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Love Me or Else: The True Story of a Devoted Pastor, a Fatal Jealousy, and the Murder that Rocked a Small Town Mass Market Paperback – February 28, 2012

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  • Mass Market Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: St. Martin's True Crime; Original edition (February 28, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0312540825
  • ISBN-13: 978-0312540821
  • Product Dimensions: 4.1 x 0.8 x 6.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 5 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (44 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #773,857 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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About the Author

Colin McEvoy and Lynn Olanoff are reporters for The Express-Times, a daily newspaper based in Easton, Pennsylvania. They covered the Rhonda Smith murder case extensively and it was during a jailhouse interview with them that Mary Jane Fonder first acknowledged responsibility for her crime. Colin and Lynn have been married since 2008. Lynn is a graduate of Drew University in Madison, New Jersey, and Colin graduated from East Stroudsburg University in East Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania. They currently reside in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania.

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The door shouldn’t have been unlocked.
Judy Zellner slipped her key into the side door at Trinity Evangelical Lutheran Church, but the door fell open before she could turn it. She looked down at the doorknob, surprised and more than a little annoyed. This door is always supposed to be locked, everybody in the church knows that. Even out here in rural Bucks County, Pennsylvania, the door has to be locked.
Whoever’s in here is going to get a piece of my mind, Judy thought, slipping the key back into her purse and stepping into the hallway. She was glad to get out of the cold on this winter day of January 23, 2008.
The door to the church office was shut, but through the large interior window Judy could see the light was on. She hadn’t expected anybody to be there that Wednesday afternoon, when she came on her twice-weekly routine to clean the church. She glanced briefly through the window, but nobody was sitting behind the desk inside the small office. Perhaps, she thought, Pastor Shreaves is upstairs somewhere.
But first things first. Judy walked straight past the office, dropped her purse and coat onto the table in the narthex, and headed for the bathroom.
The sixty-year-old grandmother of six had been faithfully attending Trinity Evangelical Lutheran Church for the last twenty-six years. Even after she moved from nearby Wassergass to Allentown, the largest city in the Lehigh Valley region, she continued to call this church her own, and encouraged her three children to regularly attend with her. Judy’s home in Allentown was twelve miles away, and she had to pass by several closer churches on her way to this one, but she never once considered going somewhere else. She loved her church family here at this small parish. She loved singing in the choir and being involved with everybody’s lives.
The church sits along Route 212, a winding country road that serves as a major thoroughfare in Springfield Township. The town of about five thousand residents rests five miles southeast of the Allentown and Bethlehem metropolitan area, and about forty miles north of Philadelphia. Bucks County grows far more suburban as it borders Philadelphia on its southern end, but here in the northern end of the county, Springfield Township remains an example of the area’s rural heritage.
At over thirty square miles, Springfield Township is the county’s second largest municipality in terms of land area, and about half of it remains undeveloped, preserved as agricultural open space or completely vacant land. More than 44 percent of the township consists of heavy woodlands, and much of the land is characterized by large rocky hills cut by valley streams and creeks.
And that’s just fine with the residents of Springfield Township. Most of the township’s residents—98 percent of which are white—fall between ages forty-five and sixty-four, and are perfectly content to drive outside the area for goods, services, and places of employment if it means maintaining Springfield’s rural character. In a survey, when asked what types of stores, businesses and professional services were needed most in the township, 51 percent responded, “none needed.”
Judy passed the church office again on her way up to the pastor’s office, where she found his door was locked. Judy was surprised. Since he joined the church nearly three years ago in March 2005, Pastor Gregory Shreaves was almost always here. Judy hadn’t yet met the new secretary, Megan, who was hired a few days ago. Maybe she’s here somewhere, she thought.
Judy grabbed her cleaning supplies from the closet down the hall and went back downstairs to the church office. Nobody was behind the desk, so Judy started walking toward the cubbyhole of file cabinets in the corner of the room.
“Megan?” Judy called, tilting her head to see if anybody was in the corner. “Megan, are you back there?”
As she passed the corner of the desk, Judy froze as something caught her eye. Crumpled behind the desk lay the body of a woman, her legs folded at the knees, her head and upper body curled forward, pointing toward the ceiling.
