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To escape the pressures and unpleasantness of reality, Lorna relies on her imagination: She becomes a ballerina, a Broadway songstress, a Miss Universe contender. The interiors of her mind provide relief from the role she must play in her family and elsewhere: She is the good girl to everyone but herself. ("Ever since I was six and halfway aware that something about Lon didn't work right, I've been vigilant about ... counting the things I am grateful for. Or could be grateful for, if I were a good person.") The only difference between her and Lonnie, she is convinced, is that she is simply a better actress.
Lorna guides us through her real and fantasy life, from the angst of lonely adolescence to the trials of finding and losing love, and finally to the relief and reward of acceptance. Through it all, Lorna remains true to herself. And though she doesn't always think much of the person she is, she emerges from childhood a strong, passionate, and compassionate figure, realizing that--despite all the pain and guilt of growing up with a mentally ill sister, a "sister from the black lagoon"--Lonnie represents the best and worst of her own life and identity. --Leah Ball
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A tender, funny, and thoroughly absorbing novel!,
By Ericka Lutz (Oakland, California) - See all my reviews
This review is from: My Sister from the Black Lagoon : A Novel of My Life (Paperback)
"My Sister from the Black Lagoon" absorbs and entertains from its engaging first line ("I was born into a mentally ill family. My sister was the officially crazy one, but really we were all nuts") to its almost dreamy, nostalgic end. Laurie Fox's autobiographical novel tells the double coming-of-age story of Lorna Person (the narrator) and her deeply-disturbed, brilliant, and gender-bended sister Lonnie, ill from birth with an undiagnosed mental disorder that makes her run wild with animals, rage at "normal" people. and generally live in her own, untamed, internal universe. Lorna and Lonnie grow up in the TV soaked and inspired environment of '50's Burbank. While the family struggles to cope with Lonnie's illness (with weekly trips to the psychiatric clinic and prescription sedatives for the parents), lonely Lorna plays at normality, escaping into the fantasy worlds of movies, theater, and music. As the '50's turn into the '60's, the Person family dissolves. Their parents divorce, Lorna discovers love and friendship, Lonnie becomes more and more removed from society. When, as a late adolescent in college, Lorna finally cracks, her salvation again comes from the theater. This time, though, not through playing another person's character, but by creating her own. While "My Sister" is largely Lorna's story of creeping out from under her sister's overbearing shadow, it is always Lonnie's story too. Fox's voice is wry yet always compassionate and utterly respectful as each sister grows into being her own Person. This book is an excellent choice for those interested in a tale of a family fighting terrible odds, for those fascinated by the symbiotic, twisted, loving relationship any sisterhood entails, for those intrigued by the ravages mental illness imparts on an otherwise "normal" neurotic household, for those who believe in art as salvation, or simply for those who enjoy a very good read.
3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars
Shallow, disappointing,
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This review is from: My Sister from the Black Lagoon : A Novel of My Life (Paperback)
Even though the author stated early in her book that she hoped this was *her* story, the story lacked depth about the mentally ill sister and the author's relationship with her. Lorna/Laurie's relationship with her cat seemed, at times, to be more important to her than her dear, frustrated (and frustrating) sister.Never did we learn what Lonnie's illness is, what was being done for her, how she was educated, what her prognois was, how she acted that was violent (other than the unusual toys and the interesting pets)- Lonnie clearly lacked depth. Why mention the sister in the title if the novel was to be entirely about Lorna? Other reviewers have suggested that Lorna/Laurie is self-centered, but that is to be expected. This is a memoir of an actor/writer, after all. The point of a memoir is to focus on one's life- and a actor is supposed to present herself. Lorna/Laurie had a typical, freak, suburban upbringing in the 60's. The major difference is that she had a lot of stress at home, without enough support for herself, for her mother, and for her father. Even Lonnie appeared to not be well-supported by her therapists. Hopefully, people who work with the mentally ill and their families have learned over the decades to support them as they have learned with other forms of more visible illness. A better memoir to explore the flaky family and the ensuing sister entanglement is "The Liar's Club". Truly a wonderful read.
5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
Started out funny, but it quickly went downhill,
By A Customer
This review is from: My Sister from the Black Lagoon : A Novel of My Life (Paperback)
This book started out funny (with Lonnie's fear of toast) and quickly went down from there. Instead of being a book about her crazy sister, we ended up being fed a bit of her own personal neurosis and details of her first sexual encounter. To be honest, that's not why I bought the book, but I grudgingly read on hoping that the book would get better. It didn't.
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