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Letitia Baldrige's New Manners for New Times: A Complete Guide to Etiquette [Hardcover]

Letitia Baldrige , Denise Cavalieri Fike
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Book Description

November 4, 2003
THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO MANNERS, REVISED AND UPDATED TO ACCOMODATE TODAY'S HIGH-SPEED LIFESTYLES, SHIFTING VALUES, AND EVER-EVOLVING DEFINITION OF FAMILY.

Letitia Baldrige is universally recognized as the country's leading authority on executive, domestic, and social manners. She began writing on manners and protocol during her diplomatic service in 1949, and she has been hailed on the cover of Time magazine as "America's leading arbiter of manners." Originally published in 1989, her Complete Guide to New Manners has now been thoroughly revised and updated to incorporate the changing social conventions and enormous technological advances of the past fifteen years.

Baldrige was the first etiquette writer to advise extensively on the subject of manners in the workplace. With her legendary background in both the government and business worlds, she remains the prime authority on the integration of goals that often seem at odds with one another -- namely, family, work, and pleasure. Baldrige provides fresh guidelines on etiquette at work and in every form of communication, from letters to emails to cell phone calls.

She also updates the way we approach the traditional rites of passage -- weddings, funerals, religious ceremonies, gatherings large and small. Here are authoritative answers to the etiquette questions and issues involved in nontraditional family relationships -- stepfamilies, adult children returning home, elderly parents moving in, gays and lesbians in the family, dating for the newly single, and the myriad complications that spring from divorce.

Through it all, Baldrige does not forget the essence of manners: they are an expression of love and care, and they are under our control. New Manners for New Times is a comprehensive encyclopedia that will lead readers confidently and correctly through the maze of lifestyles, customs, business, and ways of relating to others in this new, complex millennium. But it is, above all, a very personal statement.


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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Manners "give us... a feeling that if we do the right thing and avoid the wrong thing, everything will be all right." But, notes manners expert Baldrige, they can also help us attain happiness. That's right; knowing how much to tip a hotel maid can help you achieve internal bliss. Baldrige explains: "When you're nice to someone else... that someone else is nice back to you, and suddenly two people feel good about themselves and each other, and spread their feelings." A stretch, perhaps, but still, an admirable approach to manners. Baldrige differentiates between etiquette and manners (the former is a set of behavior rules; the latter teaches one how to value another's self-esteem), and illuminates both. She covers relationships, rites of passage, entertaining, gift giving, difficult times and communication. Although it's a bit overwhelming at first, the work is broken down into reasonable categories. And there's certainly something to be said for a book that can explain the difference between various caviar varieties, tell you how to write a thank-you note and suggest how to bring up the subject of condoms while on a date. Baldrige, ever hip to today's customs, addresses modern realities such as late marriages and e-mail, and can be quite funny (perhaps unintentionally, as when she lists "complete turnoff questions never to ask a single person," such as "bet you're desperate to get married, aren't you?"). Throughout, she keeps her focus on "real manners," for example, "[I]t's not worthwhile wondering who should go through the revolving door first, but it is worthwhile rushing to help an elderly or disabled stranger through the revolving door..--t's not worthwhile wondering who should go through the revolving door first, but it is worthwhile rushing to help an elderly or disabled stranger through the revolving door."
Copyright 2003 Reed Business Information, Inc.

From Booklist

At last, a guide to doing the right thing in an age in which things change quickly. Many readers will turn to Baldrige's latest not only to bone up on marriage etiquette when "blended" families are involved ("the deserted spouse refrains from talking against the new spouse that has taken her place") or the bride is pregnant (dress guides are provided for varying stages of the condition) but also on proper invitations for homosexual unions (names of hosts are listed in alphabetical order) and how to offer a companion a condom when he is not prepared. Though an advocate of chastity outside of marriage, Baldrige has provided guidance for just about any and every situation that might arise in our fast-paced world. From table manners, a must in an age when so many have been raised eating dinner in front of the TV or computer monitor, to the proper seating of the wedding party, the book takes the ignorance and indecision out of all variety of manners-related issues. Whitney Scott
Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 736 pages
  • Publisher: Scribner (November 4, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 074321062X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0743210621
  • Product Dimensions: 6.4 x 1.3 x 9.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 2.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (18 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #88,358 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Letitia Baldrige's books on manners have sold over two million copies; her previous guide to executive manners sold over half a million copies worldwide and has had sixteen printings. This is her thirteenth book. In her diplomatic career she served in the American embassies in Paris and Rome; in the White House she was Jacqueline Kennedy's chief of staff. She has served as a marketing consultant to many major international corporations and holds three corporate directorships. She produces management training seminars on business behavior for major American companies and professional institutions and writes a weekly syndicated newspaper column and a monthly national magazine column. She is a regular on major network TV programs. Letitia Baldrige and her family live in Washington, D.C.

