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61 of 69 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars What to say, what NOT to say
During a televised presidential debate in 1992, George H. Bush looked at his wristwatch as a woman from the audience asked a question. His subsequent attempt to answer her question failed, and those offered by his competitors (Ross Perot and Bill Clinton) were much more on target. What should he have done differently?

That's one of the real-life examples...
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22 of 28 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book, only sullied by political bias of the author
In reading this important and "vital-to-today's-businessman" book, I was impressed with the layout and presentation of author Jerry Weissman's "In the Line of Fire". He succeeds in outlining the principals necessary for maintaining your poise in the face of difficult and sometimes hostile questions. No other business book of recent memory has done as good a job of...
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61 of 69 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars What to say, what NOT to say, June 29, 2005
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
During a televised presidential debate in 1992, George H. Bush looked at his wristwatch as a woman from the audience asked a question. His subsequent attempt to answer her question failed, and those offered by his competitors (Ross Perot and Bill Clinton) were much more on target. What should he have done differently?

That's one of the real-life examples studied in "In the Line of Fire." Author Jerry Weissman has years of experience coaching high-profile executives in presentation skills. Invaluable too is his background as a television producer who worked with Mike Wallace, one of the toughest interviewers of all time. When asked a crucial question in a public forum, a novice may panic and freeze. Weissman shows how the speaker can control the question, the answer, the questioner, the audience, the time, and himself/herself -- and create and maintain a positive image in the process.

Weissman provides techniques that will help someone defuse hostile inquiries without being defensive, evasive, or contentious. When you get right down to it, most of these strategies seem obvious and logical. Rely on absolute truth. Honor the audience. Listen effectively. Paraphrase and restate the Roman Column (the key issue) of the question. Identify and develop position statements for each red flag issue. Achieve Topspin. Prepare and practice, practice and prepare.

What makes this book additionally entertaining as well as educational is the use of real-life case studies from the realms of television, sports, and most of all, politics. After all, "Politicians speak far more often than do mere mortals." (p. 120) Transcript excerpts and still photos from presidential debates (1960-2004) and official press conferences serve to show what to say and do, and what NOT to say and do. Here we see the best and the worst of the figures we're all too familiar with: Lloyd Bentsen, George H. Bush, George W. Bush, Bill Clinton, Michael Dukakis, Al Gore, John Kerry, Trent Lott, Ross Perot, Colin Powell, Dan Quayle, Ronald Reagan, and Norman Schwarzkopf. The narrative is an amusing but instructive walk down Memory Lane. With such prime examples to refer to, we're more apt to remember their successes and failures.

My sole criticism is that the case studies are exclusively MALE. What, no Hillary Rodham Clinton? No Geraldine Ferraro? No Janet Reno? No Condi Rice? Maybe women don't make the same mistakes that men do. <grin>

Nevertheless, "In the Line of Fire" is an engaging read, aimed primarily at those folks who do presentations and then field Q&A sessions afterward. It is relevant to anyone in a position of authority who must deal with the public or with employees or colleagues. It offers good advice for everybody, even those not running for the presidency of a country, a company, or a community group. The examples are clear, easy to understand, and empowering. This book is a good resource to chew on once, mull over, then revisit before walking out to the podium. An accompanying DVD is planned for release. It will be a powerful visual tool if archival footage of each case study is included. [This review was based on an advance copy of the book.]
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29 of 32 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A remarkably effective book full of useful speaking techniques, July 1, 2005
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
The purpose of this book is to enable one to be an effective and confident speaker when challenged, whether this is in front of the press, during a presentation, or any other setting in which potentially hostile questions are directed at you. As such, there are ways to avoid defensiveness, stay in control, and win over even the toughest of critics.

I was not expecting the brilliance of the book, quite frankly. I read a lot and "self-help" type books on speaking and communications and they tend to start blurring together, so I was pleasantly surprised to be so captivated and helped by this one. The book is easy to read and explores dozens of techniques on how to really listen to the true meaning behind the questions, how to rephrase, of create buffers which give you time to think, how to use various other methodologies to always stay in control. All of these were very well written and especially well illustrated with examples, both of the skills being done well, and not so well. The result is a remarkable clarity on how to improve.

