I read and relate to the blog, so buying this book was a no-brainer. The first thing I thought as I read this book is "that totally explains my ex" and "this totally explains my sister." But the real point is to begin explaining yourself to yourself. Self examination is hard enough, but this book doesn't just pile your issues into a heap and walk away, but lays a path to get yourself up and moving in a direction towards happiness. Although its not the main point of the book, if you're trying to figure out whether you want to go to therapy, read this book first. It gives a behind-the-scenes view of things to think about, language that gets used, and the goals of the psychotherapy process. As for readability, I like that it has short, direct pros; its classy. As to truthiness, I trust this author's insight. This is a striking departure from my reaction to other self help books, where the authors seem like hot messes or bs artists. To conclude: I got a lot out of the book and will probably read it twice.