizational issues! This extremely well-written and wide-ranging book will inevitably become the go to guide for parents of children of all ages as they deal with the common problems of following directions, completing work, and monitoring their behavior.
--Patricia O. Quinn, MD , Developmental Pediatrician, Washington, DC, Author of Putting on the Brakes: Understanding and Taking Control of Your ADD

Few adults may know the clinical definition of executive functioning, but parents and educators who interact with a child (or adult) with developmental delays can easily relate to words like disorganized, chronically late, forgetful or impulsive. The label might be Asperger s or ADHD or learning disabilities. These are the often bright kids who seem to never be able to corral their knowledge to meet deadlines or specific assignments. Homework? No problem. Turning it in--well, that s another story. Science lab project? An easy A, if only he didn t leave it to the very last minute to complete.

Late, Lost, and Unprepared delves deeply into the world of executive functioning skills, explaining their role in learning and in critical life skills: time management, impulse control (in words and deeds), cognitive flexibility, and initiation, planning and organizing, among others. Part I of the book widens understanding about EF skills in general, including assessing your child or student s abilities. Part II, the what you can do about it section is page after page of positive strategies, highly practical tips and case studies that cement concepts and learning. A well-organized, well-written book that s sure to become a well-used addition to your home or professional library. --Autism Asperger's Digest, January/February 2009 --Autism Asperger's Digest, January/February 2009

Few adults may know the clinical definition of executive functioning, but parents and educators who interact with a child (or adult) with developmental delays can easily relate to words like disorganized, chronically late, forgetful or impulsive. The label might be Asperger s or ADHD or learning disabilities. These are the often bright kids who seem to never be able to corral their knowledge to meet deadlines or specific assignments. Homework? No problem. Turning it in--well, that s another story. Science lab project? An easy A, if only he didn t leave it to the very last minute to complete.

Late, Lost, and Unprepared delves deeply into the world of executive functioning skills, explaining their role in learning and in critical life skills: --Gerard Gioia, Ph.D., Director, Neuropsychology, Children s National Medical Center

Few adults may know the clinical definition of executive functioning, but parents and educators who interact with a child (or adult) with developmental delays can easily relate to words like disorganized, chronically late, forgetful or impulsive. The label might be Asperger s or ADHD or learning disabilities. These are the often bright kids who seem to never be able to corral their knowledge to meet deadlines or specific assignments. Homework? No problem. Turning it in--well, that s another story. Science lab project? An easy A, if only he didn t leave it to the very last minute to complete.

Late, Lost, and Unprepared delves deeply into the world of executive functioning skills, explaining their role in learning and in critical life skills: time management, impulse control (in words and deeds), cognitive flexibility, and initiation, planning and organizing, among others. Part I of the book widens understanding about EF skills in general, including assessing your child or student s abilities. Part II, the what you can do about it section is page after page of positive strategies, highly practical tips and case studies that cement concepts and learning. A well-organized, well-written book that s sure to become a well-used addition to your home or professional library. --Autism Asperger's Digest, January/February 2009

Drs. Cooper-Kahn and Dietzel have filled a very important need for parents-- putting the essential concepts of the executive functions into practical words and actions. They have written a book that families have been asking about for years. This practical guide will be a tremendous help to children, teens, and young adults as they learn the key skills to better manage their learning and problem-solving. --Gerard Gioia, Ph.D., Director, Neuropsychology, Children s National Medical Center

About the Author

Joyce Cooper-Kahn, Ph.D., a clinical child psychologist, specializes in helping children to successfully manage developmental challenges. Using her expertise in the assessment and treatment of learning, attention, and social-emotional difficulties, she works with children, families, and educators to build children's competencies. Dr. Cooper-Kahn is the co-founder of Psychological Resource Associates, a private mental health practice in Severna Park, Maryland. She is the parent of an adult son with AD/HD and executive skills weaknesses.

Laurie Dietzel, Ph.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in neuropsychological assessment and the diagnosis of AD/HD, learning disabilities, PDD, and other neurodevelopmental disorders. Dr. Dietzel is currently in private practice with a focus on testing, training, and consultation at Dietzel, Butler & Associates in Silver Spring, Maryland, which she co-founded. She provides local and national continuing education workshops for mental health and educational professionals.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 232 pages
  • Publisher: Woodbine House; 1 edition (October 24, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1890627844
  • ISBN-13: 978-1890627843
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 0.5 x 5.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (27 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #18,510 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Joyce Cooper-Kahn, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist and co-author of the award-winning book, Late, Lost and Unprepared: A Parent's Guide to Helping Children with Executive Functioning. That book introduced readers to her enthusiasm, expertise and straightforward guidance on ways to help youth with ADHD and executive functioning weaknesses.

Boosting Executive Skills in the Classroom, co-authored with Learning Specialist Margaret Foster, brings the same clarity and practical approach to the school setting.

Dr. Cooper-Kahn is the co-founder of Psychological Resource Associates, a private mental health practice in Severna Park, Maryland. She specializes in clinical services, consultation and professional training regarding the needs of children with learning, behavioral and emotional challenges.