Some of the highlights for me were the sections on avoiding negative wording, and defensiveness. The classic blunders of many politicians were used as examples of how not to respond so we see that even the most seasoned and experienced can make mistakes. I found myself many times wincing through a sense of self criticism of my own past responses, which often unfortunately had the same poor results as those depicted here. Every time, there were excellent examples of how small changes in approach or wording could make a huge difference in the result. I walked away from a short read with some really powerful mindset shifts on the subject.

Overall, the book is truly a gem. I cannot think of anyone who ever presents to groups, or engages in public speaking and faces Q & A's and other types of verbal interactions that would not be greatly influenced by these simple training techniques. While at times the author seems obviously biased politically, he does a credible job in the end of trying to show positive and negative examples on both sides of the political fence. Highly recommended, and a must for executives and all leaders engaged in the practice of public speaking.
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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant and Practical, April 18, 2006
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
It's rare to find a book that's not only extremely informative and applicable to real life, but also a user-friendly quick read.

The real-life examples cited and explained - with transcripts - are ones that I specifically remember. Many well-known press conferences and political debates are used as specific examples: Clinton vs. George H. Bush (1992), Lloyd Bentsen vs. Quayle (1988), Gore vs. Perot (NAFTA debate, "Larry King" 1993), Kemp vs. Gore. Press conferences are also examined and dissected, using Norman Schwarzkopf, and Colin Powel. The latter considered one of the best ever at using the "Double Buffer," Spontaneously.

Many of of the errors of debaters are cited to help the reader identify a missed opportunity or mistake that *could* have been a positive. A victory. But the result was negative; even damaging. By recognizing these errors, we can successfully achieve our own "Top-Spin" in meetings, negotiations, Q & A sessions, sales, etc.

REAL-LIFE EXAMPLES OF MISSED OPPORTUNITIES AND MISTAKES:

Two examples of missed opportunities in this book came to mind to me for 2 reasons: One, because the missed opportunities were damaging, and two, they didn't need to be.

1. One missed opportunity was President George H. Bush in a 1992 "community forum" debate with Clinton. A women asked a normal and honest question. Bush replied. But he didn't actually answer her question. The women then clarified and repeated her question, asking it again, and H. Bush replied, but again didn't answer the question. At Clinton's turn, Clinton specifically answered the question, scoring big. Bush paid heavily for it (in the polls the next day). This question was about wealthy politicians, leaders, and Presidents "being out of touch."

2. In a 1988 Presidential debate, Michael Dukakis had the opportunity to "Top-Spin" a death penalty question regarding his wife, but missed the opportunity. And the public and spin doctors pounced upon Dukakis's reply, and also how he responded to the question (with a lack of emotion).

These seasoned and career orators dropped the ball. In these situations they're asked a spontaneous question that's obviously unknown to them beforehand. They have to respond to the question directly on the spot. Now - add dozens, hundreds, thousands, or millions of people watching, listening, and recording YOU. Your statements, mannerisms, facial expressions, and tone of voice are immortalized, forever. It isn't easy. It takes lots of training and practice.


HOW THE READER CAN LEARN TO BE EFFECTIVE BY CORRECTLY USING THIS:


Many questions, even ones with good intentions, are often hard to decipher unless we've had training. "Left-brained" questions may not be concise, but rambling. But you still have to find the topic, (the real question), and answer it. And even a "stupid" question needs to be answered in a confident, polite, and self-assuring manner. Even hostile questions. Or, Leading (trap) questions.
All of these need to be neutralized, and turned-over to your advantage.

By using this book, the person answering the questions (in the "Line of fire") can use many practical tactics and means to diffuse, organize, answer, and then win the exchange.

Excellent instructions on how to specifically use the concepts of Key word buffering, double-buffering, are detailed. The main principles are identifying and extracting the relevant and "real" question, and placing it into the proper column to answer it. And just as important as "what to say," is what "not to say."

You can use these concepts in many areas of real life: education, sales, presentations, meetings, negotiations, and so on....the skeptical audience, to the prospective client.

