Learn to Love & Be Loved in Return: Making Relationships Last [Paperback]

Paul Burr (Author), David Loxley (Foreword), Romilla Ready (Foreword)

Book Description

Publication Date: March 10, 2010

Learn to Love and Be Loved in Return goes beyond simple Laws of Attraction to reveal how to achieve a prize far more important than any external 'trophy' you might set your heart on. Whilst love undoubtedly brings great joy to many lives, it can also be t

Editorial Reviews

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I loved the book - thanks so much for sharing. What did I like? - the combination of case stories and personal experience and insight combined with NLP, druidism and quotes. The dashboard is a really great tool and I'm still working my way through it. Well done you, I really felt it gave a huge sense of possibility - i.e. start with X and then who knows.... which is so lovely and uplifting for the reader. and for me (and I'm sure many of those who will read it) it was also a call to action ...

About time I faced up to and broke my relationship patterns. yep, here goes....! --A pre-published version review from www.learntoloveandbelovedinreturn.com

The Dashboard for Success(one of the book's 'Seven Tools for Living Day to Day Life More Wisely') .... is a tool that really adds value.....because it's based on Dr Burr's deep comprehension of modelling and assessing people, surfaced in frameworks that are practical and simple to deploy." -- A pre-published comment from www.learntoloveandbelovedinreturn.com

This book will help you to get the relationships you want by making you aware of the baggage that holds you in a place where you `know' things should be different but you can't break out.

But... be warned this book, as with all other self help tools, is a waste of money!!! Unless, of course, you not only read ALL of it and digest it but most importantly, do the exercises.

It has been fascinating to watch Paul, in his inimitable style, testing the concepts in this book by living through a fairly traumatic year and seeing him come out the other side, changed, a better human being who has learnt to be compassionate not just with other people but also with himself. At times, Paul would say he couldn't write but it was only because he hadn't learnt how to solve a problem with a relationship with which he was wrestling. So this book really is rooted in actual, real life experience and will help you short cut your learning curve, if you allow. -- From on of the book's two Forewords

...this book has been a pleasure to edit. Most of the time, books on NLP are about the laws of attraction and so on. I love the fact that this book goes beyond that. The content is fascinating and interesting. I learnt much from what was shared. --From the editor of the pre-published version - www.learntoloveandbelovedinreturn.com

David Loxley, Chief Druid, The Druid Order, London

This book falls into a gap between too simple and too difficult to understand. If it were either, it would fail in its mission. Paul has put all of his experiences together and created something unique. This book is a DIY guide on how to build in the roots that support what kind of relationship you want and how long you want it to last. And be philosophical and learn when it doesn't work out that way.

Paul shows us how we can choose freely, to start and sustain a loving relationship, rather than be driven by circumstances to make choices apparently beyond our control. --From one of the two Forewords - www.learntoloveandbelovedinreturn.com

From the Author

The Book's Promise

Love brings the most joy and causes the most stress in our lives. Learn to Love and Be Loved in Return guides people how to enter into a relationship and make it last. It provides new and profound insight into the physical, emotional and spiritual aspects of relationships. It discerns love from its disguises (not-love). The reader finds out what needs to happen, beyond love, for two people to come together and stay together in a relationship that flourishes. The book is filled with self coaching tips and easy-to-follow steps; a how-to guide that helps the reader go for what they set out to achieve in love and in life.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 246 pages
• Publisher: Bookshaker (March 10, 2010)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1907498044
• ISBN-13: 978-1907498046
• Product Dimensions: 5 x 8 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8.5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (6 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,804,620 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Love and relationships, it's all here ..., February 28, 2010

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Graham Way "Bolo" (Berkshire, England) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Learn to Love & Be Loved in Return: Making Relationships Last (Paperback)

A practical step by step guide to developing meaningful relationships that will last. Provides insights into what true love is and how to recognise when relationships are not working. Illustrated with case studies and clear self help steps to understand the relationships you have with yourself and others both in life and in love.

This book has it all, read it and let it change your life.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars BUY IT, February 25, 2010

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This review is from: Learn to Love & Be Loved in Return: Making Relationships Last (Paperback)

'THE WORTH OF A BOOK IS TO BE MEASURED BY WHAT YOU CAN CARRY AWAY FROM IT.'

BUY THIS BOOK.

ENOUGH SAID.

1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Refreshing and Enlightening, October 1, 2011

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strawberry - See all my reviews

This review is from: Learn to Love & Be Loved in Return: Making Relationships Last (Paperback)

I was given this book by my very best friend, she told me all about this amazing man she had met on a business matter and how I simply must read this book. She posted it to me and from the moment I read it my life has begun to make sense. I am not the type to be taken in with any type of fad etc but this book is open, honest and genuine and the man that wrote it is very wise indeed. If you give this book a chance as I did, you will certainly start to see the real you, it has made me feel so strong and able to get over my weeknesses and to stride forward. It changed me for the better, which in return is enabling me to change my life for the better.