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Love Is Where It Falls: The Story of a Passionate Friendship [Hardcover]

Simon Callow (Author)
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May 1999
A unique memoir of a fierce affair of the heart with an older woman.

When Simon Callow, the celebrated stage and screen star, first met Margaret Ramsay in 1980, he could hardly have suspected that his encounter with the world-famous theatrical agent would blossom into a most improbable love affair. There was age, for one thing: Callow was barely thirty; Ramsay was seventy. Also, Callow, a homosexual, was in the midst of an all-consuming affair with his Egyptian-Turkish boyfriend, Aziz Yehia. For the next eleven years, until her death in 1991, Callow and Ramsay conducted an intense, exhilarating liaison in meetings and letters, exchanging intimacies charged with the fervor of trembling emotion. In this extraordinary memoir, Callow tells the story of their unusual relationship in a book that captures the fiery intensity and reckless gestures, the bliss, tenderness, and grace, as well as the anguish, of overwhelming love in its compulsive course, which also comes to embrace, in a tragic mnage trois, Callow's lover, Aziz.

With the most graceful of touches Callow paints a memorable portrait of a fascinating woman-her beauty, vitality, brilliance, and effervescence. Love Is Where It Falls is by turns moving, inspiring, funny, and heartbreaking, with a sense of intimacy so overpowering that the reader feels privileged to be allowed to trespass on such personal pleasure and pain.


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In the summer of 1980, actor Simon Callow met the legendary playwrights' agent Peggy Ramsay--it was love at first sight. A strange sort of love, given that it was "between a 70-year-old woman and a 30-year-old gay man, and was never going to be consummated physically," as Callow succinctly puts it. But love it was--an intense, passionate affair that lasted several years during which Ramsay showered Callow with gifts, spiritual and material, despite his continuing relationship with his Egyptian lover, Aziz Yehia.

Like creatures from a bygone era, Ramsay and Callow were bold, huge personalities, their almost daily letter writing filled with histrionic emotion and grandiose discoursing on art and life. Callow manages to turn the letters into an elegant, riveting narrative, exploring the complex triangle between himself, Ramsay, and Aziz; Aziz's depression and eventual suicide; the affair's inevitable cooling off; and Ramsay's decline into dementia and ultimate death with a remarkable lack of sentimentality. Reading the openhearted love letters of an intensely private and at times vulnerable woman makes for some discomfort, but there is no doubting Callow's love and tenderness for his irascible subject, nor the sincerity of his emotion for her and his enduring respect and responsibility for her memory. --Alan Stewart

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The rarified world of the British theater is effectively evoked in veteran actor Callow's memoir of the legendary literary agent Margaret Ramsay. Based on a collection of love letters, the book hinges on an unorthodox m?nage ? trois (of sorts) among Ramsay, Callow, and his Egyptian boyfriend and relies somewhat on prurient appeal. The unlikely association between Callow, a young aspirant, and Ramsay, a seasoned professional who represented playwrights such as Joe Orton, spanned a 40-year age gap and blossomed into more than just a prot?g?-mentor relationship. Ramsay is a real character hereAvivacious and vibrant, irascible but with a generous spirit. This is a sensitive, loving portrait, but as a biography it is a little unsatisfying, paraphrasing correspondence that is occasionally pompous and overly personal. We are given an emotionalized snapshot of the protagonists, who pontificate on Art, Life, and Love but never glean any real insight into those grand themes. Callow's sincerity, however, is tangible. Recommended where interest warrants.AJayne Plymale, Univ. of Georgia, Athens
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 208 pages
  • Publisher: Fromm Intl; 1st Fromm International ed edition (May 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0880642394
  • ISBN-13: 978-0880642392
  • Product Dimensions: 7.6 x 5.1 x 1.1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,213,652 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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11 of 11 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars "USED" IN THE BEST SENSE OF THE WORD, May 15, 2001
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I sat down last night to read a chapter or two of this book that had been recommended to me for over a year. I literally could not put it down and finished it 6 hours later, at 5:00 a.m. It is, quite simply, one of the most moving, beautifully and tenderly and honestly written memoirs I've read in years.

How does one describe a true, deep friendship? What makes it work and what makes it fall apart from time to time? London-1980: Callow, thirty years old (an actor at the beginning of an impressive career) met possibly the most important influence in his life: the seventy year old Margaret (Peggy) Ramsay, the internationally known, respected, feared and beloved theatrical agent.

What follows are the special fireworks of their loving friendship until Ramsay's painful, ugly, difficult death from cancer.

A knowledge and/or love of contemporary British theatre could only add to your enjoyment of this book, but anyone who has lived through an impossible love or friendship with a larger-than-life partner; anyone who has known and lost true love; anyone who enjoys reading beautifully fashioned prose--will treasure this book.

I, frankly, do not understand the reviewers below who feel that Callow shamefully "uses" Ramsay in this tribute to her and their relationship. Isn't that what lovers and dear friends do? Don't we all use each other? And get used by our partners? Not USED UP, mind you. But "used" in the best sense. Isn't that what we're here for? To take chances, risk hurt and be used by those we love? HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.

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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars A passionate buyer with a conscience, May 4, 2000
This review is from: Love Is Where It Falls: The Story of a Passionate Friendship (Hardcover)
Perhaps some of my fellow reviewers will consider me not only lacking in conscience, but also misguided and over emotional! I have literally just finished Simon Callow's book and feel compelled to write about it. I purchased my copy after I saw the play by Alan Plater currently running in London's West End, starring Mauren Lipman as Peggy Ramsay. I am half way through my life and this is the first time that a book (prose) has ever reduced, or rather heightened me to tears. I caught nothing of the author's opportunism, but only discovered that there are people who have a passion for life and love in all its many guises and whilst it is clear that many seem suspicious of such depths of feeling or indeed may deny its existence, this book serves as an inspiration and affirmation to those of us who may be deemed foolish enough to recognise and pursue it.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars A fine memior!, April 4, 2000
This review is from: Love Is Where It Falls: The Story of a Passionate Friendship (Hardcover)
A great writer and talent. This book is also a great memior ofLondon's theatrical scene. Simon didn't use Peggy and Peggy didn't useSimon. Rather, this work is a wonderful testament to a very close and very personal friendship. They were kindred spirits who shared so much in common. Peggy loved art and loved life and part of her mission was to educate Simon and pass her talents and knowledge onto him. This is at once a riveting and at times sad and melancholy piece of writing. Callow really brings Peggy to life and having been to London and being familiar with the West End I could really identify with this work. It paints a fascinating portrait and provides an exclusive insight into London's literary, artistic and theatrical scene. This is a finely tuned and astute piece of work and Callow should be congratulated on producing a sensitive, emotional and beautiful homage to a woman who was indeed talented, strong and influential.
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