Enter your mobile number or email address below and we'll send you a link to download the free Kindle App. Then you can start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet, or computer - no Kindle device required.

  • Apple
  • Android
  • Windows Phone
  • Android

To get the free app, enter your email address or mobile phone number.

FREE Shipping on orders over $35.
Temporarily out of stock.
Order now and we'll deliver when available.
Order now and we'll deliver when available. We'll e-mail you with an estimated delivery date as soon as we have more information. Your account will only be charged when we ship the item.
Ships from and sold by Amazon.com. Gift-wrap available.
Love by the Numbers: How ... has been added to your Cart
Condition: Used: Good
Comment: PLEASE READ FULL DESCRIPTION -USED GOOD- This book has been read and may show wear to the cover and or pages. There may be some dog-eared pages. In some cases the internal pages may contain highlighting/margin notes/underlining or any combination of these markings. The binding will be secure in all cases. This is a good reading and studying copy and has been verified that all pages are legible and intact. If the book contained a CD it is not guaranteed to still be included. All items are packed and shipped from the Amazon warehouse.
Have one to sell? Sell on Amazon
Flip to back Flip to front
Listen Playing... Paused   You're listening to a sample of the Audible audio edition.
Learn more
See all 2 images

Love by the Numbers: How to Find Great Love or Reignite the Love You Have Through the Power of Numerology Hardcover – November 1, 2009

4.3 out of 5 stars 181 customer reviews

See all 5 formats and editions Hide other formats and editions
New from Used from
"Please retry"
"Please retry"
$5.60 $1.19

"Quantum Love" by Laura Berman
Use Your Body's Atomic Energy to Create the Relationship You Desire | Check out "Quantum Love".
$21.99 FREE Shipping on orders over $35. Temporarily out of stock. Order now and we'll deliver when available. We'll e-mail you with an estimated delivery date as soon as we have more information. Your account will only be charged when we ship the item. Ships from and sold by Amazon.com. Gift-wrap available.

Frequently Bought Together

  • Love by the Numbers: How to Find Great Love or Reignite the Love You Have Through the Power of Numerology
  • +
  • Glynis Has Your Number: Discover What Life Has in Store for You Through the Power of Numerology!
  • +
  • The Life You Were Born to Live: A Guide to Finding Your Life Purpose
Total price: $51.15
Buy the selected items together

Editorial Reviews

About the Author

Glynis McCants has been practicing numerology for 21 years and has given over 15,000 personal readings. She is a media sensation who has appeared everywhere from The View to Dancing with the Stars. Author of the bestselling Glynis Has Your Number (Hyperion), she resides near Pasadena, CA.

Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved.

Excerpt from Chapter 1: Introduction to Numerology

We come to love, not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
—Sam Keen

When I wrote my previous book Glynis Has Your Number, I had so many topics to cover that I only put one chapter about love in the book. I vowed that my next book would be dedicated to love, because I believe there is nothing more important to our well-being.

I have been practicing Numerology for over twenty-one years, and one of my greatest pleasures is to bring two people together and help them find lasting love by the Numbers. It is a blessing when we share our lives with kindness and consideration to help each other achieve our dreams. I find equal satisfaction in counseling married couples whose marriages have lost their way. Numerology has helped them to understand each other, begin to work through their differences, and fall in love all over again.

It isn't as much fun if you have a great career and achieve success but have no one with whom you can share your triumphs. I strongly believe that God did not put us on a planet with millions of people and yet doomed us to live our lives alone. It only makes sense that He would want us to be able to share our lives with the right someone else. If you are dating and looking for a lasting love, I can help you find a loving partner through the power of Numerology. If you are already in a relationship and know that it is not a healthy one, help is on the way!

How It Works
Numerology, a 2,500-year-old science of numbers, was created by the Greek mathematician Pythagoras. Pythagoras believed that when we are born, we enter this world with very specific Vibrations. These Vibrations have a direct influence on our character and what our life purpose will be. Pythagoras attached a Number to each Vibration, using the Numbers 1 (new beginnings) through 9 (completion). If you have a person's first and last name, and full date of birth, you can discover exactly who they are by using the Pythagorean Number System.

There are three Numbers that come from the name (the Soul Number, the Personality Number, and the Power Name Number), and there are three Numbers that come from the full birth date (the Birth Day Number, the Life Path Number, and the Attitude Number).

Below are the brief definitions of what each number tells you about a person.

The Soul Number: Defines what will fulfill your Soul.
The Personality Number: Defines how people perceive you.
The Power Name Number: Defines the strength of your character.
The Birth Day Number: Defines how you appear to people when they first meet you.
The Life Path Number: Defines your life's purpose. This Number has the biggest impact on your Life.
The Attitude Number: Defines your general outlook on life.

