Review
For several years I've taught workshops based on writing for children and teenagers. As part of the course I usually try to include at least one session on the difficult topic of explaining death and grief to young children. It isn t easy. While I've managed to find classic titles from various sources, including The Tenth Good Thing about Barney by Judith Viorst (the death of a pet cat) and Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbitt, there is always something that isn t quite right about them for very young children. And as well-written as these books are, some people aren t happy with the way topics such as spirituality and an afterlife are covered. Looking to the Clouds for Daddy by Margo Candelario breaks the mold. Not only is it one of the best books on the loss of a parent I've come across in a long time, its treatment of the subject is heartfelt and deeply personal without being sentimental or preachy. Based on the real experience of the author and her three young daughters, the book is one that can be read by children of any age. The text is both poetic and conversational; the artwork is first-rate and solid. Like all top picture book artists, Jerry Craft has managed to create illustrations that go beyond simply filling out the text. The innovative artwork flows across the pages and works to create what could almost be described as mini-chapters. Best of all, the compelling mixture of words and pictures drew me in as a reader. I could easily imagine a small child wanting to sit with this book, reading and re-reading it over and over again. The girls in the story are so appealing, their obvious love for each other is so apparent, and the memories they hold in common are so endearing that readers will want to hold on to this story for a very long time. Which brings me to the obvious question: Who is the book for? Well, in my opinion, just about everybody. Yes, the book is especially appropriate and necessary for children who have lost a beloved family member, but it is in some ways equally important for children who have not. It may sound a little odd to say that I enjoyed the story given the subject matter, but I truly did. Death is an inevitable and natural part of life; we cannot avoid it, and remembering our loved ones with joy is a very special gift. Today's world and media exposes children to all kinds of portrayals of violence and senseless death without any genuine follow-up as to how we can feel or express compassion for those who are suffering. Looking to the Clouds for Daddy is a perfect beginning for children to take their first steps toward looking beyond themselves. By reading about Cheyenne, Trae, and Camaryn, children can begin to understand that sad things in life do happen, but that healing will surely come if we face and discuss loss together. This is an excellent book. Highly recommended. --Valerie Storey, The Essential Guide for New Writers From Idea to Finished Manuscript
About the Author
Artist and author, Margo Candelario was born in San Bernardino, California and moved to Harlem at the age of 17. She married Phil and they moved their growing family to Georgia. Phil suffered a massive heart attack at the age of 34, leaving Margo with their three little girls.
Looking to the Clouds for Daddy is her second collaboration with illustrator/friend Jerry Craft. Her first book, Take Me To The Water led to an Author of the Year nomination by the Georgia Writers Association.
Jerry Craft, former editorial director of Sports Illustrated for Kids, is the creator of popular comic strip, Mama's Boyz (mamaboyz.com).