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Love Is a Choice: The Definitive Book on Letting Go of Unhealthy Relationships [Kindle Edition]

Dr. Robert Hemfelt , Dr. Frank Minirth , Paul Meier M.D.
4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (28 customer reviews)

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Book Description

These bestselling doctors walk you through their ten proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circustances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused. God wants us to have healthy relationships with a balance between being dependent and independent. The doctors describe how the most effective means of overcoming codependent relationships is to establish or deepen a relationship with Christ Himself. They describe the causes of codependency, pointing out the factors that perpetuate it, and lead readers through their ten stages of recovery.



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About the Author

Frank Minirth, M.D., is founder of The Minirth Clinic and has authored or co-authored more than thirty books, including Happiness Is a Choice, and Worry-free Living.

Paul Meier, M.D. is a psychiatrist and founder of the national chain of Meier Clinics as well as best-selling author or co-author of more than eighty books. He holds five degrees in the fields of medicine, psychiatry, and theology. Happily married, he has six children and two grandchildren.

Product Details

  • File Size: 3224 KB
  • Print Length: 275 pages
  • Publisher: Thomas Nelson (April 8, 1991)
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B001HZYZAI
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #539,505 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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47 of 48 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Changed my life! March 7, 2000
Format:Paperback
I can honestly say that this book changed my life. I first read a page of it during a boring sermon at church, at a time when my marriage was going downhill. It sucked me in so fast I couldn't put it down. It was a shocking experience to read my entire life story written by complete strangers <grin>. It has a very straightforward style, but I think it's also easy enough reading that a teenager could understand it. The mix of psychology and scripture was exactly what I needed, and I don't know if I could have accomplished effective healing without it. The book is effective alone or in a group setting. My church even used it in place of a Sabbath School class: While everyone else was in groups studying Daniel and Revelation, I was in a group studying codependancy from a biblical perspective. I would also recommend this book to pastors looking to meet the emotional needs of their congregation.
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36 of 37 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars This book started the upswing! January 7, 2000
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Format:Paperback
After finally realizing that I was this thing called "codependent," I began to read all the well known titles so that I could be "codependent no more." They were helpful in that they oriented me to this new concept and defined it...gave me something to think about. Then one day five years ago I happened on "Love is a Choice." I read it voraciously! I put it inside other books as I sat through classes in nursing school. I underlined, I highlighted, I read passages over and over that set fire alarms off in my head! I came to Amazon to see if I could still buy it because I have physically worn mine out. This book was life changing, and gave me a foundation to make profound progress in my recovery. Now I go back and read my journal from years ago and can't believe I was ever that person.
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14 of 14 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Love Is A Choice November 21, 2003
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
No matter where you are in your walk in life, no matter what your relationships with others is like, you will derive value in reading this book. A few pages may be challenging, but don't stop reading. The book is a good foundation for starting, repairing or building relationships at home, at work or wherever you interact with people. It is introspective, uplifing and perfect for a quiet weekend alone.
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16 of 19 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars a life changing book September 27, 1999
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
I consider this book one of the best books I have ever read. It really helped me see how I was hurting myself by being caught up in the patterns of my family.It really helped me understand what a relationship wtih Christ was about. I also recommend "Boundaries" I have given a number of copies of this book away.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book! March 22, 1997
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
In this book, several factors are discussed that lead to codependent relationships,including several kinds of subtle, unintentional abuse. Case studies are usedto illustrate concepts, and the reader is guided gently in understanding how troubled relationships form and what can be done about them.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars See how things really are March 28, 2009
Format:Paperback
I read this book about ten years ago after a terrible break-up. The scales were pealed from my eyes.

This book really did help me break bad behavior and thinking patterns that doomed me to unhappiness. I only read the book once, but that was all it took. I was permanently changed for the better.

Do you pine over lost loves or look for some type of sign to see if you should persue them because it may be "meant to be" and they may be "the one"? Well, stop it! That kind of behavior will ruin your life. Quit locking yourself away in your room listening to crappy sad music and buy this book.

Spoiler alert: There are many "ones" out there, so don't sweat it. Good luck and God be with you.
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16 of 23 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Don't be fooled by the children January 7, 2003
Format:Paperback
who threw a tantrum because this book included Christian principles and therefore gave it only one star. It's very easy to read and makes VERY CLEAR points. You can not read this book and fail to understand codependency (which most of us suffer to some small degree) and the solutions. If you don't agree with a few small points, don't whine and just skip them. Excellent, excellent book.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book May 1, 2012
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
The book has GREAT content! Every one who reads it can come away changed! It gives so much insight into why we think and react the way we do, and others. Some chapters may not apply to you, but read them anyway, it will help you better understand others who it does apply to. Try walking in their shoe!
The condition of the book was good but very warn. It was still intact and readable, at any price it is a bargain!
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
2.0 out of 5 stars It was a disappointment.
It was the right item, but not new as advertised, much smaller with yellow faded pages. I also realized the price of the book is the same as I paid. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Yolanda Thomas
5.0 out of 5 stars Love is a Choice for interpersonal relationship help
We have bought and given around 30 of these books away as gifts over the years!

Without the information and application of the information in the book one has no better... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Lisa Cooper
5.0 out of 5 stars Good book.
Good book. I read it through once and I plan on doing it again and working through it. It helped me to realize why I have done certain things through my life and now I can work on... Read more
Published 3 months ago by shelly stasel
5.0 out of 5 stars Response rating on Love Is A Choice
The bookcame quickly and in excellent condition. Thank you for the packaging I look forward to doing bu'ness with you againg. God Bless you and yours.
Published 6 months ago by Lianne Hill
1.0 out of 5 stars It was great
It was a really good book for a co-dependant to read. I would totally recommend it to anyone who needs help
Published 10 months ago by Tammy Parkinson
5.0 out of 5 stars for everyone
This book helped me find myself. It helped me understand others. It helped me be more self confident. It helped me become a happy person again.
Published 11 months ago by grandaddy
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing truths!
99% of us grow up in dysfunctional families of some kind. This boo helps set your heart on some solid footing. Read more
Published 13 months ago by Susan S. Pingleton
5.0 out of 5 stars slow read but worth it
I have been reading this book for a couple of months now. Since beginning this book, I've made considerable progress in my recovery from codependency, which is no trifling... Read more
Published 13 months ago by T. Dodd
3.0 out of 5 stars not a bad read
I got this for me...it's okay. A bit too technical in wording for my taste but it's got some good stuff too.
Published 16 months ago by Kristen Cunningham
5.0 out of 5 stars Stop Looking for Love in all the Wrong Places!
Love is a Choice, not only answered Why we look for love, but the book also offered a means of How love can be found.
Published 19 months ago by PositiveAtt
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