Here is an example of what the six numbers above look like when they are laid out:


When you do a Numerology Blueprint, the layout of the numbers will always be in this exact order, going from left to right. The first number will be the Soul Number (9), the second number will be the Personality Number (3), the third number will be the Power Name Number (3), the fourth number will be the Birth Day Number (4), the fifth Number will be the Life Path Number (5), and the sixth number will be the Attitude Number (7). I will always put an asterisk (*) next to the Life Path Number, because it is the most important Number when it comes to love relationships. However, if your Life Path Numbers are a Challenge, all is not lost because I do give you advice on how to deal with this in Chapter 14.

When you have determined the six numbers for you and your partner, you will have the information you need to create a Personal Numerology Chart Comparison and see whether this relationship is worth pursuing or ending so you can move on. This book will help you answer this question with confidence. If you are in an unhappy marriage, and your relationship is mostly Toxic but you want to save it, perhaps because you have children or just do not believe in divorce, there is information throughout this book that will give you the tools to heal your relationship.

When you do a Personal Numerology Chart Comparison, there are three ways that each number interacts with another number:

A Natural Match Number means you have an instant rapport and an easygoing understanding of each other.
A Compatible Number means you get along most of the time and can learn to agree to disagree.
A Challenge Number means that no matter what you say, you will be misunderstood. More often than not you will find a break down in communication, which can feel very Toxic and make the relationship difficult.

I will discuss each of these further in Chapter 3.

As time goes on, there are couples who believe they have outgrown each other, and others who say they grew much closer in later years. I believe this actually has to do with the Maturity Number (what you achieve in midlife) and the Destiny Number (where you are headed), which are two Vibrations that reveal themselves later in life. Although
these two Numbers are not one of the six Numbers used in your Numerology Blueprint, they do also help you understand each other better. By learning what they are and mean, you can prepare for them with your mate; or if you are dating and find they are Toxic, you may want to reconsider the relationship.

By studying your Numerology Blueprints with your partner, you can learn a whole new way to communicate, so that your partner will actually hear what you are saying—perhaps for the first time.

If you buy a new print edition of this book (or purchased one in the past), you can buy the Kindle edition for only $2.99 (Save 70%). Print edition purchase must be sold by Amazon. Learn more.

Looking for the Audiobook Edition?
Tell us that you'd like this title to be produced as an audiobook, and we'll alert our colleagues at Audible.com. If you are the author or rights holder, let Audible help you produce the audiobook: Learn more at ACX.com.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 352 pages
  • Publisher: Sourcebooks Casablanca (November 1, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1402224494
  • ISBN-13: 978-1402224492
  • Product Dimensions: 9.1 x 6.1 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.3 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (181 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #734,906 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Glynis McCants has been studying Numerology for over 21 years. Her unique method is based on the Pythagoras Number system, which is more than 2,500 years old. After evaluating approximately 15,000 Numerology Charts, she wrote the book Glynis Has Your Number, which quickly became the best selling Numerology book in the country, and has been translated in fifteen other languages as well.

After successfully picking her husband through Numerology, Glynis was inspired to write her latest book Love by the Numbers, which has also become a Best-Seller. Glynis has created many Numerology tools such as The Numerology Kit, the Healing by the Numbers CD, and the How To Manifest Financial Prosperity CD. These tools have been instrumental in helping people achieve their personal goals.

You may have seen Glynis McCants on The Dr. Phil show, The Today Show, Nightline, CBS' The Talk, The Dr. Oz Show, The View and Entertainment Tonight. Glynis is a regular contributor to Woman's World Magazine. She's also been featured in L.A. Confidential Magazine, Time Magazine, In Touch, Star Magazine, US Weekly and People Magazine.

Glynis has also been voted Favorite Guest on PBR Radio for the past three years and counting. Before the Presidential Elections in October, 2008, Glynis McCants was on The View and millions heard her predict--through the Numbers--that Barack Obama and Joe Biden would win the election. For the past four years, she has had her own weekly show on Sky Radio, where she gives Numerology advice every Friday.

Glynis is a recurring guest on Coast-To-Coast AM radio with George Noory, where she averages between two to three million hits on her website after each radio appearance. Why such a massive response? Because listeners cannot get over Glynis' exceptional speed and accuracy. One of her specialties is predicting whether a celebrity couple will sizzle or fizzle as time goes on. When Glynis does live readings, SHE DOES NOT MISS.

The producers of the movie Number 23 hired her as the Numerology expert for the Jim Carrey film of that name, and she has a Numerology segment located under "Special Features" on the Number 23 DVD. Glynis was the Numerology Expert on the couples of the show Dancing with the Stars, and successfully predicted who the winners of the show would be on season 4 and season 5.

Glynis McCants is convinced that when we have someone's name and date of birth, we can discover exactly who they really are. What is equally exciting is that by knowing our own Numerology Blueprint, we can focus on our strengths, and overcome our weaknesses.
However, Numbers are not just in people, but also in everything else such as our homes, business, city, state, etc. Glynis has truly mastered the Science of Numerology, and her mission is to educate and simplify what this particular science is all about, and how everyone can use it, and change their lives for the better!

