What do you do if you want a marriage that doesn’t just survive, but thrives? That doesn’t just begin romantically but ends magnificently?
Answer: You do something different.
You’ve seen marriages fail time and again. Even relationships you thought were bulletproof don’t last–or maybe worse—fade away to a cold, gray lovelessness. It’s no wonder that for today’s generation, “getting what you want” is often a substitute for love, and disillusionment about marriage is the new normal.
But you can have a long-term, love-blessed marriage. Whether you’re still considering it, are about to be wed, or have been married for a while and want to make changes, Love, Sex & Happily Ever After delivers an infusion of hope. Author Craig Groeschel clearly and honestly lays out the choices and commitments you can make now to change the way you think and act—to build the relationship you want for the rest of your life.
With an invigorating mix of personal story, practical guidance and biblical truth, Craig invites you into a candid conversation about first dates, sex, communication, integrity, forgiveness, and commitment. Along the way, he shows how you can build a soul-enriching, God-honoring relationship with the one you love…and believe together again in your very own “happily ever after.”
Previously released as Going All the Way
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“Craig Groeschel’s practical book should be a mandatory read for anyone who wants to be happily married someday. It is a rare author who can lead you into some very challenging places and have you laughing out loud while he does it.”
Shaunti Feldhahn, nationally syndicated columnist and best-selling author of For Women Only
“Going All the Way clearly illustrates how Jesus Christ is truly the center of every enduring and endearing marriage. I am excited to see this book get published.”
Pastor Mark Driscoll, founder of Mars Hill Church, Seattle
“Whether you are married or single, Going All the Way promises to show you what it takes to succeed in the most important human relationship you can ever be a part of. This book has the potential to not only change the way you view marriage, but also the way our culture treats it.”
Ed Young, Senior Pastor, Fellowship Church, and author of The Creative Marriage
“If you're looking for ‘The One,’ this book will launch you in the right direction. With wit and wisdom, Craig Groeschel will guide you into a gold mine of relational riches.”
Shannon Ethridge, best-selling author of the Every Woman's Battle series and Completely His
“Craig shares real life advice that is practical and biblically based, preparing you for a marriage that will not just survive, but thrive. This book should make it on your reading list.”
Rick Warren, Pastor of Saddleback Church and author of The Purpose Driven Life
“Craig Groeschel says it like it is. You'll be challenged and encouraged by his honesty and humor.”
Mark Batterson, Lead Pastor, National Community Church, and author of In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day
“Craig Groeschel is a visionary who is always scanning the horizon to meet needs that most of us have not even begun to envision. His leadership capacity has barely been tapped.”
Dr. Samuel R. Chand, author of Failure: The Womb of Success and Futuring: Leading Your Church Into Tomorrow
“Craig Groeschel truly goes all the way in this entertaining yet poignantly insightful book on preparing for marriage. He digs deep, posing the questions we all have but are afraid to ask, and then answers them–with profound wisdom.”
Bishop Eddie L. Long, Senior Pastor, New Birth Missionary Baptist Church and author of It’s Your Time
“In Going All the Way, Craig boldly dives into our culture's many illusions of love and discovers what real love is.”
Dave Gibbons, Lead Pastor of NewSong
“Craig Groeschel is a man that practices what he preaches. I am always excited to pick up his latest book.”
Craig Gross, founder of xxxchurch.com
“Craig fully understands our generation's struggles and fears about making love last and provides practical, hope-filled guidance for imperfect people.”
John Burke, pastor and author of No Perfect People Allowed
From the Hardcover edition.
Shaunti Feldhahn, nationally syndicated columnist and best-selling author of For Women Only
“Going All the Way clearly illustrates how Jesus Christ is truly the center of every enduring and endearing marriage. I am excited to see this book get published.”
Pastor Mark Driscoll, founder of Mars Hill Church, Seattle
“Whether you are married or single, Going All the Way promises to show you what it takes to succeed in the most important human relationship you can ever be a part of. This book has the potential to not only change the way you view marriage, but also the way our culture treats it.”
Ed Young, Senior Pastor, Fellowship Church, and author of The Creative Marriage
“If you're looking for ‘The One,’ this book will launch you in the right direction. With wit and wisdom, Craig Groeschel will guide you into a gold mine of relational riches.”
Shannon Ethridge, best-selling author of the Every Woman's Battle series and Completely His
“Craig shares real life advice that is practical and biblically based, preparing you for a marriage that will not just survive, but thrive. This book should make it on your reading list.”
Rick Warren, Pastor of Saddleback Church and author of The Purpose Driven Life
“Craig Groeschel says it like it is. You'll be challenged and encouraged by his honesty and humor.”
Mark Batterson, Lead Pastor, National Community Church, and author of In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day
“Craig Groeschel is a visionary who is always scanning the horizon to meet needs that most of us have not even begun to envision. His leadership capacity has barely been tapped.”
