Customer Reviews

Make Every Girl Want You

5 star:		(10)
4 star:		(14)
3 star:		(5)
2 star:		(4)
1 star:		(10)

 

 

Let me just tell you that this book stood out among ALL of the books I read. No other book has been realistic for NICE guys. I KNEW I was having a problem communicating with Women. I don't wnat to be a jerk, or play games. I wasn't raised that way. All of the books have tips for playing on biology and blah blah, dominance, cockiness, leadership... [fluff]! This book laid it out- plain and simple how to COMMUNICATE with women! I never consciously tried to play any women. I just read all the books. Every time I got positive feedback, It related to something I read in this book! And like I said all of my action has been "by accident". I am not trying to scheme. I meet a girl I am attracted to and it's like instant success. They are eating out of my hand. i don't know WHY. I just know this book's ideas are churning in the back of mind. I am listening and the girls are going crazy!

If you want a true guide on how to make women want you sexually, then check out David DeAngelo's EBook Double your Dating or go to www.fastseduction.com/guide. The latter is free so I'd recommend that the most. Those are the true resources you should use for how to pick up women. Not this overpriced drivel.

I ordered this book with high hopes that the elusive girl over the cube wall would be mine 4ever. When I got home and open the box and finally got my hands on my prized purchase, I couldn't wait for the mysteries to be unlocked. With a one star rating you may already know where the review is going. I tried to follow in Oscar's footsteps but apparently my feet were too small and I got off on the wrong foot. I used the three different angles they laid out and to say it didn't work would be an understatement of epic proportions. Not only did it not work with the hottie over the cube wall but failed with the un-hottie in the mailroom. I can only say that I was devastated by the claim that it would work even for a pathetic guy like me. In closing, I would say that if you're trying to get the girl of your dreams or for that matter a date with a girl in the mail room this is not the book for you.

Frankly, I expected more for my money than I got with this book. The quality of the book itself is rather poor considering the price.

While I agree with some of the content, there are a few areas that are downright ridiculous. Of course many women want everything... and good luck to them all.

Overall, there is good and practical advice to be found here. At a lesser price the book would be a great buy; at the inflated price it's simply a decent buy.

Save your money and go hang out with some of your female friends. You'll learn just as much in your conversations with them.

I am really surprised at some of the reviews of this book. Personally, I believe that the individuals who rated this book at one star either didn't really read the book or thought that the method would not work and never tried it. A buddy and myself learned the method and soon had more women trying to have sex with us than we could handle. The secret to the book is to apply a simple philosophy to the way you normally communicate with women. It seemed crazy at first, but my buddy and I were astounded at the results. We would have simple conversations with women (that we'd just met) and then we'd watch them start to call, get together with us, and even bring more (prettier) friends with them when they came. I am not saying that you'll read this book and every girl in the world will want to sleep with you, but I guarantee after using the method for a while you'll get girls interested in you that you never thought you'd ever have a chance with. To all the guys out there....don't miss your opportunity to read and try out the method in this book. I am living proof that it works. It really does!

For starters, I have to compliment this book because it actually advocates being a nicer person to attract women, and it does not tell you to do stuff like "negging" or acting "cocky and funny" or any of the other foolish things you are likely to find in other books on this topic. This book actually advocates treating people as people, which is quite rare in this genre. And the authors are spot on correct in their assertion that "jerks" get women because they've got other things going for them. But CCR, ( compliments, compassion, and reassurance) as a dating concept, has two massive flaws:

1.Unless you sincerely care about her as a person, you will never be able to pull CCR off convincingly. If you do care about her, then you don't need CCR because you will do 99% of it naturally.
2.Guys are going to pick this book up and use it like any other layguide and chase around a bunch of women they really don't have a shot with. It's going to bust a lot of guy's bubbles, but women can be just as visual as men when it comes to selecting partners, and if it is just sex, then they are exactly as visual as men. CCR can win you a lot of female friendships, but if she isn't into you physically, then you are going to get no further with her than you will with these other layguides.

I like CCR as a concept, but I don't think it is very useful as a dating strategy, because if you have to fake it, you are going to blow it, and if you're genuine, you don't really need it. But the good thing about this book is that it can help put a lot of guys into the right, positive mindset about women by reminding them that women are people too with their own feelings and needs. Most books on this topic tell men all the wrong things and simply furthers their slide into misogyny and loneliness.
On the surface, you would think that being a nice guy to women would be common sense when you want to get dates, but a lot of men reject this notion, because men mean something very different when they say "nice guy" than women do. Men look at life though a prism of competition - that's why guys love sports. But you don't win by being nice to the other team - being nice will get you stepped on and walked over in any competitive environment. "Nice guys" might appear nice on the surface since they don't assert themselves, but on the inside many of them are actually very angry embittered people. These are the guys who buy into all this manipulation and seduction: in the mind of the bitter lonely guy, he's simply getting even with all the women who have been screwing him over.
Of course, not all of life is a competition, and men will be far healthier if they stop looking at dating and sex as some kind of competition. That's why I like this book - the program isn't very useful in the sense that the authors claim it to be, but the information on what you should be working on to make yourself more attractive is tons more useful than any of the other nonsense you're going to find in other books. No, this stuff won't land you a bunch of supermodels, but if you and some other guy are on equal footing competing for the same girl, and you are following CCR while he is being an idiot and following the mystery method, you are going to come out on top.

This book is an excellent relationship builder. The basic concept is attracting women by showing interest them as people, not as sex objects. It has a lot of interesting information, such as the best places to meet women, the proper way to hold a converstion, and the importance of having female friends, just to name a few.

The only bad thing about this book-- which really isn't a bad thing-- is the cover. I think it can lead guys to believe that this book is about getting quick sex(although the authors do explain at the beginning of the book that their system is not about one-night stands, and that it takes consistent effort to attract women with their method). Again, thats not really a negative thing, it just could've been marketed better.

Overall, I thought this book was excellent. It really opened my mind to how women think, and also about building strong friendships and relationships.

Its not as Revolutionary as the other reviewers are making it out to be, but this book tells you about a pretty logical idea that we dont use in our lives: giving compliments, being compassionate, and reasuring others about their strengths and decisions. It opened my eyes to giving compliments and just chatting with women for the sake of just chatting and not "picking them up", but I believe that if not applied properly, you will fall into the "Nice Guy" category and be seen as a, well, nice and plain guy - Which is horrible for attraction. I definetly learned a couple of new things, but I was expecting more for my $15.

This book is great. A lot of common sense stuff. It really helps explain how to get what you want by giving girls what THEY want! After all, dating is a barter, and to get something good you have to give something good in return. It's already starting to pay dividends. I had dinner with a beautiful TV model/actress and I was just her friend. We made out, and she even paid for me (well, at the second place we went)! It really does work.

It dawned on me that a lot of the things they advise doing in the book are things that gay men probably do naturally, which may be why so many beautiful women have gay friends. An alternate title to the book might be something like "The Gay Man's Guide To Getting Laid." Thanks to John & Steve for writing such a wonderful book.