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Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief [Paperback]

Victoria Whipple (Author)
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May 10, 2006 1560233311 978-1560233312 1
The unseen issues of grief and discrimination—lesbians becoming widows

The death of a life partner poses unique challenges for lesbians. Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief reveals the touching and very personal stories of twenty-five women, including the author, who were widowed at a young age and forced to create a new life without their life partners. The book follows the widows from the time the couple met, to the time when one of the partners died, and beyond, to show how the surviving partner coped with her loss.

Many lesbians feel that the intimacy felt between two women in love goes deeper than what can be experienced by heterosexual partners. Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief reveals themes common to all these women’s experiences while offering practical advice about coping techniques and resources for support. The widows discuss their efforts to create funerals and memorial services, give their accounts of the overwhelming grief throughout the first two years, and explain the legal and financial discrimination they encountered. The author provides a chapter specifically for caring family and friends, another chapter for professionals working with this sensitive population, and a bibliography of helpful coping resources.

Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief explores the topics of:
  • caregivers/caretaking
  • death and dying
  • grief journeys
  • the similarities and differences between lesbian and married widows
  • the lack of support services for lesbian widows
  • the legal and financial discrimination against lesbian widows
  • the effect of being “in” or “out” on grief recovery
  • the issues faced by widows in starting new relationships
  • spirituality
  • gay marriage
Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief provides an insightful look into the grieving and recovery process, inspiring hope with the knowledge that others have survived this tragedy. This moving book is an essential resource for lesbians, friends and family of lesbians, mental health professionals, medical professionals, psychiatrists, LGBT health providers, feminist and lesbian organizations, and anyone involved with grief training programs such as hospice.

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"Whipple does a wonderful job of bringing the silent suffering and hidden strength of lesbian widows out of the closet." -- Kathleen DeBold, Executive Director, Mautner Project, the National Lesbian Health Organization --This text refers to the Hardcover edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 238 pages
  • Publisher: Routledge; 1 edition (May 10, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1560233311
  • ISBN-13: 978-1560233312
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 6 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (4 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #215,499 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars beautiful and compassionate, January 15, 2007
I bought this for myself because I'm dating a lesbian widow. I barely skimmed a few pages when my girlfriend was cycling into heavy grief again (near her partner's birthday, her partner died 2 years, 10 months prior), and I could only cry for her pain when I read it. I gave the book to her. The book validates that there is no "time line" for the end of grief, despite what people tell you.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Psychology field needs this, January 9, 2007
This review is from: Lesbian Widows: Invisible Grief (Paperback)
This is the first of it's kind... lesbian widows. Grief is a taboo subject that most people are uncomfortable even acknowledging. Now you have two social taboos, together, in one book. The book has stories from several women whom have lost their partners for various reasons, and talk about what that experience has been like for them. It is powerful, educational, and a must read for anyone in the counseling field. But please have tissues handy, parts of this book really tug at the heart strings!
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5.0 out of 5 stars excellent resouce for lesbian widows and their friends, November 1, 2010
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Purchased this book for myself shortly after being widowed. Have gone back repeatedly as I process through the grief. Highly reccomend to anyone who is a lesbian widow or who is friend/family member or is supporting someone who has lost her partner.
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