For more information on Glynis McCants and Numerology, please visit www.numberslady.com.

Customer Reviews

Top Customer Reviews

Format: Hardcover
I have heard Glynis several times on Coast to Coast AM and have always thought she was intelligent and wise, so I was eager to read her newest book, "Love by the Numbers." I'm very glad that I did, because I learned a lot about myself and I also received confirmation about a relationship I had in the past.

I did a full chart for me and a particular ex of mine. Our numbers were fantastic, both for our "goes by" names and our birth certificate names. We had a real soul mate connection via our birth names, and even our Destiny and Maturity numbers were natural matches. Is it any wonder then that I had the feeling from our first date that he was a person I could love for the rest of my life?

But Glynis warns repeatedly in her book that addiction, mental illness and a person living the negative side of their numbers can massively skew your experience of the vibration that attracted you to a person at the start. I absolutely experienced this. Depression, alcoholism, drug use and suicide raged through his family for generations and had already started to get a grasp on him. Unfortunately, I was already in love with him by the time I realized this information. I was also young, and very inexperienced, and didn't see a lot of red flags early. To cap it off, I am a Lifepath of 3 and we tend to try to "fix" and "rescue" people until we learn that you can't. It simply does not work.

The breakup was long and painful. I had a lot of self-judgment for years because I simply could not understand how on earth I could have let someone treat me SO badly and still love them. It made no sense to me at all. I finally had to learn to accept and forgive myself for staying in spite of lies, persistent toxic criticism, cheating and being shut out.
Read more ›
5 Comments 94 of 97 people found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again
Report abuse
Format: Paperback Verified Purchase
I believe "Glynis Has Your Number" is a better book about numerology. In this other book she explains in more detail about numerology. I understand that the "Love by the Numbers" would be more popular because everyone is looking for a fast fix to hook up romantically with someone else. However, if you really want to understand numerology, the "has your number" book is, in my opinion, better. In general I equate Glynis McCants with the (1960s/70s) author, Linda Goodman's "Sun Signs" about astrology. I found some interesting parallels between McCants' explanations of numerology and Goodman's explanation of astrology. It is all entertaining and I found some fundamental truth in both.
F. Parker
Comment 16 of 17 people found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again
Report abuse
Format: Hardcover Verified Purchase
I have read all 25 chapters of Glynis McCants's "Love By The Numbers" and i must say that her book is an amazing compilation of work. It is an easy read for anyone to understand and Glynis explains all of the numerological concepts in simplified terminology. This stuff is scary accurate. You will get excited and this crazy world we live in will begin to make sense to you. You'll begin to realize and understand peoples behaviors and why they do what they do and say what they say. I've read dozens of numerology books by many different authors and in reflection i would recommend Glynis' McCants books time and again as the leading author in teaching numerology to anyone that is interested in this emerging field. I'm President/CEO of a small business i started in NorthEast,Ohio and i've used Glynis's teachings in my own business and personal life and have been very successful. Thank you Glynis and keep them coming! Deshay S McClinchy
Comment 29 of 34 people found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again
Report abuse
Format: Hardcover Verified Purchase
Love by the Numbers: How to Find Great Love or Reignite the Love You Have Through the Power of Numerology

She's done it again! Glynis helps us make sense of our relationships in a way that is entertaining and very real. Glynis' delicious humor is evident, she is witty, fun, personable, it all comes out in the book; along with information relative to making our life enjoyable, and most of all our relationships healthy and positive. This approach also peels away our own layers, giving us the joy of seeing ourselves with truth, to allow us to be our best self along with bestowing the same to others.
I wondered why I could not have a meaningful relationship with a family member; once determined she is a 4,7 and I'm a 3,6,9 it took all the pain and personalization out of the equation. It was so simple -- that's what is! We are each free to be our best 4,7 and 3,6,9 without finding fault with each other or trying falsely to get along. Glynis gives us tools to accommodate life richly. The relief for each of us has been profound and lasting. Quality of life improves immeasurably.......thru truth and understanding.
Do yourself a favor, read this book, you will be giving yourself the gift of understanding as you have never known before. We strive to be our best, now you have the tools to create your very best self quided by understanding and love. Thank you Glynis, we are forever in your debt, our hearts filled with gratitude. You have helped us greatly.
It was fun to see the why and why not of famous couples healthy relationships. You have given us a glimpse into the inner workings of human frailties and positives that are the backbone of our time here on earth. Thank you Glynis, you are a light shining brightly.
Comment 16 of 20 people found this helpful. Was this review helpful to you? Yes No Sending feedback...
Thank you for your feedback.
Sorry, we failed to record your vote. Please try again
Report abuse

Want to discover more products? Check out this page to see more: cheap spirit jerseys