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A Man and His Mother: An Adopted Son's Search [Hardcover]

Tim Green (Author)
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October 1997
For years, Tim Green seemed to be living the American dream. A handsome, intelligent honor student, he was also a strapping 6'2, 250-pound All-American defensive end at Syracuse University, where he led the historically successful football program back to national prominence. On the strength of his stellar college football years, Tim became a coveted first-round draft choice of the Atlanta Falcons, going on to a sensational career in the NFL.

But appearances can be deceiving. There was a void that numerous academic accolades and the adoration of cheering fans could not fill. Though he was raised in a loving and supportive family, Tim, an adopted child, had always longed to find his biological mother. But it was not until the mother of an ex-girlfriend confessed to him that she had given up a son a son who would have been about Tim's age that the full weight of what it meant to be adopted came down on him. Tim acutely felt the need to locate his biological mother, to let her know that he was all right, that he was successful and happy. Empathizing with the feelings of loss and regret that a mother who had given up a child must feel, he sought not only to find answers to his own questions but to answer those of his biological mother a woman who somewhere, sometimes, must have thought of the son she could not keep. Bolstered by the love and support of his adoptive parents, Tim embarked on an odyssey to discover the woman who had given him his life and then left him before she could become a part of it.

A Man and His Mother is the extraordinary story of one man's courageous search for the mother he never knew. Expertly written and filled with brilliant insights and heart-wrenching remembrances, as well as gentle humor, it is more than just a compelling look at what it means to be adopted. From Tim's life as a gangly youngster to competing in the grueling National Football League to having children of his own, this is an impassioned exploration of the special relationship between and a man and his mother, and how deeply this relationship affects everything we do in our lives.



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With his usual intelligence and emotional honesty, former football star Tim Green (now a novelist and commentator on National Public Radio) tackles the subject of his search for his biological mother in A Man and His Mother. His account of their first meeting is deeply moving; a subsequent encounter with his natural father is described with respect for the older man's feelings. Most affecting of all is the loving portrait of Green's adoptive mother and father ("the only parents I ever had"), which reminds us that being a parent involves much more than genes.

From Library Journal

All-American. Co-valedictorian of his class. NFL first-round draft pick. Law school graduate. Best-selling author. TV commentator. Family man. Green had it all?except knowledge of his biological mother. Here he recounts his search for her.
Copyright 1997 Reed Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 225 pages
  • Publisher: Harpercollins; 1st edition (October 1997)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060392177
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060392178
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.4 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,077,047 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Tim is the NY TIMES BESTSELLING author of fourteen highly successful suspense novels, including soon-to-be-released FALSE CONVICTIONS and national bestseller ABOVE THE LAW, as well the non-fiction New York Times Bestseller, THE DARK SIDE OF THE GAME which was featured on CBS's 60 Minutes. His last five novels have all been national bestsellers hitting the charts between #22 and #30 on the NY Times Bestseller list. While his first five novels used professional football as their backdrop, his most recent works have drawn more on his experiences as a lawyer exploring the themes of ambition and revenge.

Tim is also the author of a memoir entitled A MAN AND HIS MOTHER: AN ADOPTED SON'S SEARCH which was featured in PEOPLE magazine, Entertainment Tonight, and ABC's Prime Time.
His writing career began at Syracuse University where he was a Rossman Scholar for Humanities, a Syracuse Scholar, an NCAA Top Six Scholar, Phi Beta Kappa, and co-valedictorian of his class. While studying English Literature, Tim became acquainted with the renowned minimalist Raymond Carver, and had the opportunity to study under the award-winning writer and professor Tobias Wolff.

