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Love Me, Hate Me: Barry Bonds and the Making of an Antihero [Paperback]

Jeff Pearlman
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February 20, 2007

No player in the history of baseball has left such an indelible mark on the game as San Francisco Giants outfielder Barry Bonds. In his twenty-year career, Bonds has amassed an unprecedented seven MVP awards, eight Gold Gloves, and more than seven hundred home runs, an impressive assortment of feats that has earned him consideration as one of the greatest players the game has ever seen. Equally deserved, however, is his reputation as an insufferable braggart, whose mythical home runs are rivaled only by his legendary ego. From his staggering ability and fabled pedigree (father Bobby played outfield for the Giants; cousin Reggie Jackson and godfather Willie Mays are both Hall of Famers) to his well-documented run-ins with teammates and the persistent allegations of steroid use, Bonds inspires a like amount of passion from both sides of the fence. For many, Bonds belongs beside Babe Ruth and Hank Aaron in baseball's holy trinity; for others, he embodies all that is wrong with the modern athlete: aloof; arrogant; alienated.

In Love Me, Hate Me, author Jeff Pearlman offers a searing and insightful look into one of the most divisive athletes of our time. Drawing on more than five hundred interviews -- with former and current teammates, opponents, managers, trainers, friends, and outspoken critics and unapologetic supporters alike -- Pearlman reveals, for the first time, a wonderfully nuanced portrait of a prodigiously talented and immensely flawed American icon whose controversial run at baseball immortality forever changed the way we look at our sports heroes.


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Pearlman, former staff writer with Sports Illustrated and Newsday, delivers a fully realized, if hardly appealing, portrait of baseball slugger Barry Bonds, who has perplexed teammates, fans, and the press for years with sometimes-indifferent play, an almost-joyful cruelty toward seemingly everyone (except kids), and a near-total disregard for the rules of the game, if allegations of his use of performance-enhancing drugs are true. At the same time, Pearlman's Barry Bonds is a man of astonishing talent and, on occasion, humanity. Bonds' career is fully traced here--from his pampered boyhood as the son of another gifted but troubled player (Bobby Bonds) through his successes at Arizona State, through his years as a superstar with the Pittsburgh Pirates and San Francisco Giants, including his pursuit of Hank Aaron's home-run record. Drug-use allegations aside, it's hard not to boo Barry Bonds for the teammate and man he appears to be, so damning is Pearlman's profile. Yet the reader is always reminded of Bonds' supreme talent. A highly readable companion to Fainaru-Wada and Williams' recent Game of Shadows, which relates in greater detail Bonds' alleged use of performance-enhancing drugs. Alan Moores
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About the Author

Jeff Pearlman is a columnist for SI.com, a former Sports Illustrated senior writer, and the critically acclaimed author of Boys Will Be Boys, The Bad Guys Won!, and Love Me, Hate Me.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 384 pages
  • Publisher: It Books; Reprint edition (February 20, 2007)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060797533
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060797539
  • Product Dimensions: 8.6 x 5.6 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (36 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #592,429 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Jeff Pearlman is a columnist for SI.com. He has worked as as a columnist for ESPN.com and Yahoo.com, a senior writer for Sports Illustrated, a features writer for Newsday and -- amazingly -- as The (Nashville) Tennessean's food and fashion writer. He is the author of two New York Times best-sellers--Boys Will Be Boys, a biography of the 1990s Dallas Cowboys, and The Bad Guys Won, a biography of the 1986 New York Mets. He is also the author of a pair of, ahem, non-New York Times' best-seller, Love Me, Hate Me: Barry Bonds and the Making of an Anti-Hero, and The Rocket That Fell to Earth: Roger Clemens and the Rage for Baseball Immortality. Pearlman lives in New York with his wife and two children, and enjoys Kirk Cameron films, T-shirts and the taste of gum.

Customer Reviews

Pearlman knows his baseball, and chooses his comparisons with great precision. Jason A. Miller  |  5 reviewers made a similar statement
It is written in a very readable and interesting manner. Naz  |  4 reviewers made a similar statement
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32 of 34 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Loved it, didn't hate it May 1, 2006
Format:Hardcover
If he's not more careful, Jeff Pearlman's going to get a reputation as the Kitty Kelley of baseball. First, the John Rocker interview in "Sports Illustrated". Next, "The Bad Guys Won!" -- a book about the hard-drinkin', coke-snortin' '86 Mets. Now, Barry Bonds is revealed in all his misanthropic, beef 'roid injectin' misery.

I'm not sure if "Love Me, Hate Me" began life as an impartial look at how Bonds' stellar on-field accomplishments redeemed his tumultuous personal life. Somehow, I doubt it. I suspect it was always intended to be a sarcastic look at how one of the most physically talented ballplayers of the last quarter-century managed to trash his public reputation and make exactly zero friends along the way.

Pearlman knows his baseball, and chooses his comparisons with great precision. His writing is crisp and lively, his point never in doubt. For example, he describes Bonds' infamous late-season and playoff slumps by comparison to late 1970s utility infielders -- the kind of references that only a guy in his mid 30s who grew up with shoeboxes full of Topps baseball cards could come up with: Bonds is described, during his slumps, as being: "... as useful to baseball as an autographed Otto Velez jersey". And: "In April and May, he was Willie Mays; in September, he was Tom Veryzer". This book is probably going to drive the average sabermetrician crazy.

