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Made for You and Me: Going West, Going Broke, Finding Home [Hardcover]

Caitlin Shetterly
4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (29 customer reviews)

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March 8, 2011
"Caitlin Shetterly's Made for You and Me is a beautiful, moving, haunting, and funny memoir about what really counts. It moves deftly and lightly between the west coast and the east coast, and frustration and hope, with pointed, buoyant lines that make you smile as they pierce your heart. Made for You and Me is a memoir about great people (with great dogs, too; funny how that works out) and their great new son going through a rough patch with grace and wisdom. Caitlin and her family will realize many dreams. And in the meantime, rather than despair, they have given us a sublime gift of a book."
--Scott Simon, host of NPR's Weekend Edition Saturday, is the author of Baby, We Were Meant for Each Other
"A redemptive story of how Caitlin Shetterly and her passionately devoted husband fought life to a draw in their coast-to-coast-to-coast odyssey. Kerouac would be proud. In fact he might be envious."
--Peter Davis, Academy Award–winning director of Hearts and Minds

Newlywed Caitlin Shetterly and her husband, Dan Davis, two hardworking freelancers, began their lives together in 2008 by pursuing a lifelong, shared dream of leaving Maine and going West. At first, California was the land of plenty. Quickly, though, the recession landed, and a surprise pregnancy that was also surprisingly rough made Caitlin too sick to work. By December, every job Dan had lined up had been canceled, and though he pounded the pavement, from shop to shop and from bar to bar, he could not find any work at all. By March 2009, every cent of the couple's savings had been spent.

So, a year after they'd set out with big plans, Caitlin and Dan packed up again, this time with a baby on board, to make their way home to move in with Caitlin's mother. As they drove, Caitlin blogged about their situation and created audio diaries for NPR's Weekend Edition--and received an astounding response. From all across the country, listeners offered help, opening their hearts and their homes. And when the young family arrived back in rural Maine and squeezed into Caitlin's mother's small saltbox house, Caitlin learned that the bonds of family run deeper than any tug to roam, and that, with love, she and Dan could hold their dreams in sight, wherever they were.

Made for You and Me captures the irrepressible spirit and quiet perseverance of one small family--and offers to share that strength with any reader willing to make the journey.

"There's a story of this country that doesn't get told a lot. Or told well. Of what it's like to not make it. Of having to say to yourself, and to your spouse and your child ‘Listen, this isn't it. We need to try something else. We need to start over...from the very beginning.' Caitlin Shetterly's Made for You and Me is that story. Resonant and richly detailed, it takes you deep into the personal heart of the beginning of the financial crisis and the recession that followed. Then, somehow, via Venice, California, backwoods Maine and 3000 miles in between brings you out the other end."
--Kai Ryssdal, host of NPR's Marketplace

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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Shetterly, who chronicled her cross-country trip from L.A. to Maine for NPR's Weekend Edition, offers this deeper look into her emotional and geographic journey. The recession hit Maine hard in late 2007. Shetterly and her husband, caught off guard, struggled to make a living. Friends in California beckoned the pair, with tales of a sunnier, more prosperous, and stable life. The optimistic young couple, together with their dog and cat, set out for Los Angeles in 2008. A year later, depressed and broke, toting a new baby and minus one pet, they drove back home to Maine, settling in with Shetterly's mother. "My anger had fueled me to the point of outrage—how could America let me down this way? How could America do this to families? Wasn't it just yesterday we were watching Sex and the City and buying fabulous ÿlifestyles' on maxed out credit cards? What had changed overnight?" In this compelling narrative, Shetterly reveals all the messy, mundane details of lives coming undone. However, as she acknowledges sadly, it's her observations on the reduced American lifestyle that give her commentary an edge. Readers would be wise to heed her commentary on the loss of our small towns, homelessness, joblessness and the increasing economic divisions between Americans. (Mar.)
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From Booklist

With this twenty-first-century recession memoir, Shetterly is going to get a lot of feedback from those who have found themselves in similar situations. As she carefully documents in a book that provided the framework for a series of NPR Weekend Edition diary installments, she and her husband, along with their pets, hit the highway in 2008, looking for success in California. Leaving Maine was a huge risk for the young couple, but one filled with promise, especially with potential career advancement in the entertainment industry. Instead, they faced rental traumas, an unplanned pregnancy, and the dawning realization that the economic downturn was personal. Shetterly�s willingness to address her own shortcomings makes for a deeply personal and riveting, alternately funny and poignant read. As the couple, new baby in tow, heads back east to the safety of family, she struggles to find the teachable moment in all that has gone wrong. Forget the Cleavers. Shetterly�s is the new American family, and the faster we realize that, the better we all will be at coping. --Colleen Mondor

