Tamara was inspired to write this book because of the frustration she found in the lack of information provided for parents in her situation. She was unable to find books that addressed her particular questions and took the viewpoint of a parent. She couldn't find information on how to deal with the stares and uncomfortable situations that arose in response to her daughter's arm. She set out to change that. She wants to let parents know that they aren't alone and that help can be found. She presents children with limb differences or amputations as whole children and enables parents to acknowledge their anger and fear and move on to the reality of the situation-they have a child to love and protect.
Information is provided about institutions that are able to help both parents and children emotionally and physically. She has included quotes, proverbs, and the personal stories of others to inspire and give guidance as to how to deal with this lifelong situation.
