People tend to lend credibility to "knowledge" which comes from books -- this may have once been somewhat justified but it's no longer necessarily true.
This work falls into the "a little of this and a little of that" domestic category -- a sort of self-help book. If you read it, you'll encounter some good advice... and also some questionable advice. So the problem here, especially for younger people, is how to separate the two.
Author Lisa Quinn paints with a broad brush when she speaks of certain groups of people (e.g., men) and that was my second red flag. But my first alert came on quickly as this book is poorly-written. Quinn has adopted the street vernacular, frequently employing needless mild vulgarities, instead of taking the time to write with quality. It's much easier to come off sounding tough (the supposed voice of experience) but I wasn't fooled in the least. I viewed a lot of this nonsense as personal guidance by attempted intimidation. Many of us can recall assertive elderly aunts of this ilk who are renowned within the extended family for speaking their minds.
The author describes herself as a reformed perfectionist, especially where homemaking was concerned, (and yes, I agree that this is a big problem); she now views herself as much more practical in her approach to domestic and personal bliss. I think she has about four more stages to evolve through before becoming self-actualized.
Many Type-A personalities feel qualified to assert advice for others at each stage of their tumultuous lives -- at the time, such perspectives just seem right but in retrospect, they rarely do. A central theme of the author seems to be to forget all about what others think of you and enjoy your life. That's okay advice if you don't want many friends. I'm not at all a perfectionist (such people drive me crazy) but I do enjoy actually making my true friends feel special when they visit. Quinn seems to have had her fill of this attitude.
My home is far from perfect in terms of cleanliness and decorating but, to the degree that I can reasonably do so, making things better for my family and guests remains a priority. But Quinn's approach seems to be a bit extreme: she has apparently evolved from being Kathie Lee Gifford to being Kathy Griffin. The subtitle of this book is: Your Ultimate Guide to Domestic Liberation." I hardly think so.
The best feature of the book is the recipes -- they're fairly easy to pull off and I think that they'll work for lots of families. But this is but a small facet of the larger work. In the end, I'd say to resolve any personal issues that are bugging you with a professional counselor and if you love to cook easy, great-tasting recipes get a cheap copy of
Mr. Food Cooks Like Mama in which there is not a single marginal recipe.
Or if you feel like your life is a domestic mess, and you don't mind strong direction, then you can go online with the Fly Lady and she'll tell you how to fix things.
I'm usually pretty liberal on handing out high-star ratings but I cannot, in good conscience, do it this time -- not recommended.