Dr. Samuel R. Chand, author of Failure: The Womb of Success and Futuring: Leading Your Church Into Tomorrow
“Craig Groeschel truly goes all the way in this entertaining yet poignantly insightful book on preparing for marriage. He digs deep, posing the questions we all have but are afraid to ask, and then answers them–with profound wisdom.”
Bishop Eddie L. Long, Senior Pastor, New Birth Missionary Baptist Church and author of It’s Your Time
“In Going All the Way, Craig boldly dives into our culture's many illusions of love and discovers what real love is.”
Dave Gibbons, Lead Pastor of NewSong
“Craig Groeschel is a man that practices what he preaches. I am always excited to pick up his latest book.”
Craig Gross, founder of xxxchurch.com
“Craig fully understands our generation's struggles and fears about making love last and provides practical, hope-filled guidance for imperfect people.”
John Burke, pastor and author of No Perfect People Allowed
From the Hardcover edition.
About the Author
Craig Groeschel is the founding and senior pastor of LifeChurch.tv, recently ranked the nation’s second largest church. By 2010, LifeChurch.tv was hosting more than eighty services at fourteen campuses. Craig and his wife, Amy, share a passion to lead people to become fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. They live with their six children near Edmond, Oklahoma.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
If you're planning on marriage, this book is for you.
If you're wondering if you'll ever get married, pick up this book.
If you are married, don't pass it off as if "you know the content."
This book is a fantastic tool for church small groups to read together, especially for the people in the "young adult" category of the church. The strength of this book is its openness, honesty, and direct discussion on the topic of marriage and how to live it out in a God-honoring way. And for small groups, the book is outfitted with a study guide which is great for a group-read setting.
All throughout the book Groeschel does a wonderful job exposing marriage with a light beaming Biblical perspective and gut-level honesty. He shares his personal story of sexual sin in college, finding faith and forgiveness, and now marriage with his wife. Thoughts of "Relationships are a 5-speed stick shift" and "Finding your One before the Two" are fantastic considerations in any stage of dating.
I appreciate Groeschel's thought on planning a wedding: "Remember that a reasonable wedding is over in an hour; a marriage is a lifelong commitment. Have a wonderful wedding. But put a hundred times more energy and time into planning for your marriage. Ask yourself, Will the forty-seven hours we invest picking out the perfect centerpiece for our reception matter when we're navigating our first year of marriage?"
There is no doubt that I'll have this book handy for future reference and sharing.
I received this book from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group in exchange for my thoughts.
If you're wondering if you'll ever get married, pick up this book.
If you are married, don't pass it off as if "you know the content."
This book is a fantastic tool for church small groups to read together, especially for the people in the "young adult" category of the church. The strength of this book is its openness, honesty, and direct discussion on the topic of marriage and how to live it out in a God-honoring way. And for small groups, the book is outfitted with a study guide which is great for a group-read setting.
All throughout the book Groeschel does a wonderful job exposing marriage with a light beaming Biblical perspective and gut-level honesty. He shares his personal story of sexual sin in college, finding faith and forgiveness, and now marriage with his wife. Thoughts of "Relationships are a 5-speed stick shift" and "Finding your One before the Two" are fantastic considerations in any stage of dating.
I appreciate Groeschel's thought on planning a wedding: "Remember that a reasonable wedding is over in an hour; a marriage is a lifelong commitment. Have a wonderful wedding. But put a hundred times more energy and time into planning for your marriage. Ask yourself, Will the forty-seven hours we invest picking out the perfect centerpiece for our reception matter when we're navigating our first year of marriage?"
There is no doubt that I'll have this book handy for future reference and sharing.
I received this book from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group in exchange for my thoughts.
2 of 2 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
If only this book was around when I was in college.
Craig Groeschel explains the relationship we are to have with our spouse. Even when we are simply dating, we are to be thinking of our future spouse. From living together and sex to break-ups and not losing yourself in the other person, this book has solid, practical advice.
Craig Groeschel acknowledges the temptations. He admits that he faltered, but he tells us what he learned from his mistakes. He puts reality into dating. He has a 5-gear model, and it is all about going slow. This is great advice, because I think we all know that once sex is in the equation, we can't think straight.
I am saving this book for my daughter in hopes that she can learn these lessons without making the mistakes. This is a great book!
Craig Groeschel explains the relationship we are to have with our spouse. Even when we are simply dating, we are to be thinking of our future spouse. From living together and sex to break-ups and not losing yourself in the other person, this book has solid, practical advice.
Craig Groeschel acknowledges the temptations. He admits that he faltered, but he tells us what he learned from his mistakes. He puts reality into dating. He has a 5-gear model, and it is all about going slow. This is great advice, because I think we all know that once sex is in the equation, we can't think straight.
I am saving this book for my daughter in hopes that she can learn these lessons without making the mistakes. This is a great book!