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Voice; First Edition edition (March 8, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1401341462
  • ISBN-13: 978-1401341466
  • Product Dimensions: 5.8 x 0.8 x 8.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 13.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (29 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,018,159 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Caitlin Shetterly (www.caitlinshetterly.com) is a frequent contributor to National Public Radio where she reports on arts and culture, food, and lifestyle. She can be heard on both All Things Considered and Weekend Edition. For Weekend Edition, she created a series of autobiographical audio diaries about the Recession under the title Diary of a Recession. These diaries, along with her blog, Passage West, inspired her memoir Made For You and Me: Going West, Going Broke, Finding Home (Voice, March 8, 2011).

Caitlin's first book, Fault Lines: Stories of Divorce, was published by the Putnam Berkley Group in 2001. For several years, she wrote a bimonthly column, "Bramhall Square," about relationships and love for the Portland Phoenix.

Caitlin is the Founder and Artistic Director of the Winter Harbor Theatre Company, where she produces and directs works that attempt to tackle the important issues of our time. Caitlin graduated with Honors in English and American Literature from Brown University. She lives with her husband, photographer Daniel E. Davis, their young son, and their salty dog, Hopper. When she isn't writing, directing plays, producing radio pieces, cooking, cleaning or childrearing, Caitlin spends as much time as possible reading, watching "Friday Night Lights" and, especially, walking outside in nature.

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29 of 32 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars well written but frustrating content April 17, 2011
Format:Kindle Edition
Caitlin can write, but it is hard to overlook that she is a priviledged, well educated adult who is constantly bailed out by her parents and others. She can write because, as she says in the beginning of the book, she rents the best apartment daddy can afford, has a great view of the city and ocean and lighthouses, sets up a great little study, cooks up her organic, delicious meals, and basically has the luxury that few people have to pursue the creative life full-time.
She and her husband are dreamers, which is wonderful; they get pregnant because they aren't careful with birth control -- bringing another life into the world when you are not self-sufficient isn't a serious concern for them. They sign up for MaineCare when they get home for healthcare. Pathetic and infuriating that people who work full-time+ to support their families and earn benefits are bailing out Caitlin, her husband and kid.
So, Caitlin can write, but she left this reader queasy.
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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Ups and downs April 19, 2011
By Tina
Format:Hardcover
This book is the type of book that I often find myself reading and enjoying and this book is no exception. So, why only 3 stars?

Although I think that this author is an excellent writer and I enjoy the main storyline, I can't really enjoy - well the main character, which in this case is the actual author. Sorry.

Actually,I should say that I don't really enjoy what the main character does throughout the book, but more importantly what kind of message she seems to be sending (and sounding somewhat proud of?). While it seems to me the author can't seem to plant any roots anywhere for very long (which is fine), what is less fine is the fact that she expects everyone around her to bail her out - despite her choices.

I think what bugs me about the book is that underlying tone that your choices don't have consequences. I was completely shocked when I read the passage about how she found out she was preganant - wow! talk about not worrying about the future. She sounded like a 14 year old teenager! and when she ends up with morning sickness that lasts all day (and for several months), surprise, surprise, she describes how unfortunate she is, having to lay around all day, while her poor husband basically does all the work and then some. Yet, the author asks us (expects us) to feel sorry for her?

The writing is good, but I just could not enjoy this memoir - I guess because the author's views on life are just so different than mine.
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12 of 13 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars repetative whining self aborbed drivel June 14, 2011
By t1962
Format:Hardcover
Writing is repetitive, the writer is self absorbed and prone to tantrums. It gets tiring hearing a woman who has the maturity level of a 13 year old, but who is in her early 30s, whines continually about her life when most of it seems to have been financed by Dad. Can't feed a family of 3 (one an infant) on $100 a week? Seriously? Go to consumer credit counseling, track your expenses dear, and travel to a part of the world where hardship is more than the inability to eat out every night. Like great swaths of the world. Like parts of Portland, Maine (the sections of town that do NOT feature $1200 apartments).
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5.0 out of 5 stars love real true grit stories
I love the way the story was told.....I love real life words, real life drama and the emotions that were described and experienced were certainly felt by the reader. Read more
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