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Let Love In: Open Your Heart and Mind to Attract Your Ideal Partner

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This is one of the best books I've read on relationships and the subconscious mind. It's written in an easy-to-understand and straightforward way. What sets this book apart from other self-help/dating books in the market is that the author zeroes in on the crux of the problem, instead of glossing over it like most of the self-help books out there. She lays out the groundwork by clearly explaining the functions of the subconscious mind and its effects on our lives. She also demystifies the stereotype and false beliefs surrounding hypnosis. She makes you delve deep into your psyche by making you question the origin of your core beliefs and then guides you through a step-by-step self-hypnosis exercises in order to tap into your subconscious mind and rewire your internal software. When the conscious mind isn't alligned with the subconscious mind's core beliefs then we unwittingly attract unfavorable partners and situations. Our conscious mind desires to find love, a healthy relationship and a happy marriage, but our subconscious mind believes it's far-fetched and impossible. As a result, we find ourselves caught in the same horrible cycle. The conscious mind and the subconscious mind must work harmoniously together in order to create favorable situations in our lives and to magnetize men/women who are nurturing, honest, and compatible.

I am 27 years old and in the past several years, I've found myself dating the same domineering, unfaithful, and abusive man but with a differnt name/face. My self-esteem and self- worth had begun to suffer to the point where I had given up on finding Mr. Good Enough, let alone Mr.Right. My heart was chronically battered and bruised. After reading the nuggets of wisdom found in this book, I realized why I attracted men that were clones of one another. I remember when I was 15, I always believed that the guy I was going to meet would wind up cheating on me. I don't know how I winded up adopting such a false belief but this limiting belief remained with me until I've begun educating myself about the powers of the subconcscious mind. And indeed, practically all of the guys I had dated had cheated on me. The sheer realization that thoughts do create your reality empowered me to change my life. Ever since I've begun doing the self-hypnosis exercises, I've noticed self-respecting men asking me out more. I no longer believe that the man I'm going to meet will cheat on me. Fears of living alone have been replaced with a healthy dose of self-love and enjoying my own company. Ms. Berndt helped me realize that before I can be happy with a man, I must learn to be happy on my own. The internal change I feel is subtle yet palpable. I feel confident and self-assured that everyday I'm drawing the right man to me. A few weeks into self-hypnosis, I dreamt of myself saying out loud in front of a mirror, " I am whole and healed." Indeed, I've noticed my heart had ceased to ache and I have healed. Since the subconscious mind communicates with us via dreams, I knew that the affirmation that I'd been saying had penetrated my subconscious mind. This book really transformed my mindset and helped me recognize my worth and self-love. Friends and family are surprised by my positive outlook on life. I wish it was written years ago.

This book may be targeted to women but I honestly think that it works for both genders. If you are single and wonder why your dating record is blighted with wrong men or women and want to utilize the tools to bring you one step closer to finding your true love, then this book is for you! I highly recommend it! If you enjoy this book, then I also recommend The Genie Within Your Subconscious Mind by Harry W. Carpenter. I hope you find this review helpful and I hope you find your true love.

I have to say that I was very impressed by this book. I have read a lot of books on dating, and attracting the right person and it was so refreshing to read a book that is focused on healing feelings of unworthiness and learning how to empower yourself and create a strong and healthy self image. I am married, but found many pearls of wisdom that I will be able to incorporate into my life in all areas. I will be reading this a second time and referring to it often.

This book unfolds magnificently. Its genius is in the way it leads you to yourself. Debra wastes no pages, paragraphs, sentences, or even words because the honesty demands a kind of efficiency one rarely finds in books of this genre. By being ruthlessly honest with herself, she is able to offer the reader thorough purity. While reading "Let Love In", you will surely ask yourself tough questions which I guarantee will prove invaluable as you realize your thinking patterns and attachments. Part of the fun is that the tough questions are accompanied by bright little light bulbs - whether you are male or female. Before opening to page 1, I was apprehensive that this book would only speak to women, but these principles, ideas, and exercises are translatable across genders and even relevant to other aspects of life. The title of this book could just as easily be, LET LIFE IN. I certainly plan to.

What I love most about Debra Berndt's groundbreaking book, Let Love In, is that it empowers the reader to take full responsibility as the creator of their love life. It's a compassionate, humorous, heartfelt, no b.s. guide to help you open your heart (for real this time), take care of yourself, and let love in! I highly recommend this book!