There was a great deal of blood. The woman’s head was soaked in a crimson puddle, strands of her long brown hair flowing outward in all directions. Judy looked at the woman’s chest and found it motionless. Then her eyes drifted to the wound on the right side of the woman’s head.
Judy’s thoughts immediately turned to her many hours spent watching CSI: Crime Scene Investigation on television. Don’t touch the body, she thought.
She froze. What if the person who did this was still in the church? Oh my God, she thought. Somebody could kill me.
Judy grabbed the cordless phone sitting on the desk and ran outside. Fumbling with it, she dialed 911.
“911, where is the emergency?” an operator said.
Judy screamed into the phone: a primal, fearful sound that was impossible to decipher. The operator tried to calm her down and instructed her to stop screaming, calming Judy long enough to find out the address she was calling from.
“Okay, what’s the problem?” the operator asked.
“There’s a girl murdered in our office!” Judy said, her voice loud, nearly hysterical.
“There’s a girl what?” the operator asked.
“Murdered!” Judy shouted back, breathing long, panicked breaths.
“Ma’am, listen, calm down,” the operator said. “What do you mean? What’s wrong with her?”
“She’s lying behind the desk, full of blood!” Judy said, her voice growing higher, her breaths getting so heavy she started to gasp between phrases. “I’m the cleaning lady at the church … and I just got here.…”
“Is she awake and able to talk to you?”
“No, it looks like she’s dead!” Judy said. “There’s blood all over her head and around her head! Oh my God!”
“Okay. And ma’am, you don’t want to go near her?” the operator asked.
“I don’t know if somebody else is in there! It’s a big church!”
After asking for Judy’s name, the operator continued, “All right Judy. Just breathe for a sec, okay? Don’t touch anything, okay?”
“I didn’t, I didn’t,” Judy said, sobbing. She was starting to find it difficult to say anything at all. “I … I … ah…”
“Okay, where do you see the blood on her?” the operator asked.
“It’s all over her!”
“All over her?”
“Yes, it’s all over the floor!” Judy said, crying even harder. “She must be dead!”
“All right Judy, just try to calm down. I know it’s not something pleasant to see. Does she look like she’s breathing at all? Does she look pale? Does she look blue?”
“She looks blue,” Judy responded. She explained that a new secretary was recently hired, but that Judy didn’t know what she looks like, and didn’t know if the woman inside the church is her or not.
“Okay, all right Judy, listen. We have someone on the way, okay?”
*   *   *
Matthew Compton and Michael Maguire were just finishing a late breakfast around 1 o’clock at the local diner, Vera’s Country Cafe, when they received a call on their pager. “Possible expiration,” the page read. An unresponsive female had been found in a puddle of blood.
The two paramedics with Upper Bucks Regional Emergency Medical Services rushed out to their ambulance, Maguire taking the wheel. Fortunately the church was just a tenth of a mile up the road.
Probably an elderly woman who took a spill and hit her head, Maguire thought. If this were the nearby city of Bethlehem, where he also worked as a paramedic, he might have been expecting something more serious, but little ever happens in Springfield Township. In his fourteen years as a paramedic, most of his calls from Upper Bucks have been limited to medical situations or traffic accidents from motorists unaccustomed to the winding country roads.
Back in the late 1980s, when Interstate 78 was expanded into the area, it was thought Springfield Township’s vast open space would become subject to extensive growth and turn into a bedroom community of sorts for residents who traveled to New York City or Harrisburg. This prediction proved false. While neighboring towns like Richland, Milford, Williams, and Lower Saucon Townships all experienced significant growth, Springfield Township generally saw a few new single-family homes on a couple acres of land. In fact, it was the only municipality among its neighbors to actually see a decrease in its population.
So as its neighbors saw the rise of brand-new large-lot residential subdivisions, Springfield Township continued to maintain the character of an earlier time, with numerous farms, inns, historic villages, and even a covered bridge still intact. Perhaps the township’s biggest claim to fame is the old home of Eric Knight, author of the 1940 book Lassie Come-Home. Knight wrote the book right there in Springfield, and his family dog, Toots, on whom the famous fictional collie was based, is buried on the property in what was the dog’s favorite hill.
The ambulance pulled into the church parking lot, and Compton and Maguire stepped out and rushed toward the church. A gray-haired man wearing a blue sweater, alerted by the sirens, greeted them as they approached the door.
“Can I help you?” the man asked confusedly.
“Somebody called for an ambulance?” Maguire asked.
“No,” the man shook his head. “I’m the only one here. Nobody called.”
Maguire pulled out his pager and read...

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This is a good book, a very fast read.
Georgia Girl
This book was very well written and full of details.
Jean Tjornhom
I recommend it for true crime buffs like myself.

