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Larry E McCall
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Book Description

February 12, 2009
Many men don't have a good role model for how to love their wives. This helpful volume explores aspects and implications of using Christ as our model in marriage.

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 206 pages
  • Publisher: BMH Books (February 12, 2009)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 088469304X
  • ISBN-13: 978-0884693048
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (20 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #383,308 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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I enjoy writing books for people who are like me--"average Christians" who have a hunger to learn more about Jesus Christ and what it means to live in light of His gospel.

Both "Walking Like Jesus Did" and "Loving Your Wife as Christ Loves the Church" start by exploring characteristics of Christ, then move to Bible-centered, gospel-saturated, practical ways of mirroring Jesus in our every day relationships and responsibilities.

I've been blessed to have the privilege of being one of the pastors of the same church, Christ's Covenant Church of Winona Lake, Indiana, since 1981. This church family's passion for "Treasuring Christ and Proclaiming His Worth" inspires me to continue writing books to help people to see more clearly how to live Christ-centered lives.

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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars EVERY Christian husband should read this book April 13, 2009
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This book should be in the hands of EVERY Christian husband.

I don't make that statement lightly. There are many books on marriage, some good, some not so good. Some are heavy on philosophy & theology, some on psychology, some on practical advice. Some are slanted toward newlyweds while others focus on troubled marriages. Some are thoroughly Biblical while many give the Bible only lip service even though they are marketed as Christian.

Loving Your Wife as Christ Loves the Church, however, is truly in a class by itself among the marriage books that I have read. It is:

Bible based: It's not self-help pop psychology with Bible verses to back it up: every chapter, every point comes from a strictly Biblical foundation from the ground up. Frankly, a non-Christian wouldn't understand this book at all, and frankly, that's the mark of a thoroughly Biblical book.

Christ focused: this book takes seriously the truth that God designed the role of a husband to his wife to be a unique representation of Christ, and that EVERYTHING that a husband thinks, says, or does in relation to his wife has to be based on that truth. Every single teaching on every single page is rooted & grounded in the character of Christ. Wow.

Pastoral: This is a pastoral book. By that I mean you see this man's heart as a pastor, a shepherd. He sits you down as a friend & mentor, as Paul would to Timothy, & speaks in both truth & love. His words are straightforward & easy to grasp, but targeted to one end: helping you become a husband that is a reflection of Christ.

Honest: This book doesn't pretend that marriage is easy if you just follow these five simple steps. He's honest about the difficulties & shares some of his own failures as a husband.
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Loving your Wife as Christ Loves the Church April 5, 2010
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I have read this book twice. I lost my wife of 51 years to cancer 16 months ago and I have fallen in love with a beautiful lady and I saw this book in a store in California and got it. I read it so it could help me if we get married. The book is awesome, I wish I had read it before my wife passed and I could have put into practice some of the things Larry talks about.

I want to make sure that if God blesses me with marrying this wonderful lady that I don't make some of the same mistakes I made the first time. My marriage was very good, it lasted 51 years, but I know I could have done a lot of things different and this time that's what I want.

The book is excellent for both married men or men like me that are thinking about getting married. It is so much better to know what to do correctly ahead of time than to find out what you should have done after the fact.

I am giving this book to friends of mine that are married to read. I have given it to my pastor for read also. I think it would be a great study group subject for all married men.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Men - this is "must read" material!! November 4, 2009
Loving Your Wife as Christ Loves the Church is the latest release from Larry McCall (Walking Like Jesus Did). He not only is an author but conference & leadership seminar speaker, and the Pastor for Preaching and Teaching at Christ's Covenant Church which is just a short drive from where I live. Published by BMH Books, a local publishing house, Loving Your Wife was a book I was immediately interested in reading and reviewing.

Loving Your Wife takes Ephesians 5:25 and unpacks it in such a way that men come to know a full understanding of Paul's exhortation. McCall challenges husbands to love their wives in very practical terms, and his pastor's heart comes out at the end of every chapter as he provides questions to consider and action steps to apply. His appendices further this practicality as he offers insight for men who may be married to an unconverted wife, living in a difficult marriage or those who might want to begin an accountability group.

Loving Your Wife was easy to read and yet challenged my thinking concerning my own marriage. I found myself reflecting, and wincing from time to time, as I finished each chapter. I enjoyed the manner in which Larry McCall probed nuances of the biblical text, and in the process stayed true to it's intended meaning. I envision this book being used by men's groups, young married classes, as a counseling resource and other varied ways in & out of the church.

I recommend this book unreservedly!
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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful
I have served in pastoral ministry for over 20 years. During these years I have certainly counseled a lot of individuals and couples. Since I desire to be effective in both the public ministry of the Word (preaching) and the private ministry of the Word (counseling/discipleship), I am constantly on the lookout for tools that are biblically accurate. It was a thrill and blessing, therefore, to read Larry's latest book. It is biblically solid, centering on the implications of knowing Christ and the gospel of grace. I have read many books related to marriage and the roles of husband and wife, some better than others. This is one of the best. I am looking forward now to using this book in my ministry to the men at the church where I serve. It was encouraging and convicting to my own heart--I am positive it will be so to others.
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5.0 out of 5 stars God is good!!
Changed my life. God is good!!!
Published 2 months ago by jacob
5.0 out of 5 stars A Must-Read for Husbands
Unlike some other "Christian" marriage books I have read, Pastor Larry McCall exhorts and encourages men to love their wives as Christ loves the church and every bit of his... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Matt
5.0 out of 5 stars life and marriage changing
Reading this book, I couldn't help but feel totally overwhelmed and inadequate at loving my wife the way I should. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Matt Morris
5.0 out of 5 stars A husband's view
This book is filled with relevant information that is biblically based. I gave it five stars, because of how much it is based on Scripture. Read more
Published 9 months ago by Brad
5.0 out of 5 stars If you are or ever plan to be a husband you should read this book.
Something for everybody; but especially good if you did not grow up with a christian father in your home. I recommend this book.
Published 10 months ago by Texas Pete
5.0 out of 5 stars Get It!
This is a great book with good gospel-centered practical application ideas. The truth inside it will save you a lot headache in your marriage if you receive it and apply it to... Read more
Published 16 months ago by Derek Hunter
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There is no scarcity of literature to help us improve our marriage. It is suggested to us that this relational glue comes in the form of clearly defined goals, laughter, eroticism,... Read more
Published 18 months ago by carnivalsage
5.0 out of 5 stars From wife to husband
Great book for any marriage. It will help all marriages, even if you don't think you need help. All men could use a guide to help them express their feelings.
Published 19 months ago by Valerie
5.0 out of 5 stars I'm not even finished this book
I'm not even finished this book, but it is so strong and it speaks right too and through me. Once I finish this book, I'm going to order it for some family members and... Read more
Published 21 months ago by Lafayette Jefferson
5.0 out of 5 stars reader and provider of literature to my fiancé'
this has allowed my finance now husband learn the value of being the head of the family, and know what God expects from him as a husband and a christian.
Published on July 27, 2010 by sonya pugh
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