I've known Debbie and her work for years. From her healing touch to her intuitive qualities to her self hypnosis cd's. Over 10 years ago, Debbie gave me an exercise for finding your perfect mate which included concepts from this book. I learned to focus on "putting out there" what I was looking for, and wrote it down on paper. Not long after I met my partner, and have been with him for 10 years. Over these 10 years, even some of the qualities that I had written down that I hadn't realized he had became apparent. The best part of this book is that you can even use it for improving the relationship you are already in. Or, you can use the same concepts for attracting wealth, freedom, or whatever you are hoping for. "Let Love In" helps as a communication tool, and helps you come to terms with old ideas and beliefs that are holding you back from whatever you desire and deserve. You won't regret reading this gem!

I rarely endorse books... but Debra Berndt is a star in her industry, changing thousands of women's lives. So I had to post this review. "Let Love In" is a groundbreaking do-it-yourself book with easy ways for women to find true love, by helping them transform how they perceive themselves (one woman, after hearing Debra speak, met her true love within an hour)! What makes this book unique is that it comes from a place of authenticity. Debra has devoted her life to helping women be more confident, adore themselves, and successfully attract their perfect partner... without changing or compromising who they are. In her book, Debra shares her own experience of being a single woman for years, before finding her sexy and wonderful man. Reading this book you will understand why Debra is a successful much sought-after love coach. Her book will make you feel like you are in the hands of an amazing expert who will show you how to let love into your life - for real. "Let Love In" will help you attract your own Mr. Right who is waiting to adore you.

I didn't know what I was getting myself into when I ordered this book except I wanted something that would help me and not be full of crap like the popular titles seem to be. There is not one wasted word in this book! It has been a bigger, deeper journey than I expected but one that I have so enjoyed - getting back to loving myself first. One of my favorite affirmations is "My own approval is all that I need." She just hits the nail on the head, gives you so much more information and how to application. I filled a whole notebook journaling and writing helpful information. I wish she had some of the guided meditations (sorry, my word not hers) on audio as that's the only area I fell short in, yet it's a big part of the work.

Certified Hypnotherapist, Debra Berndt, provides practical self-hypnosis exercises and tools targeted to women to find "Mr. Right" which really delivers. While Debra writes most of the book to straight, single women, if you're a single straight man, or a LGBT single, keep an open mind about reading her excellent book. Just mentally translate a few of the words and her insights combined with practical tools from hypnosis can indeed work for you as well.


Interwoven throughout "Let Love In," Debra reminds her readers that what you are looking for is a "healthy relationship" and that "you choose," so her book really is useful and insightfully beneficial for any single person.


All through "Let Love In," Debra provides both insights into some of our core beliefs and our mindset which could be holding singles back from finding the love relationship they desire. And she combines those with Self-Hypnosis scripts which you can use for each of the exercises.


She offers an abundance of Self-Hypnosis practical tools. There is nothing stingy about how much she shares and gives in her book!


All throughout the book, she additionally interweaves her own engaging and amusing tales of singledom which she attests lasted into her 40s as well as those of clients, demonstrating a variety of mental stumbling blocks and life experiences so we could all relate and also be inspired to make the changes we want in our lives.

I found myself laughing out loud at some of her stories, absolutely remembering what it was like to think and feel as she cited from example of singles in their late 20s and early 30s, worried, that THIS partner, if it didn't work out, "was her last chance!"

Her writing and stories are so true to life, the emotions, thoughts and feelings, which Debra discusses and provides practical tools for helping to identify, surface, and address.


When you are ready for love, a genuinely motivated single, and truly seeking a lasting love relationship, Debra Berndt's "Let Love In" needs to be part of your toolkit to use for you to find it for YOU!

This book really says it all. It gets right into our subconscious minds and changes our old patterns. I've also been a client of Debra's and have been doing private hypnosis sessions, which I love. I feel so much better than when I first started. I just finished the book, even though I have had it for over a month, one reason is that I wanted to really do the exercises and take it all in. Therefore, I am finally feeling good and men are finally recognizing my worth and I am also recognizing my worth. I am finally attracting respectful, nice, honest and ATTRACTIVE men. Things are finally kicking in thanks to Debra and her book "Let Love In"...Because I am ready to give and receive LOVE! Thank you Debra!!!

Debra Berndt's book goes deep into the psychology of love which helps the reader really understand why they may be attracting the same kinds of relationships over and again. This in itself is very powerful, and yet, she goes a step further to provide simple exercises to teach you how to tap into the power of your subconscious to draw in/let in the love of your life. Not only is this a good book for LOVE, it's a good book for LIFE.
A great read and one that is sure to top the charts. ---Michelle L. Casto Professional Life Coach, Author, & Speaker