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Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company; Reprint edition (June 13, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0393340252
  • ISBN-13: 978-0393340259
  • Product Dimensions: 0.6 x 0.1 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,801,721 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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From Publishers Weekly

Here's a pain medication you can't get at the pharmacy. Biro, an M.D. with a Ph.D. in literature from Oxford, asserts that language itself can alleviate pain—particularly its daunting power to isolate and silence. Illness and especially pain give rise to a wall that separates a person from the world, because pain literally leaves us speechless, Biro finds. What sufferers must do, he asserts, is find the words and images to describe what nobody else feels in exactly the same way. We need to think like Joyce and Tolstoy, Biro declares, and search for metaphors that are universal. His thoughtful, lyrical challenge is, in essence, a study guide to some of the last century's most powerful writers, their metaphors of pain and suffering parsed and pondered. Biro even turns to evocative artist Frida Kahlo to illustrate the look of pain (portraying herself as a wounded deer, for example). And here's why we should pay attention to Biro's difficult, complicated lesson: as long as the conversation lasts, we are not alone. (Jan.)
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From Booklist

At the outset of what looked like a rewarding career as a dermatologist, Biro became incapacitated by a devastatingly painful illness. In a matter of months, he went from an articulate physician with a PhD in literature from Oxford to being muted by pain. It wasn’t that he couldn’t speak. He could utter words, but they fell flat when he strove to convey to his wife, family, and physicians the degree to which he was suffering. Trying to understand, they heard him, but his words floundered. In his second book since recovery, he regards pain as a landscape accessible to only one person at a time. Yet giving a voice to pain can be therapeutic. Rather than relying on medical experts, Biro turns to those he views as premier standard-bearers of expression and arbiters of personal feelings, the lions of literature, from Joyce to Didion, from Tolstoy to Plath. With their aid, he explains how those in pain may use metaphor to heal suffering and loneliness when merely descriptive language falls short. --Donna Chavez --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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It was the best thing that could have happened to me!
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Dr. Biro is able to merge his considerable expertise as a doctor of medicine and letters with his own personal experience with a life threatening illness.
Marc Neal
For anyone who has not experienced pain, it is impossible to understand the experience.
Juliet J.

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14 of 15 people found the following review helpful By Marc Neal on January 5, 2010
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Simply stated, this is a remarkable book. Dr. Biro is able to merge his considerable expertise as a doctor of medicine and letters with his own personal experience with a life threatening illness. The result is much more than an exploration of the concept and reality of pain. It is an exploration of what it is to be a human being in the world: thinking, feeling, communicating, and living.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful By Anonymous on February 9, 2010
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The book is fluid and lyrical with insightful cultural references throughout. It is as good as his first novel , 100 Days, and in spite of what is a difficult topic to communicate he manages beutifully. Highly reccomend it and not designated for just those that have dealt with illness or death.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Anonymous on May 17, 2010
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Biro reminds us that pain, like taxes and death, is just around the corner for all of us. Maybe the inevitable is uncomfortable - all the more reason to talk about it. It seems like common sense to explore a language for pain, so we won't feel as isolated when it hits, but apparently not. Biro's book is one of a kind on this subject. He offers us a new understanding of this primal state, along with the hope that by using metaphors to better describe pain, the sufferer can find some way to keep connected to the world. It'd be nice to know the medical community might perk up its ears and listen differently to their patients in pain. It'd be nice to know this groundbreaking work might get some attention. For that unlucky day, when I'm in pain.....
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Juliet J. on April 9, 2013
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For anyone who has not experienced pain, it is impossible to understand the experience. Part of the problem is that pain is so difficult to describe and talk about. David Biro brings us into this world, helping us to appreciate how pain is experienced, articulated, and understood. An invaluable book for caregivers, patients, and family members, but also anyone interested in the cultural and historical insights into this most vulnerable of human moments.
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