In order to get away with a book like this, the author has to do two things right. He has to get his game accounts perfect. How many baseball bios have been trashed by a lack of research into game details? Ken Kaiser's biography, Andre Dawson's biography, Jose Canseco's love letter to steroids, to name three other baseball books I've reviewed.
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21 of 22 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars The Link Between Insecurity and Greatness. July 6, 2006
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This book is ironically titled because the real Barry Bonds, who you feel like they know after finishing Jeff Pearlman's thrilling biography, is a man one can neither love nor hate. His excellence is tarnished by his personality which is so obviously confused that, despite the brutality with which he treats others, renders one incapable of hating him. Barry Bonds is yet another example of self-esteem having an inverse relationship with success. Had Bonds been a satisfied young man, he would have never expended every particle of his physical and mental energy conquering a craft which would one day make him a national celebrity and a fabulously wealthy person. Bonds's infinitesimal self-doubt caused him to train like, and with, Jerry Rice and even cry on the rare occasion he had to miss a game, but it also alienated almost everyone he came into contact with. He is a petty, abrasive, and irritable man who is entirely devoid of social skills. This reality makes one pity him which is not the reaction one expects to have towards a finger pointing, whining mega-millionaire. When you look at the numbers over the course of his career, it is readily apparent that Bonds really is the Michael Jordan of baseball, and that most of us don't realize it is directly related to the horrendous way with which he interacts with peers, the press, the fans, and your average citizen. I am a fairly hardened person, but I was shocked to read the passages documenting this icon's habit of berating small children who ask for his autograph. He seems to insult and slight others for absolutely no reason whatsoever. As for steroids and BALCO, Pearlman does not hedge on the issue which is quite appropriate considering the evidence.... Read more ›
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A Different Perspective August 26, 2006
Format:Hardcover
The author certainly did his homework by interviewing over 500 people who have had some interaction with Bonds over his life in order to write this book. What was grat about this book was that it wasn't written by Bonds or from the perspective of the author it was more other peoples true experiences about Bonds spun into a book. This was a fresh look at this guy and not written to drag him down or to glorify him, you are left to make your own opinion. I liked it.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars a really excellent biography April 19, 2006
Format:Hardcover
I bought this book three days and could not put it down. I always thought Bonds was a mysterious cat, but now I feel like I've got a much better understanding of him. The stories in this book had me laughing and crying, especially dating back to his early years with Van Slyke and Doug Drabek with the Pirates. I have nothing bad to say. A great read.
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Everything you want to know April 30, 2006
Format:Hardcover
Pearlman does a great job of gathering information and presenting it an orderly and organized fashion. He does his best to make the biography a fair view of Bonds but it seems lopsided simply because Barry is such a jerk. Overall, it is a great read and has a ton of insight into Barry's life and the behind closed door locker room scenes.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Reminds me of the good era of sportswriting April 24, 2006
By Rudy
Format:Hardcover
I was a baseball writer who covered the minor leagues for many years, and I used to love the great baseball writers of my era. I am largely unfamiliar with this author, but his book is beautifully written, with an impressive attention to detail. I didn't expect a great deal from this book (I reviewed it for my hometown paper), but it's a real gem. It took me inside the world of major league baseball and also inside the mind of a superstar I never truly understood.

I was mostly enamored by Barry Bonds' Pittsburgh years, where he developed into the man he is today. His relations with Jim Leyland (whom I remember from his time with the Tigers in spring training) and Andy Van Slyke (a vastly underrated player of his day) are unqiue and enlightening, as are Bonds' takes on race, class and status. I don't believe any book is a must-read, but this one is pretty dang close.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Kitty Kelly, Sports Division
This is a tough book about someone who pathologically invites such treatment. His defensive contempt of nearly everyone he came in contact with as a player is quite sad, as much... Read more
Published 2 months ago by D. B. Rosett
5.0 out of 5 stars I bought this book for a present to my husband.
I bought this book as a present for my husband. He Loved it. It got here on time for Christmas. He likes Barry bonds and it had all the information in it.
Published 5 months ago by Elva P.
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Published 6 months ago by vanessa tosti
5.0 out of 5 stars Just finished it
It was a good book and provided a lot of good information.  It is a bit of a sad story since despite all the talent and money he had he really never seemed happy
Published 8 months ago by Dan Guinn
2.0 out of 5 stars an ax to grind?
Sounds like to me this 'author" has a personal vendetta against Mr Bonds. It felt like I was reading a tabloid. Read more
Published 9 months ago by shawn moore
5.0 out of 5 stars I'd rather lose without him, than win with him
"I'd rather lose without him, than win with him." This is a quote from one of Bonds' ex-teammates from the Pirates. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Brian Ward
4.0 out of 5 stars What the fuss was about
A complicated man, this Barry Bonds.

A man who wasn't satisfied with merely being the best all-around player in baseball. Read more
Published 18 months ago by WDX2BB
5.0 out of 5 stars A Superb Book About A Genuine Superstar and a Real Jerk
I'd like to start with the only part of this book I wholeheartedly disagreed with: the derisive comparision of Bonds to superstars in other sports when talking about the Giants'... Read more
Published on June 18, 2010 by Benjamin E. Berman
5.0 out of 5 stars Right-on Assessment
Being a 20-year season ticket holder, I have seen the Giants pre, during, and post Barry Bonds. I saw enough games to know how teammates and other players felt about him, but not... Read more
Published on January 9, 2010 by M. Babot
5.0 out of 5 stars GOOD BOOK ABOUT BAD PERSON
JEFF PEARLMAN DOES A GOOD JOB TELLING US THE LIFE AND CAREER OF BARRY BONDS. WHEN YOU READ ABOUT BARRY'S HOME LIFE AS A KID, IT HELPS TO UNDERSTAND WHY HE IS SUCH THE EGOTISTICAL,... Read more
Published on November 21, 2009 by COOL JEWEL
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