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Love's Journey: The Seasons and Stages of Relationship [Paperback]

Michael Gurian (Author)
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October 3, 1995
Gurian's popular workshops on intimate partnership have transformed marriages and relationships from coast to coast. Now his unique twelve-phase model for tracing the evolution of love through the course of an erratic lifetime is presented in this marvelous book, which draws upon ancient and mythic traditions to provide a new model for the course of the relationship he calls the lover's journey.


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While professing to be a guidebook for the journey of love, the route laid out here is one of brambles, fog, and lost directions. It is unclear whether this book is intended to be a self-improvement guide, a relationship builder, or a gathering of international mythology. Whatever its intent, none is achieved. Gurian, a therapist who leads workshops on intimate partnership, presents his theories in stages and seasons, beginning each section with a mythological tale. He then interweaves the tale with explanations of the seasons and their impact on people and their relationships, resulting in a jumble of people and situations, real and imaginary. The author further muddies the waters with the excessive use of "he/she" and other compound pronouns. Not recommended.?Priscilla Davis Dann, Gates Mills P.L., Cleveland
Copyright 1995 Reed Business Information, Inc.

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"This passionate book serves as a roadmap for intimate partners over the journey of an entire lifetime and as an important tool for moving past power struggle and on into joyous, fulfilling life partnership."—John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus



"A wise, beautifully written, and very useful book about the human quest for intimacy."—Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks, coauthors of Conscious Loving --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 289 pages
  • Publisher: Shambhala; 1st edition (October 3, 1995)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1570621055
  • ISBN-13: 978-1570621055
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.4 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (1 customer review)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,190,059 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Michael Gurian is a social philosopher, family therapist, corporate consultant, and the New York Times bestselling author of twenty books published in fifteen languages. The Gurian Institute, which he co-founded, conducts research internationally, launches pilot programs and trains professionals. Michael has been called "the people's philosopher" for his ability to bring together people's ordinary lives and scientific ideas.
As a social philosopher, he has pioneered efforts to bring neuro-biology and brain research into homes, workplaces, schools and public policy. A number of his ground-breaking books in child development, including THE WONDER OF BOYS, BOYS AND GIRLS LEARN DIFFERENTLY! THE WONDER OF GIRLS and WHAT COULD HE BE THINKING? have sparked national debate. His newest work, THE MINDS OF BOYS (September 2005) provides a revolutionary new framework, based in neuro-biology, by which to understand and care for the educational needs of our sons.
Michael has served as a consultant to families, corporations, therapists, physicians, school districts, community agencies, churches, criminal justice personnel and other professionals, traveling to approximately 20 cities a year to keynote at conferences. His training videos (also available as DVDs) for parents and volunteers are used by Big Brother and Big Sister agencies in the U.S. and Canada.
As an educator, Michael previously taught at Gonzaga University, Eastern Washington University, and Ankara University. His speaking engagements include Harvard University, Johns Hopkins University, Stanford University, Macalester College, University of Colorado, University of Missouri-Kansas City, and UCLA. His philosophy reflects the diverse cultures (European, Asian, Middle Eastern and American) in which he has lived, worked and studied.
Michael's work has been featured in various media, including the New York Times, the Washington Post, USA Today, Newsweek, Time, People, Reader's Digest, the Wall Street Journal, Parenting, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and on the Today Show, Good Morning America, CNN, PBS and National Public Radio.
Michael can be reached on the worldwide web at
www.michaelgurian.com


 

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5.0 out of 5 stars Vastly deepens our vision of long-term relationships, June 6, 2000
This is a truly great book.....so great that it is amazing it is not a bestseller. Especially, since Gurian's other extremely popular books about the psychological development of male adolescents are based at heart on the same model he uses in this book to chart the journey of a love relationship between two people.

In short, Gurian presents a model of love as a journey through 4 seasons (likened to the climatic seasons), going from dependence to independence to interdependence. Each stage is marked at it's heart by a crisis and it is the successful negotiation of each such crisis that takes the relationship into the next stage which then presents it's own challenges.

This model dramatically expands the understanding of what happens in long-term relationship, truly bringing to life the truth behind cliches such as every test is a challenge. One feels intensely for the entire journey and experiences great hope tinged with just the right amount of trepidation at what lies ahead on the path.

Gurian's rendition of every season begins with a story, some picked from different world traditions and some crafted from diverse sources. These myths are then explored on the basis of the model, giving an almost dream-like quality to the entire book. Gurian's writing is inspired, spiritual even and brings out clearly the sacred nature of a two-partner relationship.

This book deepens our vision of long-term relationship like no other.

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