Love Life [Paperback]

Ray Kluun (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: January 1, 2003

Dan and Carmen are hip, healthy and wealthy. They have their own companies, plenty of money and friends and are the proud parents of one year-old Luna...They live the cool life in Amsterdam, until beautiful and optimistic Carmen is diagnosed with breast cancer. With that their world transforms into a roller-coaster ride of doctors and hospitals. As his way of coping, the hedonistic Dan faithfully accompanies Carmen to her chemo and radiotherapy treatments, but spends his nocturnal hours crazily immersed in the nightlife and women of Amsterdam and Miami. "Love Life" is the account of a relationship and a terminal illness, devoid of fake sentiment and told with humour and deep humanity. And it is very much an ode to love. 'A wonderful novel about courage, helplessness and real love' - "Cosmopolitan Germany".

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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

In the Dutch Kluun's brutal roman à clef, Dan and Carmen van Diepen are successful professionals in their 30s, raising their young daughter in Amsterdam's suburbs while still partying zestfully, when Carmen's diagnosis with an aggressive form of breast cancer puts her life on hold. Dan, who narrates, soon rages against the incompetence and insensitivity of the doctors treating Carmen, and the couple alternate between manic joy and terror as they realize Carmen won't live to see their daughter, Luna, grow up. At the same time, confirmed club hound Dan pursues numerous infidelities, comments on his greatly diminished affection for his stricken wife and offers few apologies. As Carmen grows increasingly ill, they learn to forgive each other's faults, and Dan takes on the heavy burden of Carmen's decline. The final chapters find Carmen, Dan and their colorful cohort of yuppie friends pulling together to support Carmen's decision to end her life with dignity. Kluun's novel was a bestseller in Europe, and the translation is poignant, humorous and very graphic on the cancer. Kluun's take on marriage may be too European for the States, but his lacerating portraits of the medical establishment will certainly hit home. (Aug.)
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From Booklist

In this wrenching, humorous, compelling novel based on his wife's death at 36 from breast cancer, Kluun turns on a dime. Reacting to wife Carmen's anxiety about chemo baldness, husband Dan is at first wry, but then desolation sets in: Carmen is afraid of losing her breast. I'm afraid of losing the Carmen I know. A lonely anxiety I don't share with anyone. Maybe I attach more importance to Carmen's breast than I do to Carmen's life? The many side effects of chemo—the body's protest against it—ultimately aren't as bad as the increasingly painful and difficult insertions of needle and tube. Throughout, Carmen's spirit surprises. When her swelling belly (a side effect) conjures thoughts of shopping for maternity clothes, We're hoping for a boy, she ironically gushes. She leaves Dan when he drunkenly crashes the car after carousing with other women, but reconciles with him, chooses euthanasia, welcomes final visitors, and says good-bye. Scott, Whitney --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 256 pages
• Publisher: Imprint unknown (January 1, 2003)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0330449869
• ISBN-13: 978-0330449861
• Product Dimensions: 6.8 x 4.4 x 1.1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,479,915 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Journey with cancer and love, October 3, 2007

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Littlet T "Tra" (Cypress, Texas) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Love Life (Paperback)

What an intriguing journey first with a married man going through his darkest hours with his wife being diagnosed with terminal cancer. He is no saint by any means and comes to terms with himself and his relationship with his wife. We also go through the journey the wife makes throughout the book to come to terms with the word cancer to the inevitable words "terminal cancer". What a strong insightful women the wife is. The fight and will to live, the day to day struggles, the uncertain future, their small toddler and what the future lies with just the man and his daughter. The struggle, the fight, the cancer, what the body endures......such a great book!

3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Painfully honest, July 6, 2008

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Paloma Almeida (Rio de Janeiro, Brazil) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Love Life (Paperback)

I am very surprised by the low rating and the remarks I have read here about this book. Not because the book is not controversial, but because it is very well written, surprisingly (and painfully) honest and very original on top of that. The subject matter is very polemic, but I am sorry to see that some of the voters can not see past the first layer of the story line and subsequently vote low for a book they even enjoyed. Does the fact that the book is based on a real life story make it less valuable than fiction? This book is originally written in Dutch (Komt een vrouw bij de dokter). For most Dutch people it is very hard to believe such narrowmindedness.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great book that made me cry, January 1, 2009

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Sarita (the Netherlands) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Love Life (Paperback)

I could not put this book down and finished it very fast after starting it.
If you want to read something upbeat, don't pick up this book. If you have a soul you will cry while reading this book. It's painful, beautiful and yes you do get angry at the main character for his behaviour but for me that didn't take away from quality of the book.