A terrific book, written with authority and sensitivity to men as well as women--(.full of useful, fresh information.--(Bradley Gerstman, Esq., Christopher Pizzo, CPA, and Rich Seldes, M.D., authors of What Men Want and Marry Me!)
"Groundbreaking, provocative, and substantial, this book will light the fire of every woman who seeks true intimacy and strength."--(Salli Rasberry, coauthor of Living Your Life Out Loud)
An abundant supply of useful strategies . Unique for its readers--(Sheila A. Rogovin, Ph.D., psychotherapist and coauthor of Couple Fits: How to Live with the Person You Love)
Again, Beverly Engel has identified a widespread problem and provided womenwith wise guidelines for bursting through it. She writes with compassion and insight. If you think you are a 'disappearing woman, you will drink in this book as if it were a health-giving elixir. It is!--(Susan Page, author of How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together and If I'm So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?)
"Loving Him without Losing You is a powerful and practical guide to relationships that every woman should read!"--(Barbara De Angelis, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Secrets About Life Every Woman Should Know and Are You the One for Me?)
"This is a book of depth and power. I highly recommend it not only to women who lose themselves in their relationships with men but to the parents of adolescent girls who need to be taught how to view themselves as valuable beings separate from their relationships with men and boys."--(Michael Gurian, author of The Good Son and A Fine Young Man)
"When I was in college, we were all Disappearing Women. We didn't even think about it; that's just the way things were. Some of us grew out of it; some didn't. If we all had had this book, our lives might have turned out much differently. Buy this book so you can become your authentic self."--(Randi Kreger, coauthor of Stop Walking on Eggshells)
"In Loving Him Without Losing You Beverly Engel offers powerful wisdom and insight concerning the age-old problem of women losing themselves in their relationships with men. Unlike so many others, Beverly doesn't take the easy way out by blaming men but instead explores the phenomenon from a biological, cultural, and psychological perspective and offers women empowering suggestions about how to take responsibility for changing their situations."--(Patti McDermott, author of How to Talk to Your Husband; How to Talk to Your Wife)
"Loving Him Without Losing You is a wonderful resource and guide to finding oneself and tapping into creativity as a part of one's foundation for a life well lived. I recommend it highly."--(Lucia Capacchione, Ph.D.,author of Visioning: Ten Steps to Designing the Life of Your Dreams andThe Creative Journal) --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.
"Beverly Engel has identified a widespread problem and provided women with wise guidelines for bursting through it. She writes with compassion and insight. If you think you are a Disappearing Woman, you will drink in this book as if it were a health-giving elixir. It is!"Susan Page, author of How One of You Can Bring the Two of You Together and If Im So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single?
"This remarkably helpful book offers new insights into why so many women surrender their individuality in relationships. Dont wait until your hair is on fire to read it."Maxine Schnall, founder and Executive Director of Wives Self Help
"A book of depth and power. I highly recommend it not only to women who lose themselves in their relationships with men but to the parents of adolescent girls who need to be taught how to view themselves as valuable beings separate from their relationships with men and boys."Michael Gurian, author of The Good Son and A Fine Young Man
Do you frequently find yourself putting your lovers needs ahead of your own? Do you tend to lose yourself in your romantic relationships? Have you ever neglected your career, your friends, or even your health while in the midst of a love affair?
Now, in this landmark book, Beverly Engel examines the intricate reasons why so many women submerge themselves in their relationships with menand offers a straightforward, empowering program that you can use to free yourself from the powerful grip of this all-too-common problem and rediscover yourself as a Woman of Substance.
a must have for broken women.It helps building yourself up I love this bookPublished 12 days ago by delicia
I enjoyed the book very much. It helped me a lot to recognize where my identity is. The point I didn't appreciate that much was description of disappearing woman as borderline. Read morePublished 2 months ago by Alena Gregova
This is an incredible book--I feel like I've had years of good therapy after finishing it. If you've survived a neglectful or emotionally, mentally or physically abusive romantic... Read morePublished 5 months ago by Ardent
I have read this a couple of times. The writing is wonderful.
And the author tells just how we become invisible and how and why not to. Read more
THIS BOOK CAN BE GREAT FOR ANY WOMEN, IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE..
I GIVE IT THE THUMBS UP ALL THE WAY. AND IT COMES AS A HIGH RECOMMEND.
I thought this book was going to be helpful to me, but it turned out that the author's slant on men who behave badly is to simply forgive them and to even see their behavior as... Read morePublished 10 months ago by Tnd441
reading this book helped me to stop being a disappearing woman. I finally was able to leave an unequal co-dependent relationship after so many years.Published 21 months ago by Colorado Cat
I absolutely loved this book! I wish they thought of a different title though. They make it seem like it's all about the guy. Read morePublished 22 months ago by Brandy
This book was very helpful. It had several exercises to help the reader figure out why she loses herself in a relationship. Read morePublished on April 27, 2012 by Jessica Hageman