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4.0 out of 5 stars
A valiant attempt to communicate that which is hidden, July 2, 2000
This review is from: A Little Book on Love: A Wise and Inspiring Guide to Discovering the Gift of Love (Paperback)
I've read this book twice, and I've bought it four times. The first time I read it, I thought it was great and heartily agreed with the concept of love being work.
After a little growing up prompted by a lot of suffering, I reread it, and now realize I barely read it the first time. Yes, love benefits greatly from working on and with it, but I'd totally missed the other, more fundamental points of the book-that we we love the search, the struggle for understanding of 'life beyond life', in each other, the duality of love (selfish versus selfless), and the idea that what we identify as love in contemporary culture may only be passion, need, desire, and egoism.
I'm humbled enough to realize I can benefit from reading this book, with more of my attention, in times of suffering and times of joy, throughout the rest of my life.
Oh, and I keep buying it so often because I keep giving it away...I suspect there's no open human who cannot benefit from reading this book.
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Needleman is the Einstein of practical wisdom- this is proof, February 1, 1999
There are plenty of brilliant people in the world today, but if someone speaks of "wise men" we immediately think of ancient history. They seem to have somehow dissappeared after three of them followed the Christmas star. Don't believe it. As long as Jacob Needleman is alive, there are wise men in the world today. Needleman is the Einstein of practical wisdom - this book is ample proof. If you want more proof, try some of his other books, such as Time and the Soul. Both of these have utility beyond anything in self-help books, which are too shallow and superficial. In contrast, this is the most important book on love to appear this century. Is your love life a mess? For far less money than therapy, this book will show you a clear vision behind it and path to resolving it. In fact, Needleman understands some very important points modern psychology has missed. And the book is for a universal audience with any background or belief system. Needleman gives the indisputable answer to the question of whether or not love can be, or made to be, of life-long endurance. Now that this book exists, the question need never again be raised. Just hand the questioner this book. Be sure to order plenty - by the time you have read the first four chapters, half the names on your Christmas list will be scheduled to receive a copy.
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9 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Lovely book, thoughtful, with a spiritual slant, February 14, 1997
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So many books on love seem misdirected because they do not really address the whole question of love within the light of our inner selves. Most books try to deal with love in relation to the outer world, a world that in many ways is in deep trouble. This books goes to the essence of our inner selves and how love is a reflection of our spiritual being. It especially points out that if your inner life, your spiritual dimension is under-nourished, then forming a genuine unselfish, loving, long-term relationship will be difficult, if not impossible. Highly recommended
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