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The Long Journey Home: A Memoir [Kindle Edition]

Margaret Robison
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“Margaret Robison has written, with a simple beauty and elegance that belie a powerful and unflinching honesty, about surviving mental illness, abuse, and the constrictions of womanhood in an era when all three were sorely misunderstood.  A striking memoir.”
—Meri Nana-Ama Danquah, author of Willow Weep for Me:  A Black Woman's Journey Through Depression

“After decades of feeling silenced, like so many women of the 1950s, Margaret Robison reclaims her own story. The Long Journey Home is a moving testament to the power of language in confronting the frightening, inchoate experience of madness.  But it is also a wistful, richly textured evocation of rural Southern life amidst a cascade of characters both distressing and unforgettable.  Robison’s fortitude, candor, and lack of rancor offer a refreshing alternative to many memoirs.”
—Gail A. Hornstein, author of Agnes’s Jacket: A Psychologist’s Search for the Meaning of Madness

“This is a haunting book, laced with desperation and urgency. The author’s sorely tested faith in the power of writing to heal the soul is an inspiration to any writer. And for memoirists such as myself, she raises the large question of who has the right to tell our stories. For fans of Augusten Burroughs’s Running With Scissors, the mother’s account of her life is an invitation to enter the labyrinthine world of Rashomon.”
—Kathleen Norris, author of Dakota: A Spiritual Geography and The Cloister Walk


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First introduced to the world in her sons’ now-classic memoirs—Augusten Burroughs’s Running with Scissors and John Elder Robison’s Look Me in the Eye—Margaret Robison now tells her own haunting and lyrical story. A poet and teacher by profession, Robison describes her Southern Gothic childhood, her marriage to a handsome, brilliant man who became a split-personality alcoholic and abusive husband, the challenges she faced raising two children while having psychotic breakdowns of her own, and her struggle to regain her sanity.

Robison grew up in southern Georgia, where the façade of 1950s propriety masked all sorts of demons, including alcoholism, misogyny, repressed homosexuality, and suicide. She met her husband, John Robison, in college, and together they moved up north, where John embarked upon a successful academic career and Margaret brought up the children and worked on her art and poetry. Yet her husband’s alcoholism and her collapse into psychosis, and the eventual disintegration of their marriage, took a tremendous toll on their family: Her older son, John Elder, moved out of the house when he was a teenager, and her younger son, Chris (who later renamed himself Augusten), never completed high school. When Margaret met Dr. Rodolph Turcotte, the therapist who was treating her husband, she felt understood for the first time and quickly fell under his idiosyncratic and, eventually, harmful influence.

Robison writes movingly and honestly about her mental illness, her shortcomings as a parent, her difficult marriage, her traumatic relationship with Dr. Turcotte, and her two now-famous children, Augusten Burroughs and John Elder Robison, who have each written bestselling memoirs about their family. She also writes inspiringly about her hard-earned journey to sanity and clarity. An astonishing and enduring story, The Long Journey Home is a remarkable and ultimately uplifting account of a complicated, afflicted twentieth-century family.


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  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 568 KB
  • Publisher: Spiegel & Grau (May 17, 2011)
  • Sold by: Random House Digital, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B004J4WMDQ
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • Average Customer Review: 3.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (52 customer reviews)
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32 of 33 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Late in the Day Comes Her Story, May 10, 2011
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Given that her two sons have published memoirs of this famously dysfunctional family (Augusten Burroughs in "Running with Scissors" and others, and John Elder Robison in "Look Me in the Eye"), Margaret Robison's new memoir arrives with both a unique opportunity and a liability. The opportunity is an audience for her work. The liability is that much of the story has been told, albeit from her sons' perspectives. Robison writes that she was shocked and heartbroken over the "fiction" she says her son Chris (who changed his name to Augusten Burroughs) wrote about her. While struggling mightily to acknowledge his talents, the hope his writing has provided to others, and her love for him, it appears that the damage of airing so much family pathology has largely ended her relationship with him. Perhaps those who wish to write memoirs should take heed.

Reading a memoir of madness (the kind where someone is psychotic or morbidly depressed and locked down in a mental institution) raises certain compelling questions. What contributes to such breakdowns and what kind of life can those with chronic mental illness expect?

Growing up in south Georgia in the 1940's, Robison attempted to lead a conventional life of meeting the expectations of a distant, repressed mother and a depressed, alcoholic father. She also battled the shame of a growing but unspeakable (in the context of her family and times) same-sex attraction.

But more than the family baggage, Robison's descent into madness and dysfunction seemed to pivot on her tragic need to give herself over to beguiling mad men, first to her husband, John, an abusive alcholoic who later became a professor of philosophy, and then to a predatory crackpot psychiatrist, Dr. Turcotte. The experiences that arose from these associations would have capsized almost anyone's boat.

After divorcing her husband, extricating herself (with police assistance) from Dr. Turcotte, and abandoning a love relationship with a woman that was going nowhere, Robison begins to claim her own life again. She then has to deal with recovering from two serious strokes from which she still has disabilities. An older woman now who says she is not afraid of death, her life feels more like one of acceptance than one of victory.