Customer Reviews

As with all of Letitia Baldrige's books, the author gives more than one expects. Antoinette Vawter Esq  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
Her anecdotes effectively illustrate her points and are quite funny at times. Jokie X Wilson  |  4 reviewers made a similar statement
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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A great pickup January 11, 2007
Format:Hardcover
If you're looking for just one etiquette reference, this is the one. It touches on everything without being intimidatingly exhaustive. Baldridge offers additional helpful thoughts on situations one is likely to encounter in today's life--multicultural celebrations, funerals in other traditions, wedding invitations to same-sex couples--without being sappy or condescending. Having perused several similar books, I also found that this one has the best treatment of business and professional etiquette. Easy to read, entertaining, helpful, and never loses sight of the main point. Was an excellent gift for my soon-to-graduate-college sister--those pesky etiquette dilemmas start popping up quickly.
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70 of 81 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Tastefully Inclusive, Dignified Way To Live February 12, 2004
Format:Hardcover
I originally requested this book for Christmas because of both Ms. Baldrige's conservative reputation and the fact that it was said to address the roles of gays and lesbians in the family. I was not disappointed. It is a fabulous general etiquette book that my mother could respect and would read. And it includes my lifestyle too!

With so much controversy going about these days regarding the definition of family, Ms. Baldrige provides us with guidelines that allow all of us to congregate in peace and without shame. Her anecdotes effectively illustrate her points and are quite funny at times. She also obviously knows how to have a good time-- and in a way that is level-headed and won't alienate those at the more conservative end of the spectrum.

Ms. Baldrige is one of those sort of people you really have to work hard to dislike. And her years of experience lead to a wise commentary that is hardly dated. In her own way, she gives all family members permission to love one another without a bunch of anxiety over who is doing what that isn't anyone's business anyway. And she provides all the tools you need, in the form of advice, to throw a great party. When's the next family reunion? I actually want to go now! :-)

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38 of 43 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A very specialized, uppercrust view of manners January 2, 2007
Format:Hardcover
Author Letitia Baldrige worked as Social Secretary to an ambassador in Paris, Special Assistant to an ambassador in Rome, and the Social Secretary to the White House and chief of staff for Jaqueline Kennedy - and this book reads like it.

If you live on Manhattan's swanky Upper Eastside, throw lavish dinner parties for visiting dignitaries, and vie for a place on a high profile hospital or not-for-profit board this is the book for you. If, on the other hand, you feel a little clueless about the basic rules of etiquette and would like to use the right fork at a fancy dinner party, you might want to try a book like "Etiquette for Dummies." Baldrige comes across as a very warm and friendly person. She writes eloquently and engagingly about the very heart of etiquette - respecting other people's feelings and acting accordingly. But most readers really don't need a book of this length that outlines the proper behavior for dinner with the president (no exaggeration). Comprehensive - yes. Entirely practical to most mere mortals - no.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Good read
Wanted to see what the author had to say on various topics of etiquette. It was adequate, but not as detailed as I thought iti would be.
Published 2 months ago by T. Jackson
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Resource Book
Great resource book for the family. I already owned an earlier version and I purchased the new version as a Christmas gift for my grandchildren, ages 17,15,and 13.
Published 2 months ago by Shirley W. Taylor
3.0 out of 5 stars Thought it would be interesting
I thought I might be reading something that I disn't know from the late and great Laticia Baldriige, but it turned out to be nothing new and, as a matter of fact, a little... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Krissy
5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful
This book is very insightful and thorough, which I had owned it ancient when I was struggling alone with the wedding preparations for my daughter's wedding! Read more
Published 14 months ago by Geetanjali K. Singh
5.0 out of 5 stars great company
Very reliable, product arrived in a timely manner and book was as advertised. Pleased and would order from them again.
Published 21 months ago by exlibris
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent book of wisdom from an awesome author!
I must commend Letitia Baldrige on her updated manners and etiquette book. She really hits the nail on the head with new AND tried and true manners, etiquette and class. Read more
Published 21 months ago by KEITH HERMAN
5.0 out of 5 stars new manners for new times
I received this book quickly and it was in great shape!I haven't finished reading it yet, but it is very informative so far.
Published 21 months ago by nfitz
5.0 out of 5 stars Homage
As with all of Letitia Baldrige's books, the author gives more than one expects. More than, "Open the door to the right, if you are doing someone this courtesy. Read more
Published on March 21, 2011 by Antoinette Vawter Esq
5.0 out of 5 stars Letitia Baldrige's New Manners for New Times: A Complete Guide to...
Ms. Baldrige is a great writer, full of wit and wisdom. This book does not disappoint. Still very current on manners in the 21st century.
Published on July 26, 2010 by Patricia A. Sowers
3.0 out of 5 stars Not bad but mostly common sense
Personally, I find most of the information from this book to be common sense. Like for example not picking your teeth at the table in the restaurant, or not criticizing your... Read more
Published on March 3, 2010 by Elena
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