Humor can help you thrive in change, remain creative under pressure, work more effectively, play more enthusiastically, and stay healthier in the process. But humor is also a set of specific, learned skills, and like any other discipline, these skills need to be developed. Lighten Up shows you how to build these skills so that you can see the absurdity in difficult situations and take yourself lightly while you take your job, problem, or challenge seriously.
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Prescribing humor to combat stress and liberate creativity, corporate consultant Metcalf--aided by his business-partner wife Felible--seeks to restore humor to those damaged by childhood traumas and dogged by problems as adults. Although the authors attempt to cover too much psychological ground, they illustrate persuasively, with examples from real life and fiction, how humor can dispel fear and tension in a crisis and improve negative attitudes by recognizing the absurdities of life--even war. While medical and psychological research confirms the value of humor as therapy, Metcalf and Felible warn that conditions such as depression and drug and alcohol addictions must be controlled by other, more drastic means before the benefits of humor can be appreciated. The writers recommend "working happier instead of harder" and observing an "etiquette" of humor sensitive to the feelings of others. Finally, they suggest that developing humor may enhance our last years and aid in facing death.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
Copyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
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C.W. Metcalf and Roma Felible are a husband-and-wife writing team as well as business partners. C.W. Metcalf and Company consults worldwide on the role of humor in managing oneself and others. C.W. Metcalf and Roma Felible are a husband-and-wife writing team as well as business partners. C.W. Metcalf and Company consults worldwide on the role of humor in managing oneself and others.
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CW Metcalf is awesome,
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This review is from: Lighten Up: Survival Skills for People Under Pressure (Paperback)
I am buying this book because I went to a CW lecture/performance. He was a truly amazing man who used humor to help pople recover from horrific experiences. His relating of the courage of the survivors he worked with showing the aburdity, beauty, sensitivity, fragility and toughness of life is magnificent. The humorous perspective gained by his clients is humbling when you consider the traumas they have coped with. I hope some of these experiences are included in this book. I'll always remember and be grateful for his humor and gift of communication.
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I almost put this book in my "to be donated" pile when I began reading it. But, I am SO glad that I stayed with it. It is truly one of the BEST books I have ever read and I will CHERISH IT. (I've already read the entire book, cover to cover, twice!!!) Invest in this book, you will NOT be sorry!!!
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Thank goodness I am a fast reader. The three hours spent reading this supposedly enlightening self-help book are three hours of my life I'd like to have back. I found CW Metcalf to be shallow, without substance and wholly unfulfilling. I had really expected to take away some useful ideas for stress reduction and self realization, but instead found myself wondering how much longer this author could go on, and on, and on with the same thing. Other than a few gems of wisdom borrowed from some pediatric cancer patients (any one of which could have written a better book on the topic), there was precious little one could take away as food for thought. Reading a few days worth of Dilbert comics would be more useful for "humor therapy".
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THE need to lighten up and remain creative under pressure is often. Read the first page Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
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United States, Terminal Professionalism, Bat Face, Center of the Universe, Alcoholics Anonymous, Sylvie Washington, Photo Funnies, Terminally Professional, Captain Haynes, Harvey Brenner, Jerry Jampolsky, Joan Borysenko, Wall Street Journal, Zygo Boogie, Consenting-Adult Humor Contract, Draw the Line, Mickey Mouse, Snake Eating Its Tail, Christian Hageseth, Los Angeles, New Zealand, Steve Allen New!
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THE need to lighten up and remain creative under pressure is often. Read the first page Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
humor skills, negative humor, humor perspective, attitudinal healing, clown nose Key Phrases - Capitalized Phrases (CAPs): (learn more)
United States, Terminal Professionalism, Bat Face, Center of the Universe, Alcoholics Anonymous, Sylvie Washington, Photo Funnies, Terminally Professional, Captain Haynes, Harvey Brenner, Jerry Jampolsky, Joan Borysenko, Wall Street Journal, Zygo Boogie, Consenting-Adult Humor Contract, Draw the Line, Mickey Mouse, Snake Eating Its Tail, Christian Hageseth, Los Angeles, New Zealand, Steve Allen New!
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