Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love (Hardcover)

~ Diana Kirschner (Author)

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Product Description

Finding true love is possible in just 90 days. Renowned clinical psychologist, Dr. Diana Kirschner, uses the latest research, clinical and personal experience to show you how. Dr. Diana knows the questions single women everywhere face: "Why am I attracted to the wrong kind of guys?""Why is he just not that into me?""Why can't I seem to find the One?" She also knows the unconscious mistakes that women make over and over again in love-regardless of age, work success, or the type of men they are dating.

Over the years Dr. Diana has received countless inquiries from single women about writing a how-to guide on her work. Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love is that book.


Love in 90 Days is fun, savvy and based on the latest research on singles, online dating and healthy relationships. Loaded with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and weekly homework assignments, this revolutionary love book is also an intensely personal journey for each reader. Love in 90 Days guides you along your own path towards self discovery with proven and effective dating advice and tough love. Dr. Diana dispels common misconceptions about love relationships and dating, and share personal stories from women who have successfully completed the Love in 90 Days Program. There's also a chapter devoted to the special issues faced by African-American women, single mothers, and women forty-five and older.

Reviews of Love in 90 Days

"Are you just thinking about getting back into dating? Or is your current dating strategy getting you nowhere? Maybe you're with a guy now and wondering if he's "The One?" Or are you in a relationship now that you know deep inside is failing? No matter what is happening in your love life, Love in 90 Days is for you. Grab this book now. It truly rocks!"~Steve Nakamoto, Writers Digest award-winning author of Men are Like Fish; What Every Women Needs to Know about Catching a Man

"A wonderful addition to any single woman's library...I was thrilled with how many times Dr. Diana exceeded my expectations...Chapter Two (the Deadly Dating Patterns is mandatory reading." ~Bonny Albo, Dating Guide at About.com

"The best-selling, how to book, flew off the shelves of bookstores and a copy seems to be on the coffee tables and reference material for many of my friends..."Love in 90 Days" is replete with pages of heart-filled ideas and exercises. Like the song: summertime and the reading is easy. Go for it."

~Page Larkin, Examiner.com

About the Author

Diana Kirschner, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist who has more than 25 years of professional and practical experience doing therapy and workshops for singles and writing relationship articles for women. Dr. Diana appears regularly on The Today Show, has been a guest on Oprah and many other national television and radio programs. She runs the 90 Day Love Challenge on Fox's Morning Show with Mike & Juliet and her popular Love in 90 Days workshops have been featured in major media around the world. LOVE IN 90 DAYS is the basis for Dr. Diana's upcoming PBS TV Special Finding Your Own True Love. She has been happily married for over 25 years.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 336 pages
• Publisher: Center Street; First Edition edition (January 2, 2009)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1599951223
• ISBN-13: 978-1599951225
• Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.5 x 1.3 inches
• Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (31 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #9,346 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars All single women should read this one., June 11, 2009

By	C. Lopez - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

This is an amazing book. It is filled with lots of great information and makes a lot of sense. Moreover it's fun to read. I had seen Dr. Kirschner on TV before so when I saw this book, I thought I would give it a try. It's also very motivational which is something that women need when they're trying to find someone. I also liked Sexy and Confident: How To Be The Dreamgirl Men Want, Have a Better Life and Improve Your Self-Esteem as it helped me, too.

11 of 14 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A Good One, January 15, 2009

By	Sally "SmilingSally" (Odessa, FL) - See all my reviews

This is a volume of information for single women. Adjustments are offered so that the reader can tailor the program to fit her needs to work alone, with a friend, or with a group. Using a journal to keep track of exercises and homework is suggested. A contract is offered along with other forms that may be filled out to organize the process.

The author talks about her personal life with the trials and tribulations that she experienced. In addition, anecdotes from real people are included that illustrate techniques that work in finding love.

The Program of Three makes good sense. Seeking a Love Mentor is one gift the reader can give herself, and the five-step process nicely guides that selection. Online dating services are listed with recommendations and discussed in detail. Concrete suggestions about fixing relationships add to the value of this book. It seems to include everything. Why, there's even sixteen Flirting Techniques listed! There are specific Love Secrets for these categories of ladies: African-American, a single parent, a college graduate, financially successful, and over forty-five.

Heart breaks and break-ups are kicked about. Eight habits of Living Love considered. Included are a summary of eight steps to love, appendixes, notes, and a comprehensive index. Folks, this is a good one.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars If you're looking for love, this book has all the tools you need!, August 26, 2009

By	K. Germain (Toronto, Canada) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

I was entering back into the dating field and had heard someone i knew had met the man she was going to marry, in two months, by using the Love in 90 Days dating program. I picked up a copy of the book not really intending to do the program - I was curious and intended to read it simply to get a little insight on dating these days. After two short chapters (chapter 2, "The Deadly Dating Patterns", in particular) I was hooked! Not only was I able to recognize past (ineffective) dating behaviour, but Dr. Diana also walks you through numerous, straightforward ways to break out of these habits. I decided to implement the program and have had resounding success!

Dr. Diana coaches and cheerleads you all the way from the initial stages of pre-dating fears and jitters through to finding "The One". Her principles are easy to understand and she offers frank advice and clear-cut exercises and homework. If you're in the beginning of a new relationship, her chapters on "Ditching Deadly Dating Patterns Forever", "Beware of Frenemies" and "How Happy Couples Work: The Eight Habits of Living Love" are well worth the cost of the book. If you've already found "The One", congrats, and do your single friends a favour and buy this book for them! I've even started reading the book to some of my guy friends so that they can recognize some of their own behaviour and implement the principles that Dr. Diana has carefully and lovingly discovered through her own journey to love.