7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
I wanted to like this book more than I did., April 1, 2010
This is not typically the kind of book that I read. I got "Lost and Found" a few years ago for Christmas. I was intrigued by its premise: looking at relationships through the lens of a reality TV game show. In the days before the Kindle, I had no way to sample the book - I just took a leap based on the synopsis, and put it on my Christmas list. It then got shuffled to the bottom of my "to read" pile for various reasons over the next year or so. It caught my eye again last month, and I decided to give it a whirl.
The premise of the book still intrigues me and, for the most part, is executed very well. It follows a group of contestants who are competing on the reality show "Lost and Found" - whose inspiration is take very much from "The Amazing Race". Teams are racing around the world; competing in challenges, solving puzzles, and learning about themselves. Each chapter is narrated by a different person, so you continually get a new perspective and new voice on the events as they unfold.
Each team has a secret, and as the book progresses, those secrets shape the relationships between the team members and each other, as well as with the reader. You have a mother and daughter team - mom trying to reconnect with her daughter and daughter trying to cope with both a life changing decision and confusion about her sexual identity. You have a married couple, both of whom are "ex-gay" (or maybe not so ex-gay), trying to spread the word about the program that helped them leave that lifestyle. You have a team of former child TV stars, both trying to jump start their careers in different ways. You have a team of brothers - one of whom is a nice guy hoping to find peace, the other who....well, he's on the team. And you have host and production crew trying to keep everyone off balance enough to bring the secrets out, create a little (or a lot) of drama, and make for a compelling TV show.
There is no doubt that Carolyn Parkurst is a skilled writer. There are moments in the book that are so real, so honest, and so clear that they can stop you in your tracks. She captures subtle moments in great clarity and artfully sprinkles those insights throughout the story. In one instance the mom, Laura, is remembering a simpler time, when her daughter was younger:
"No one else ever loves you the way your children do when they're young. No one else will ever cry when you leave the room. I try not to spend too much time thinking about those days, because I know they're perfect only in memory, and I know I need to focus on the girl I've got in front of me right now. But sometimes I can't help but give in to it, to live inside the warm hues I've colored those moments with. To remember what it was like, back when she smiled just to see me, when she needed my help to move a spoon to her mouth or to walk down a flight of steps. Back when she had to reach up to hold me hand. Back when she thought I could turn on the sky."
I wasn't sure if I should give this book 2 stars or 3 stars. It deals with a lot of duality and conflict. When all is said and done, the title of the book itself is perhaps the best summation for my experience with it - "Lost and Found". I found many moments in the book that I enjoyed immensely. I found that Parkhurst's prose and insights on many occasions were beautiful and impactful. But at the end, I lost connection with the moral center of the story. Things fell together quickly towards the end - and even though I did want to know what happened to the characters, I wasn't satisfied with all of the answers. Perhaps I'm just not subtle enough in my sensibilities. Perhaps it's just a "woman's" book being read from a "man's" perspective. I don't know. Maybe I'll have to pick it up again in a few years and see what I think. Maybe not.
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17 of 22 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars
What A Clever Idea!, June 24, 2006
First off, Carolyn Parkhurst should get an award for most ingenious idea for a novel. Capitalizing on the craze and glut of reality shows on the air and taking a cue from most notably, 'The Amazing Race' she has created a clever and ultimately heart warming novel about a group of contestants on a world hopping reality entry called, 'Lost and Found'. What evolves is a kid gloved satire that pokes at among other things, the pursuit of elusive fame, the ex-gay movement, and the opportunity to be a millionaire at whatever cost.The novel's strengths and weaknesses are on par with the genre she's depicting. Some characters are severely underdeveloped to give more "air time" to the central characters and story lines that shape the backbone of the book. Additionally, towards the end the events have a literary manipulation to them, much like the producers of the shows are thought of to do to craft a neat and satisfying ending. I would've been even happier to read a longer novel that spent more time with some of the other characters who were quickly eliminated with a few choice words.The idea could span literally hundreds of contestant ideas. (Someone should adapt this into a tv show of it's own! ) It's a rather enjoyable and unique book, and for people who especially enjoy 'The Amazing Race' there is plenty here to identify with.
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19 of 25 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
This Book is a Real Find, June 2, 2006
It's a worldwide treasure hunt, and there are seven teams in the game. Lugging everything from aviator caps to parrots to fake sushi, the players are after a million-dollar prize.
The teams are as dynamic as the game, each with their own secrets. There's the mother and daughter with the strained relationship, the brothers who share all the jokes, the former child stars, the former high school sweethearts, a Christian couple, the millionaire buddies, and the flight attendants.
In true reality show fashion, nothing is as it seems, and secrets have a way of exploding in their keepers' faces. The question each player must answer is whether the prize is worth the journey.
Each chapter is told first person by a different character. This technique is effective from the standpoint that the reader gets hints into the key players' lives. It's reminiscent of the reality show trend of privately interviewing the players during the game, only more intimate. While rounding out the complete picture, it also helps the reader keep track of the game's progress.
Lost and Found is a fast pace take on American culture and how signing up for a reality show can ruin or mend lives. In truth, it becomes a parable for "what you want isn't always what you need."
Parkhurst delivers a clever, sometimes funny, sometimes heart-wrenching tale sure to leave its mark. This read is most definitely worth your time.
Reviewed by Christina Wantz Fixemer
5/22/2006
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