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Marcia Munson (Author), Judith Stelboum (Author)
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March 24, 1999 1560231203 978-1560231202
In reading The Lesbian Polyamory Reader: Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Casual Sex, you'll quickly discover that the steps toward love and happiness are as easy as 1, 2, 3, and maybe even 4 or 5. And you'll find that if your own lesbian relationship lies outside the “traditional monogamous couple” model, you're definitely not alone. You'll explore many multifaceted and multifarious love relationships, each one applicable to your own liking, if you so choose. You'll find successful models of relationship styles--regardless of your own orientation--from cover to cover, and you'll discover the pleasing polyphony in the many, many female voices of authorities on love and love relationships.

Whereas other similar studies project the limited view of one or two authors, The Lesbian Polyamory Reader calls upon a broad scope of writers, professional women and academics alike. You'll see that outside the gay rights movement that currently pushes for a traditional, monogamous marriage model of gay couplehood, there lies pleasing multiplicity in the arms and hearts of lesbians worldwide. Specifically, this collection offers:
  • “first person” articles--stories that describe a variety of lesbian experiences relating to multiple lovers in the 1970s, '80s, and '90s
  • “how-to” articles--descriptions of the various polyamorous relationship configurations, including ways of dealing with jealousy
  • “theoretical” pieces--the history of multiple relationships, the social implications of practicing a love style other than monogamous coupling, and safer sex considerations
Much, much more than a book on personal satisfaction, The Lesbian Polyamory Reader also focuses on the social implications of this love phenomenon, bringing it into a more inclusive circle of discussion for lesbians, educators, and students of sociology and sexology. You'll find satisfaction in seeing the love so many lesbian women have achieved by not mimicking the “marriage model” of living.

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"Revisits the passion that feminist-lesbians in the '70s brought to our confrontations with patriarchal forms of relationship and love. . . Here we have stories and poetry based on personal experience that now spans decades of herstory and wisdom. These are interspersed with clear academic feminist analyses as well as solid descriptions of working models of polyamorous relationships. . . WILL SHAKE UP SOME MINDS." -- Molly Gierasch, PhD, Licensed Psychologist, private practice, Boulder, Colorado

"Warning! Be prepared to have the dishes pile up in the sink, or just be left on the table. . . You won't be able to tear yourself away from The Lesbian Polyamory Reader for such mundane things as work and evenings with friends. . . OFFERS REASONABLE, LOGICAL, AND PERSUASIVE EXPLANATIONS FOR A STYLE OF LIFE I HAD NOT SERIOUSLY CONSIDERED BEFORE. . . A TERRIFIC READ." -- Beverly Todd, Acquisitions Librarian, Estes Park Public Library, Estes Park, Colorado --This text refers to the Library Binding edition.

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  • Paperback: 264 pages
  • Publisher: Routledge (March 24, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1560231203
  • ISBN-13: 978-1560231202
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 6 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #931,345 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Changed my world, November 20, 2000
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I've gone from knowing nothing of polyamoury to finally understanding what the nagging feeling that "something isn't right" is. I haven't been able to put this book down! My partner and I have finally opened discussions around the topic, where we would have felt threatened. This book shares many, many different experiences, and advice... along with very candidly sharing the emotions and complexities surrounding polyamoury. If you'd like a series of intellectual essays, written by many women with many experiences, I'd highly reccomend this book.
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11 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Open your mind and your heart will follow, March 27, 2000
This review is from: The Lesbian Polyamory Reader: Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Casual Sex (Paperback)
WOW...finally I know there is a name for my way of looking at relationships. It will be a gift for any womyn that I am dating. Even friends. Even if this lifestyle is not for you its a must read. This book is eaisly read. There were parts where there was tears cause it touched me so deeply. This book moved me, made me see Im not alone. Its way above five stars!
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4.0 out of 5 stars OPEN RELATIONSHIPS AMONG LESBIANS, September 24, 2010
Marcia Munson & Judith P Stelboum, editors
The Lesbian Polyamory Reader:
Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Casual Sex

(Binghamton, NY: Haworth Press, 1999) 242 pages
(ISBN: 0-7890-0660-X; hardback)
(Library of Congress call number: HQ75.6.U5L385 1999)

About 25 short articles and stories
by and about lesbians in non-monogamous relationships.
The authors struggle with the same issues heterosexuals confront:
jealousy, ground rules, living arrangements,
primary and secondary relationships,
sex just for fun, long-term relationships,
should lesbians get married when it become possible?
This collection is a bold and original contribution
to the on-going discussion of multiple loving.

Search the Internet for more such books: "Multiple Loving Bibliography".

James Leonard Park, author of
New Ways of Loving: How Authenticity Transforms Relationships.
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polyamorous lesbian, matriarchal village, spontaneous imaginative life, lesbian love companion, asexual relationships among contemporary lesbians, primary lover, bisexual women, bisexual woman, open relationships
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The Haworth Press, San Francisco, The Haworth Document Delivery Service, New York, The Lesbian Polyamory Reader, Journal of Lesbian Studies, Bad Friend Book, Ecstasy Lounge, Bay Area, Marny Hall, Emerald City, Karla Jay, Alix Dobkin, Crazy Elk, Denny's Tune, Margarita Zambrano, United States, Dyke Life, Ellen Orleans, Katharine Matthaei Sprecher, Staten Island, University of Massachusetts Press, Beacon Press, Colorado Springs, Harper Collins
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