1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
Format:Paperback
I will read anything by Craig. ANYTHING!
When I lived in Stillwater, OK I attended Lifechurch. It saved me in so many ways. I remember how we would meet every Sunday in the middle school auditorium. It seemed so small, so quaint. In time, membership grew and we needed our own building. It was HUGE. Sadly, I went through my divorce shortly after and did not get to enjoy that new building for long. When I moved to MI I watched Craig online through the Lifechurch.tv website. Every Sunday I was able to bring a piece of Stillwater into my home here in MI.
In the past I have reviewed Chazown even though it is not the only book by him I have read.
When I saw this one was up for review, I decided it was worth the read even though I was already married. I am glad I did. There was so much stuff in there that is so relevant to me and my marriage. Especially the part about communication. Craig also talks a lot about The ONE (who is Jesus) your TWO (who is your spouse) and then yourself. He is a believer that life should be lived like that and children should come after. With 6 kids, I know he knows what he is talking about.
I still watch Lifechurch when time permits, but my own church New Covenant has many of the same values as Craig. Even better, my Pastor has met him and shares some of his work. Bonus for me! I have even found a few members that also watch LC online.
I feel the book is a good read for anyone, believer or not, who would like a better grasp on how relationships should be, not just before marriage, but for the entire life of the relationship.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from as part of a bloggers book review program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commision's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
When I lived in Stillwater, OK I attended Lifechurch. It saved me in so many ways. I remember how we would meet every Sunday in the middle school auditorium. It seemed so small, so quaint. In time, membership grew and we needed our own building. It was HUGE. Sadly, I went through my divorce shortly after and did not get to enjoy that new building for long. When I moved to MI I watched Craig online through the Lifechurch.tv website. Every Sunday I was able to bring a piece of Stillwater into my home here in MI.
In the past I have reviewed Chazown even though it is not the only book by him I have read.
When I saw this one was up for review, I decided it was worth the read even though I was already married. I am glad I did. There was so much stuff in there that is so relevant to me and my marriage. Especially the part about communication. Craig also talks a lot about The ONE (who is Jesus) your TWO (who is your spouse) and then yourself. He is a believer that life should be lived like that and children should come after. With 6 kids, I know he knows what he is talking about.
I still watch Lifechurch when time permits, but my own church New Covenant has many of the same values as Craig. Even better, my Pastor has met him and shares some of his work. Bonus for me! I have even found a few members that also watch LC online.
I feel the book is a good read for anyone, believer or not, who would like a better grasp on how relationships should be, not just before marriage, but for the entire life of the relationship.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from as part of a bloggers book review program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commision's 16 CFR, Part 255: "Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising."
Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars
awesome relationship book
In "Love, Sex & Happily Ever After" Craig Groeschel writes about relationships, whether it's dating, thinking about dating, engaged or married. Read more
Published 2 months ago by amy clark
4.0 out of 5 stars
A good discussion starter on how to prepare for marriage
Craig Groeschel is a compelling and gifted writer. In "Love, Sex, and Happily Ever After: Preparing for a Marriage That Goes the Distance" he provides a basic guide for how to... Read more
Published 3 months ago by Jonathan
4.0 out of 5 stars
Love, Sex and Happily Ever After
In my experience, the Christian world seemingly would like to ignore the topic of sex. There is much emphasis placed on "saving yourself for marriage", but there doesn't really... Read more
Published 4 months ago by Readaholic
3.0 out of 5 stars
Good tips
This book has some good stuff in it but it doesn't appear that Groeschel even wrote it. I'm guessing it's an adaptation of some sermons meaning a number of the jokes don't connect... Read more
Published 5 months ago by J. Daniels
3.0 out of 5 stars
Going the Distance
In his book, Sex, Love, and Happily Ever After, pastor and author Craig Groeschel offers biblical advice for couples preparing for marriage. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Deron
4.0 out of 5 stars
Read prior to Marriage
I have seen so many marriages fall apart. I believe much as to do with not being prepared to be married. It's not always fun and games. The honeymoon will wear off. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Mara Kim
5.0 out of 5 stars
Perfect book for those considering marriage
This is a great book for those considering marriage or for parents to go through with older students. Love Craig's humor.
Published 6 months ago by A. Pelser
4.0 out of 5 stars
Great for a couple's small group book study
Craig Groeschel doesn't hide behind an "I've got it all together, so let me tell you the answers," facade. That's what I like about his style. Read more
Published 6 months ago by Jason
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I found Love, Sex, and Happily Ever After: Preparing for a Marriage That Goes the Distance by Craig Groeschel a good read for singles who are seriously contemplating of getting... Read more
Published 9 months ago by Rino Sardon
4.0 out of 5 stars
Great!
I'll just put it out there: I liked Craig's book. It was easy to read, concise, and the scriptural examples he used lined up perfectly with the message he was trying to get across. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Nick Thacker
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