Compelling, harrowing, and richly detailed, this memoir is a testament to resiliency. We have far less control in life than we want to admit over our family history and culture, our mental health, the behavior of others, and choices that can only be understood in retrospect. Yes, it's a late arrival, but I'm grateful that Robison has chosen, with this memoir, to be the authority in her own life.
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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars An Honest and Touching Book about Mental Illness., April 19, 2011
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I will start by saying that this is an unbiased review - I have not read either of the author's sons books, and knew nothing about the author when I began reading the book.

Margaret Robison's story is riveting, engrossing, and somewhat of a roller-coaster ride to read. She marries her husband mainly because he threatens to kill himself if she doesn't, and they have a few "normal" years except for his anger problems, which become far worse as he begins drinking too much. As time goes on, he becomes a full-blown alcoholic and abuses his wife, and sometimes his children.

I don't remember exactly when the author has her first psychotic episode, but as she describes each one, I almost felt as if I was there, on that roller-coaster, and couldn't wait to get off. They were exhausting and terrifying even to me. Somewhere around her first one, she AND her husband start working with a Dr. Turcotte, who was crazier than both of them put together, and then some, and he gains an odd control over both of them, but especially Margaret.

It is clear from the start to me that Turcotte uses very odd methods, and the family becomes way too invoved with him - at one point even signing over custody of their youngest son to him. They have 2 sons, but there isn't that much about the oldest one in this book, I assumed he lived with his father most of the time. There is a lot about the younger son, Christopher - Margaret seems to have no control over him, and sadly, when she finds out he's in a sexual relationship with an older man who is a family friend, she does nothing, even though he's only 15 years old. In Dr. Turcotte's circle, this is considered "normal".

When the author has her psychotic episodes, Dr. Turcotte has her check herself in and out of mental hospitals, and she describes her experiences in detail - they were horrid. Margaret initially got involved with Dr. Turcotte because she wanted to leave her husband, and for a long time when Turcotte was working with both of them, he seemed to be doing sadistic things, like having them scream at each other for hours. They eventually did get divorced, and Margaret seemed to be doing much better, except for when Dr. Turcotte was around, which was far too often.

Margaret and Dr. Turcotte eventually go on a road trip because Turcotte needs to get away (he's delusional and paranoid, and thinks someone's after him). They end up having to spend a couple days in a hotel where Turcotte is constantly attacking Margaret - so much so that she can't remember whether anything sexual happened or not. This led to another episode of Margaret in the hospital, but this time she signs herself out, and is determined not to see Turcotte again. She asks for police protection from him, and, although she can't remember if she was raped or not, he is already being investigated for insurance fraud, and the police agree to protect her.

I don't know how much harm Turcotte caused over the years she worked with him, but there's no doubt in my mind that her life would have been much better without him, and perhaps a decent psychiatrist would have cured her or minimized the psychotic episodes.

Toward the end of the book, Margaret suffers a stroke which leaves her left side almost lifeless. She becomes dependent on her friends (and throughout the book I was impressed by how many good friends she has), and a nurse, and is afraid she'll never be able to write or do a poetry reading again. After a lot of hard work and time, and with the help of many people, she finally has her voice back to where she's comfortable with it, and is able to do her beloved poetry readings again. She does write about the books her son's wrote, and how they broke her heart, and she insinuates that one especially is full of lies. I will probably read "Running With Scissors" after this, and obviously it's the son's word against the mother's, but I cannot fathom having a mother who is so sick, both mentally and physically, capitalizing on that, and then not speaking, much less being there to help in some way, as the younger son has done. I have so much compassion for this woman and all that she's been through.

I highly recommend this book to anyone who is at all interested in mental illness, dysfunction or memoirs that really draw you in so much you feel like you're there at times.
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars What a mess!, July 9, 2011
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I had to force myself to read this, chapter by chapter. As each chapter ended and a new one began, I had to keep turning the pages to make myself finish the book.

At the end I'm left wondering, "What. The. HELL?"

Of course at the beginning the publisher is sure to point out that THIS book was started before the author's children had their tell-alls. That really added a veneer of class to the book.

"ARE WE JEWISH? OMG! LET'S GO ON AND ON ABOUT IT!"

"AM I A LESBIAN? OMG! LET'S KEEP BRINGING THAT UP TOO! IT'S SO DISTURBING THAT I MAY BE QUEER" Yes, folks, she uses the word 'queer'.

It was hard to tell which disturbed her more: the fact that her family might be Jewish, or that she might be attracted to women. She apparently never had a disturbing thought about her actions on her children.

As I read this, chapter by chapter, I kept wondering why the heck was this book written? To tell the author's 'side' about why she was a bad mother? (She doesn't think she was that bad) To detail all the other crazy people in her life, the crazy crap they did to her/around her/because of her/etc.? If it's supposed to be some cathartic experiment to make her feel better, why publish it? Why not just leave this manneristic tome as a private journal and not call it a book? I found many parts of it to be flat-out UNBELIEVABLE as truth.

It was scattered and reckless, and the writing style left me feeling like I was in a car whose driver had fallen asleep at the wheel. I wanted to find some pity or some redemption for the author but page after page, I could only ask myself "WHY? WHY?? WHY???".

Definitely check it out at the library if it interests you, in case you want to take it back right away.
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