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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful By Shauna on August 5, 2012
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I became interested in this story after having watched the crime profiled on Dateline. Wanting to know more about it, I was excited to come across "Love Me or Else". The book doesn't disappoint. It's not too long, it gives a good history of the characters and crime, and best of all, the court trial is condensed very nicely. I tend to like true crime books that summerize the court proceedings, rather than just relying on filling the book with verbatim transcripts. I always keep a shelf of my favorite true crime books that I will read again someday, and this book definitely makes the shelf. It's a good, easy weekend read. I recommend it for true crime buffs like myself.
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14 of 17 people found the following review helpful By RhodeIsland 1969 on March 6, 2012
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The writing team of McEvoy and Olanoff, a married couple who write for The Express-Times of Easton, PA, are a welcome addition to the true crime genre. No cliche-ridden, unedited passages and gratuitous descriptions of gore that frequently befall true crime books are to be found here. The authors set the murder of the unfortunate Rhonda Smith in an interesting context, and they know the local area well. It's only for the predictable nature of the crime and the trial that this book doesn't merit five stars.

Overall, highly recommended.
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10 of 12 people found the following review helpful By Jean Tjornhom on March 4, 2012
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This book was very well written and full of details. I had to keep reading to see how it would end. I do wish that there would be closure for Mary Jane Fonder's father, perhaps some day. I look forward to more books by Olanoff and McEvoy.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Amanda Burke on June 29, 2012
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A well-done True-Crime tale. I appreciated that photos were included (important with True-Crime, but sometimes not included in the kindle versions). It's yet another example of someone feeling "excluded" from the group taking revenge. In this case unique because it's a woman in her 60s.
One of the primary functions of a church is creating fellowship and community. It would be nice if someone would write another book that delves more deeply into all the circumstances and psyches involved. For privacy reasons alone, that probably won't happen. But if it does, I'll read it for sure!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Eddie Wannabee VINE VOICE on September 5, 2014
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Poorly written, wacky evil perpetrator, its certainly at the bottom of the genre. Is kind of funny, but sometimes you get a book that has no endorsements whatsoever from any reputable source, but you still want to give it the benefit of the doubt. This is one of those books that no self respecting professional reviewer would want to endorse. Besides some of the photographs, which they are always a plus to see the faces of the protagonists, the book rolls along without much in the way of good reading, and when someone who has read countless books of this kind comes across a book like this, it doesn't take long to know the investment did not yield a good read. Surprised, truly, at the many glowing reviews, but the cold fact remains that this story about a distorted personality, and the way it is told, is below par. Badly organized, flat storytelling, what is to like? 2 Stars.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Powell's Partisan on July 13, 2012
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This is unlike any case I have ever seen or read about! Picturesque little country church. Sweet, sincere congregation where everbody knows everybody else -- and has forever. Wholesome as an ice cream social -- until one innocent member is murdered IN the church!
Never have I known of a more peculiar perpetrator! And those peculiarities make it exceptionally difficult to figure out "whodunnit". Over and over again, the murderer proved to be a living, breathing non-sequitur! I found myself repeatedly saying "Whaa-a-a-a????"
The writing is not particularly sophisticated. But then who needs sophistication with a story this weird?! Read it!
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Dan Bogaty on January 1, 2013
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LOVE ME OR ELSE, written by newspaper reporters Colin McEvoy and Lynn Olanoff, chronicles the story of the sad case of Mary Jane Fonder, a less-than-well-preserved 60 year old woman and longtime faithful churchgoer who shot fellow parishioner, Rhonda Smith, to death as Rhonda worked in the church office. The incident took place in 2008 in Springfield Twp., PA, and was the result of a number of factors, the first being that Mary Jane was mentally ill, a condition which was at least partly responsible for the fact that she talked non-stop and in non-sequiturs which made her a chore - and often an irritation - to be around, though she certainly seemed benign and non-threatening.
Due to this facet of her personality she often felt excluded, not invited to "in crowd" gatherings, for example, and was subsequently hurt.
She also had an unrequited crush on her 20-years-younger pastor, Gregory Shreaves, and couldn't understand why he wouldn't admit to feeling the same. She hounded him by leaving many rambling messages on his machine and even breaking into his house and leaving food in case he needed it. Shreaves grew increasingly uncomfortable and eventually frightened of Mary Jane.
And finally she was jealous of Rhonda, a recent church member who was younger and prettier than herself. The church had helped Rhonda out in times of financial hardship, which not only had not been done for Mary Jane, but which she had been unaware, increasing her sense of isolation and exclusion. Finally, when the regular church secretary was out, Rhonda was chosen to fill in, and Mary Jane's unhappiness and jealousy boiled over resulting in Rhonda's death.

The book contains the standard elements of true crime including an interesting police investigation and a short trial.
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