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The Life We Were Given: Operation Babylift, International Adoption, and the Children of War in Vietnam [Hardcover]

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April 1, 2010
In April 1975, just before the fall of Saigon, the U.S. government launched "Operation Babylift," a highly publicized plan to evacuate nearly three thousand displaced Vietnamese children and place them with adoptive families overseas. Chaotic from start to finish, the mission gripped the world-with a traumatic plane crash, international media snapping pictures of bewildered children traveling to their new homes, and families clamoring to adopt the waifs.

Often presented as a great humanitarian effort, Operation Babylift provided an opportunity for national catharsis following the trauma of the American experience in Vietnam. Now, thirty-five years after the war ended, Dana Sachs examines this unprecedented event more carefully, revealing how a single public-policy gesture irrevocably altered thousands of lives, not always for the better. Though most of the children were orphans, many were not, and the rescue offered no possibility for families to later reunite.

With sensitivity and balance, Sachs deepens her account by including multiple perspectives: birth mothers making the wrenching decision to relinquish their children; orphanage workers, military personnel, and doctors trying to "save" them; politicians and judges attempting to untangle the controversies; adoptive families waiting anxiously for their new sons and daughters; and the children themselves, struggling to understand. In particular, the book follows one such child, Anh Hansen, who left Vietnam through Operation Babylift and, decades later, returned to reunite with her birth mother. Through Anh's story, and those of many others, The Life We Were Given will inspire impassioned discussion and spur dialogue on the human cost of war, international adoption and aid efforts, and U.S. involvement in Vietnam.

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Deeply compelling and deftly researched, Dana Sachs's The Life We Were Given vividly documents this controversial mass evacuation while trailing the heartbreaking narratives of the children-from village life to orphanage to hastily arranged flights to the United States and into the homes of waiting American adoptive parents. The Life We Were Given is a powerful exploration of the questions that haunt everyone involved in adoption.—Meredith Hall, author of Without A Map

"The saddest story in the whole awful sweep of the war in Vietnam had nothing to do with soldiers or ideology and has never been fully told—possibly because no one could bear to. Thankfully, Dana Sachs fills that void with The Life We Were Given, one of the bravest and most wrenching books I have read about the war. All the victims and heroes of the Orphan Airlift come unforgettably to life in this beautiful book, and I will not soon forget them, or it."—Tom Bissell, author of The Father of All Things

"The Life We Were GivenCatfish and Mandala and The Eaves of Heaven

"With its clear and compelling truths about war, children, fear, and hope, The Life We Were Given becomes one of our very best and most important books about America's involvement with the people of Vietnam. And it's so much more. Exquisitely written, full of breathtaking suspense, this book will become a classic, a must-read."—Clyde Edgerton, author of Lunch at the Piccadilly and The Bible Salesman

"This gripping account of Operation Babylift allows the voices of those directly affected by the experience to speak out. . . . Unmatched in its breadth of perspective and depth of insight . . . Sachs has broken new ground in our continued understanding and insight into how powerful Operation Babylift was on our national consciousness and the many lives it impacted."—Bert Ballard, PhD, Operation Babylift adoptee (April 1975), international adoption researcher, adoptee activist

About the Author

Dana Sachs has written about Vietnam for twenty years. The author of The House on Dream Street: Memoir of an American Woman in Vietnam and the novel If You Lived Here, and coauthor of Two Cakes Fit for a King: Folktales from Vietnam, she teaches at the University of North Carolina-Wilmington and lives in North Carolina.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Beacon Press (April 1, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0807042412
  • ISBN-13: 978-0807042410
  • Product Dimensions: 6.3 x 1.1 x 9.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.2 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,156,022 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars A wonderful book., April 1, 2010
This review is from: The Life We Were Given: Operation Babylift, International Adoption, and the Children of War in Vietnam (Hardcover)
"The Life We Were Given" is a beautifully and sensitively written account of "Operation Babylift," the harrowing evacuation of an uncertain number of Vietnamese orphans and non-orphan children who were boarded in orphanages because of wartime conditions. The title comes from a statement of a Vietnamese-American man who had been adopted via Operation Babylift; he is reflecting on his and other adoptee's need to accept and come to terms with the life he and other adoptees have lived because of their evacuation from their homeland. But, the book does not just give the varying viewpoints of some adoptees--also providing the nuanced perspectives of the birth parents, adoptive parents, orphanage and adoption agency operators and their staffs, members of the U.S. military, doctors and volunteers who helped in the days following the frantic arrival in the U.S. of flights of Vietnamese babies and children, South Vienamese locals, and a North Vietnamese communist who took over management of many South Vietnamese orphanages after the "fall of Saigon." Taken together, their reflections give broad scope to Dana Sachs's persevering effort to answer how and why Operation Babylift happened as it did, and what it means. The recollections of those in South Vietnam also give a fascinating and moving description of the frantic final weeks before the "Fall of Saigon." The almost daily descriptions of the plight, and the fears, of those in South Vietnam as they listened to the bombs and the fighting approach and as they heard the stories of the refugees who flooded Saigon while both the military and the rumors closed in. This backdrop frames the the agonizing decisions that birth parents and orphanage directors, in particular, made in haste and rising panic about the orphans` welfare -- including the fear of possible Communist mistreatment of the mixed children of American soldiers and Vietnamese women. The harrowing efforts of one mother of such a child to save her child by giving her child up for adoption, and their poignant reunion decades later, is so intimately described that it is almost too painful to read. While taking a sympathetic view of the participants and their actions, Sachs does not shy away from addressing the wrenching moral questions the operation posed and continued to pose for the treatment of children in war, the failure to help those who were not evacuated, and for international adoption then and now. This is a deep and meaningful book.
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1.0 out of 5 stars The Life We Were Given, June 21, 2011
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History:

During the Vietnamese War, American soldiers average tour of duty was about one year. The American soldiers fathered and left behind many Amerasian children. The Vietnamese are a fairly racist society and they were prejudiced against the Amerasian children, especially the Amerasian children of African American descent. Many of these Amerasian children ended up being abandoned by their mothers or orphaned. There were a lot of orphans in Vietnam during this time, both Amerasian and Vietnamese because of the war. There were several international organizations that came into Vietnam to take care of the orphans. These organizations arranged international adoptions for the orphans that they were caring for both in the United States, Canada, Australia, and Europe.

When it became apparent that the North Vietnamese were going to take over South Vietnam, many people, both South Vietnamese and international, were afraid that the conquering communists would kill the Amerasian children and punish their families. Because of this an effort was made to get as many Amerasian children out of Vietnam as possible. This effort became known as Operation Babylift. Operation Babylift only had time to evacuate around 3300 children. Most of the children were orphaned Amerasian children but there were some who did have living mothers. These mothers turned their children over to Operation Babylift because they feared that the communists would harm or kill their Amerasian children. These mothers often did not realize that they were turning their children over to this organization for foreign adoption. Some of these mothers were able to leave Vietnam and immigrate to the United States. When they arrived they found that their children had been adopted. It was very difficult for these mothers to obtain custody of their children.

Negative aspects:

1. Bashes America - The author makes the case that Operation Babylift was not very successful and that the United States should have left the children in Vietnam. The author basically accuses the United States of stealing the Vietnamese children. This book focuses on a few unhappy evacuees of Operation Babylift. The author also quotes a couple of Vietnamese sources who believe that the Vietnamese people would have stepped up and taken care of the Amerasian orphans when the North Vietnamese took over South Vietnam. The author fails to mention the fact that there were thousands of Amerasian children that didn't get evacuated by Operation Babylift. The Conquering North Vietnamese did not kill the remaining Amerasian children as many feared they would, but the vast majority of these children who were left behind suffered from rampant racism whether they were orphans or not. The situation was similar to the South in the United States after the Civil War. Many of these Amerasian children starved to death or died of neglect. The survivors usually were unable to get any sort of an education. The Vietnamese rarely stepped up to take care of these children. The children who were adopted were treated as slaves by their "families."

This book is like the story of the blind men who found an elephant. They each took one part of the elephant to feel with their hands. One man felt the trunk and thought the elephant was snake-like. Another man felt the legs and decided that the elephant was like a tree etc. The author only looks at one aspect of Operation Babylift and makes assumptions that are inaccurate. Read the book "Surviving Twice: Amerasian Children of the Vietnam War" by Trin Yarborough to get better idea of what happened to the Amerasian children who were left behind. Then make up your own mind.

2. Dry - This isn't an easy read. It is pretty dry and boring but I finished it because I find it interesting to read different viewpoints even if they are slanted.


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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Not an objective look at Operation Babylift, July 31, 2011
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Disturbing read in that the author takes every opportunity to show America in an ugly light. Mistakes were made, no doubt about it, with this operation, but it was with the best of intentions to save these children. No statistics were given in the number of successful adoptions. The author provides anecdotal stories about some of the grown children trying to discover their origins. Quite normal for adoptees under any circumstances. However, the definite spin is that America is bad, bad, bad. The author tries to make her point that if the Americans had only left these children in Vietnam, the Cuddly Communists would have nurtured them and loved them. In truth, those kids would have lead extremely deprived lives (many would have died), but on the bright side, they would have been in their own culture--way more important than the opportunity for education, medical care, food, clothing, and every other life necessity. How myopic and racist is that??? The horrible insensitive Americans "kidnapped" these children--many of whom were desparately sick. By the end of the book, it was tiring to read.
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