And just as important....the readers of "In The Line Of Fire" will have the ability to recognize the techniques that people in power and authority positions, use.
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22 of 28 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book, only sullied by political bias of the author, July 6, 2005
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This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
In reading this important and "vital-to-today's-businessman" book, I was impressed with the layout and presentation of author Jerry Weissman's "In the Line of Fire". He succeeds in outlining the principals necessary for maintaining your poise in the face of difficult and sometimes hostile questions. No other business book of recent memory has done as good a job of clarifying and simplifying the steps for preparing yourself to not only "break even - save face " in the public arena but to actually turn a negative situation into a winning one (turning the tables).

Expecting to find numerous illustrations from the author's own business consulting successes - which are more relevant to the real lives of the business world, I was disappointed to find that he instead chose examples from the political world of presidential debates and govenrment news conferences. Though it can be stirring to relive the stories of your political side scoring in a debate, some more down-to-earth real life business question illustrations would be more likely to put practical "skin" on the skeletal outline, and gain the author an even wider audience.

The author's unnecessary insertion of his own political commentary, such as on page 146 (Hardcover):....

"It was the very office he was seeking to renew that tripped up George W. Bush. As the son of a president and the grandson of a senator, he managed his first term as a political aristocrat."

.... among numerous other political comments, only serve to offend and turn away many that could benefit from Mr. Weissman's otherwise excellent book.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Stall, think, and spin tactics, January 18, 2011
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The book is 10 chapters and will read though fast. It could have been a book of case studies of public question and answers of politicians that messed up and did and did not do well. The good thing about this book is that the author categorizes the tough questions. For example I was interested in handling accusatory questions but I was not satisfied with the suggested responses. So this was partially disappointing. He suggested handling these with stalling, then agreeing, and spin the rest of your response with "But" to close with evidence to dispel concerns. The author did teach me how important it is to listen to the question an get a hold of the essence of it so that I can respond. This is useful with rambling questions. With irrelevant questions and multi-part questions the author did a good job. Questions that are really statements were advised to be reworded into a essential question. The central information of this book is in chapter 5 and 6. They are the only chapters worth reading in learning how to handle the tough question
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Excellent technique, but examples are hard to relate, August 14, 2005
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
The technique presented resonated with me: understand what the questioner was asking, answer honestly, and make sure to tie it back into the point you want to make. He overlaid this with two metaphors (martial arts and a sort of historical/sporting analogy) to help keep it in your head. The book is short, to the point, and contains the sort of lessons that you'll be able to take with you without having to crack out the book.

The only thing I didn't take a lot out of was the dissection of the political debates. It's balanced - independants, republicans, and democrats are all equally picked apart - so it's not platform that's an issue. Rather, I'm assuming this book is targeted at people doing presentations and then opening up to questions at conferences to an audience, in a board room to a set of directors, or in a small room to a set of peers. I found the types of questions and appropriate responses in the political debates dissected hard to relate to the types of questions I usually see and get in a more business-oriented forum. I can understand that business material is probably harder to come by and make a companion DVD out of, but I think the target audience would get more direct value out of the examples that way - and the book would have avoided any pretense of political leanings.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Superb Book - Practical Advice, Quickly Presented, September 5, 2005
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
When I picked up this book and read the jacket I was a little skeptical. Applying martial arts techniques to answering difficult questions? The concept conjured up thoughts of a drill sergeant yelling answers in a command voice. My skepticism was quickly put to rest.

The author provides a methodical approach to dealing with difficult questions. The suggested method is practical, systematic and easy to follow. However, to effectively apply it will take practice. It does draw on martial art techniques and precepts - provide a measured response to address the issue / question in hand.

The suggested approach will allow the reader to apply rhetorical analysis to any question, and frame a credible response that is more likely to be positive. Topics covered include active listening and actually addressing the question raised. Without being evasive or defensive.

Most of the examples come from the field of Politics. Some are drawn from senior executive briefings (e.g. briefing market analysts for an IPO).

Will this book improve the average person's presentation skills? The examples are from the most aggressive debating arena (political debate), however, they can be applied anywhere.

There is a companion DVD to this book - it is well worth obtaining. It superbly illustrates common pitfalls and best practice.

The two resources, taken together, are a very valuable resource for anyone who has to face tough questioning as part of their career.

