I Love You But I'm Not in Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship [Import] [Paperback]

Andrew G. Marshall (Author)

Product Details

• Paperback: 304 pages
• Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC; New Ed edition (May 7, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0747585520
• ISBN-13: 978-0747585527
• Product Dimensions: 7.6 x 5 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 7.8 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,475,024 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Andrew G Marshall is the UK's best known marital therapist and an expert on why people fall out of love and how to save your relationship. His work has been translated into twenty different languages and US edition of 'I love you but I'm not IN love with you' has been specially expanded with extra information about sexual desire.

You can find out more about Andrew, his work and ask questions at his website: www.andrewgmarshall.com

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18 of 19 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A hard book for me to read, February 14, 2010

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James H. Stewart III "Jeddak" (Carrollton, TX) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: I Love You, but I'm Not IN Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship (Paperback)

This is a hard book to read. My wife left, and, just as is very clearly explained in the book, me, the man, didn't have a clue. I found this book because the title is the exact phrase that she used as she walked out. Now, my life is dedicated to being a person that can she can be in love with again.
But, the book is hard. I am in there. I can't say how many times I was reading and simply had to put the book down until the tears stopped. It was me I was reading about, and I simply never knew what I had been doing, and even more, not doing.
I hope I haven't learned too late.

10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars good mix of data and prescriptive exercises, July 23, 2007

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A. K. Beltaine "UU Seminary Student" (Ithaca, NY USA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: I Love You, but I'm Not IN Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship (Paperback)

It is fairly short. I read it in a couple hours. However, we'll definitely be going back through the book to do some of the exercises. I found the research useful and well presented. (Thanks for including many types of couples, non-cliche couples will not feel left out.)
I hope the exercises prove to be as useful.
I found the title off-putting, and it created a short-lived crisis in our house. But I think the book will work as "marriage enrichment" which is why I bought it (Not to announce that we were through, which is what the title implies.) So, prep your spouse that the book will be useful for helping you STAY together, and make the relationship better, then buy it and use it.

3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars have to give it a full 5 stars, June 21, 2011

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King Lerch (Ohio USA) - See all my reviews

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This review is from: I Love You, but I'm Not IN Love with You: Seven Steps to Saving Your Relationship (Paperback)

this book is very unique because it doesn't address common problems such as "we argue too much" or "i hate him/her"...it is one of the few resources for couples who don't argue enough, or who love each other but are looking for some "feeling" they no longer feel. this book tells it like it is and opens the eyes to relationship realities. should be required reading at the altar.