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Easy to read. wish 4 par  |  11 reviewers made a similar statement
Every school teacher should read this book. ausomemom33  |  6 reviewers made a similar statement
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54 of 55 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Very accessable advice December 22, 2008
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This book was recommended by my daughter's teacher. It's purpose is to help parents work with children with executive functioning weakneses. These include difficulties in initiating or completing tasks or assignments, problems with organizing tasks and time managment issues. As a parent, you may find something about yourself in there as well!
Unlike some books on similar topics, this book is very easy to read and understand. It also includes basic advice for parents of teens. It is filled with practical suggestions and it guides you directly to the recommendations that apply to your situation. It is a good starting point for parents who are wondering how they can help their child or teen succeed in school. However, if you consider yourself well read on the topic, it is unlikely to add much to your knowledge.
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40 of 43 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Late, Lost, and Unprepared November 22, 2008
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Now we have a guide to executive functioning that we can read, mark, dog-ear and rely on over and over again. As a learning specialist for over 30 years, I will use the definitions and assessments chapters to remind myself of the nuances of executive functioning in different learners. I will recommend the family sections for those who are struggling with those issues. And the bulk of the book "What Can You Do About It" will be dog-eared and used over and over again with students, teachers and parents as a reminder of effective interventions and accommodations. "Late, Lost, and Unprepared" has a strong research and clinical base, combined with a friendly style. It is THE book to own on executive functioning.
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15 of 17 people found the following review helpful
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Attention Deficit Disorders are abundant in many children, but how to deal with them? "Late, Lost, and Unprepared: A Parents' Guide to Helping Children with Executive Functioning" is a guide for parents when dealing with a child who suffers from Attention Deficit Disorder or related disorders, with some advice even dealing with severities such as autism. Focusing both on the short and long term, "Late, Lost, and Unprepared" is a manual that parents need for their special needs child.
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10 of 11 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Every teacher should have this book October 13, 2009
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Every school teacher should read this book. It gives great insight into the behaviors many students exhibit that frustrate teachers most. As an adult with executive function delays, I found many of the skills and approaches the authors suggested to teachers working with students with this issue, to be the kind of treatment I wish I would have gotten from teachers when I was growing up.
As a parent of a child with AD/HD and executive function delays, The tips and suggestions for parents have begun a dramatic change for the better in both my own and my son's life. Thank you, authors, for writing this book. Thank you Amazon for making it available.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars exceptional resource May 1, 2011
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This book is invaluable.

As a general pediatrician, I provide parents whose children have ADD, disorders of executive function or learning disabilities (LD) several handouts that I have created over the years. I also have several letters of specific recommendations for teachers to follow to help these children in school. These are all now antiquated -- this book is, in a word, SPECTACULAR.

Easy to read.

Written for parents, understandable by the older adolescent.

Practical.

Organized.

Anybody with ADD, LD or who seems "disorganized" -- get this book, give them this book and absorb this book.
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24 of 31 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Not worth the time or money May 20, 2011
By 2Kerole
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This book was not worth my time or money. It mainly teaches the reader how to talk to their child in a respectful, effective way. The information is just like that written in a thousand other parenting books. A much better one is How To Talk So Your Kids Will Listen and Listen So Your Kids Will Talk.

Late, Lost and Unprepared is basic parenting communication 101, what I needed was a way to help my child to self regulate, be able to take responsibility for time management, and help with orgainizing with a child in mind. This book didn't provide what I needed.

There was no additional information that helped with skills regarding time management, getting things done, or other executive functioning skills.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Gives insight into executive dysfunction April 11, 2012
By Lundy
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This book helped me to understand what executive dysfunction is and gave suggestions as to how to deal with it. It is written in an easy to understand format and gives some concrete examples of certain issues. I found it very helpful to understand why my son was struggling with planning and organization both at school and at home. I learned that it is OK to provide a "prosthetic environment" to assist him. It made me feel better about how much assistance he seems to need even thought other kids his age don't. It gives ways to help the child gain the skills they will need to succeed in life in a positive manner. I would definitely recommend this book to any parent who just does not understand why their child seems to be "Late, Lost, and Unprepared".
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
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I checked this book out of the library on a friend's recommendation and liked it well enough to buy it. The authors use clear, concise language to describe executive function (or lack thereof) and offer useful strategies while recognizing that every individual comes to the table with a unique set of strengths and weaknesses. As the parent of two with PDD/ADHD, I have read extensively on both disorders and came to realize that no easy cookie-cutter solutions exist. What worked with one child often did not work with the other, and progress (and we saw remarkable progress over time) was incremental.

Perhaps the best thing about the book was its accessibility to those outside the medical profession. Others have commented, and I agree, that those who've been in the trenches for awhile will be familiar with most of what's presented. For those new to the diagnosis (or any that involves deficits in executive function)and for teachers and caretakers, the book is a marvelous introduction. I will be reprinting one page for distribution to teachers at my child's back-to-school staffing, because the passage describes my child perfectly.

An excellent reference book.
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5.0 out of 5 stars A must read for parents
Whether your child has been diagnosed or is simply chronically unorganized, this book is a must read. The authors write it in a practical way that is easy to apply. Read more
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Love this book use it often as a resource. Great information on executive function skills. I have shared the information with my children teachers. Read more
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This book was highly readable and avoids jargon and clinical language. It is clearly written for families and not academics. Read more
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This is an excellent introduction to the subject of Executive Functioning skills in children. It provides a good review of the subject, describes problems that are associated with... Read more
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I found this book to be very helpful. Although my children would not understand some of the strategies outlined, at least this book let me know that they are not unique and others... Read more
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It arrived on time and in perfect condition. It was recommended by my daughter's therapist, so I'm in the process of learning all I can about ADHD.
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