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Simple communication techniques expertly explained in an entertaining package, July 13, 2006
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This book describes a few simple techniques for dealing with difficult questions from the audience after a formal business presentation, or from journalists after a press conference. In particular, the author explains how to control the interaction with the questioners, formulate answers that are less likely be perceived by the audience as contentious or evasive, and how to forcefully get one's message across as part of the answer.

The techniques themselves could have been described in 4 or 5 pages. Nevertheless the author manages to put together a whole book - firstly by analogizing them to the martial arts, and then by providing detailed examples from the last 40 years of presidential debates. This works out very well indeed, and the reader is left with a thorough understanding of the mechanics involved in handling these situations - based on both concepts and debate examples described.

After finishing the book I really felt I was coming away with something tangible that could be utilized to my advantage in a variety of situations - both professional and personal.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Analyzing and Addressing Pertinent Questions of Interest, May 26, 2006
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
Being able to analyze questions and find out what the interviewer is truly asking is perhaps one of the first steps towards a more peaceful interview. Not only do you then remain in control of your answers, you are able to steer the conversation in the direction of what you are trying to promote.

Whether you are answering business questions or questions about your own life, In the Line of Fire teaches you how to present yourself or your company in an honest and forthright way, while avoiding the pitfalls that could cause you to become evasive and defensive. Active listening is also discusses as are methods for self-defense, self-control and concentration.

I loved the ideas on the "Key Word Buffer" because they instantly promote and change the direction of a negative question to produce a positive result. Turning negatives into positives is what this book is all about. Throughout the book there are real-life conversations and famous situations where questions threw even the most experienced political figures into a tailspin of evasion.

"Never react to tough questions with anger; instead always respond with firm, but calm resolve." ~ pg. 126

If you love this book, you may also want to look for: Feeding the Media Beast by Mark Mathis which I found to be very helpful for my first few interviews.

~The Rebecca Review

8/1/2006
P.S. This book helped me on a recent interview, although
I must say, the reporter interviewing me had my mind
racing for answers. Thinking up questions you might
be asked is especially helpful. After about 5 interviews
you start to figure out what people really want to know.
Keep track of what people ask you because those same questions
keep occurring!

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Learn this *before* you're in the public crosshairs..., January 31, 2006
This review is from: In the Line of Fire: How to Handle Tough Questions...When It Counts (Hardcover)
I think everyone has a fear of being in the spotlight when a Mike Wallace-style questioner nails them point-blank. There are ways to get better at handling those situations, and Jerry Weissman covers them in his book In the Line of Fire - How to Handle Tough Questions... When It Counts. Very good material...

Contents: Agility versus Force; The Critical Dynamics of Q&A; Effective Management Implemented; You're Not Listening!; Active Listening (Martial Art: Concentration); Retake the Floor (Martial Art: Self-defense); Provide the Answer (Martial Art: Balance); Topspin in Action (Martial Art: Agility); Preparation (Martial Art: Discipline); The Art of War (Martial Art: Self-Control); The Role Model; Endnotes; Acknowledgments; Index

Weissman dissects a number of memorable question encounters, primarily as part of the presidential debates over the years. By using examples of Bush, Clinton, Reagan, and others, he shows how the ability to handle tough questions can mean the difference between success and failure. For instance, when Gore and Perot faced off on the Larry King show, Gore was able to press a number of hot buttons that caused Perot to fly off the handle and appear arrogant and volatile. Polls taken before and after that episode show a decisive turn in popularity. Audience questions at the Bush/Clinton debates also proved pivotal in the election. While Clinton came off as empathetic and understanding, Bush appeared evasive and unable to relate to the common citizen. It all revolved around listening, understanding the question being asked, and phrasing the answer such that the questioner feels satisfied.

This book really hit home as I was reading it. I was at a conference where the floor was open for questions from the audience (technical geeks) to a panel of experts. While there was less at stake to the panel than there would be in a presidential debate, the questioners all fell into one or more categories outlined by the author. The really good experts on stage could sit through a rambling multipart question, validate that they understood what was being asked, and then give a concise answer that cut through any emotional baggage that may be present. It was at that point that I knew I'd be reading this book a number of times to make sure I could do the same.

The book isn't large (185 pages), but it packs a wealth of value into those few pages. If you are ever in a position to have to answer questions from your boss, your customers, or the public, you owe it to yourself to be prepared...
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