During his studies, Tim also played football for the Syracuse Orangemen with a career that included a consensus All-American honors as well as his recent induction into the College Football Hall of Fame. In 1986, he was selected in the first round of the NFL draft by the Atlanta Falcons where he was a star defensive end for eight years. During his NFL career, Green began his thirteen year career as a commentator for National Public Radio, wrote columns for USA Today, and received his law degree with honors at Syracuse University. Because of his accomplishments both Sports Illustrated and the Los Angeles Times have called Tim Green the "Renaissance Man" of sports. After his playing career, Tim spent eleven years as an NFL analyst for FOX Sports and recently hosted FOX's nationally syndicated news magazine, A Current Affair. His other broadcast experiences have included ABC Good Morning America's legal commentator, Court TV's Pros and Cons, host of FOX Sports Net's Emmy nominated show NFL TOTAL ACCESS, and Comedy Central's Battlebots. Recently, Tim hosted the ABC Prime Time reality show, FIND MY FAMILY.
In 2007, Tim wrote FOOTBALL GENIUS, his first novel for young readers, and an instant NY Times Bestseller. The success and enjoyment of working with his own kids on the project resulted in FOOTBALL HERO, which was released in 2008. In both novels, Tim models the main characters after his own children, submerging them into a suspenseful world that blends adolescent life and sports with the visceral realm of the NFL. FOOTBALL HERO was selected as a Junior Library Guild choice and a GMA summer page turner for young adults. Most recently he released BASEBALL GREAT, another NY Times Bestseller, as well as FOOTBALL CHAMP. Tim's newest young reader novel, RIVALS, will be released in stores in March 2010.
Tim lives with his wife, Illyssa, and their five children in upstate New York. More information about Tim can be found at his Web site www.timgreenbooks.com.


 

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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars A clear arguement for "why search?", October 14, 1997
By A Customer
This review is from: A Man and His Mother: An Adopted Son's Search (Hardcover)
It may not be an autobiographical masterpiece, but Tim Green's book is solid and thoughtful, and provides a valuable educational service. It presents the searching adoptee as a sane, rational person who is driven to do whatever he has to do to find the truth that is being hidden from him by a closed adoption system. I'd recommend it to adoptees who are thinking about searching. As a bonus, it is one of the few such books written from the male prospective. The Kirkus Review sounds as if it were written from the point of view of someone who believes that adoptees should shut up and be grateful. It mentions the fact that Tim Green's parents were "hurt" by his search, as if this should have stopped him from looking, as if adoptees should not look because it might "hurt" their adoptive parents. And the fact that he had to "trade on his fame" to get access to records that are all but inaccessible to the average New York state resident is an indictment of the current sealed records laws, not of Green. In addition, I believe the reviewer missed the point in saying that Green had to "learn" the real meaning of parenting by having his own children - I got the idea that Green deeply appreciated the love and support of his parents all along, although he probably should have made more effort to tell them so. The need to find your genetics, heredity, and heritage is absolutely unrelated to your parents or your upbringing (good or bad); it comes from inside you. This is the point that the majority of people who aren't adopted just don't understand. I thought Tim Green communicated this well, but the Kirkus reviewer, perhaps blinded by his/her own biases, seems to have missed that message.
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars TRUTHFUL, HONEST & TEARFUL, August 20, 1999
This review is from: A Man and His Mother: An Adopted Son's Search (Hardcover)
I, too, am adopted, so I read this book with great interest. Green's story is similar to mine so I was very engrossed in finding out what happened in his search. I welled-up with tears in many sections of the book reliving my thoughts, reunions and fears. Very personal story, but very personably written. A must for all who are adopted! You will understand, and have compassion for, many of Green's emotions.
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13 of 14 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars thoughtful and well-written from the adoptee's point of view, February 5, 1998
By A Customer
This review is from: A Man and His Mother: An Adopted Son's Search (Hardcover)
I read Tim Green's Book twice, once before
beginning my search, and again after finding
my birth-mother last month. I understood all
too well his feelings of rejection and the
need to pile up credits to "validate" himself
The Kirkus reviewer clearly doesn't understand
the emotional struggle of an adoptee to
reconcile their almost primal need to search
and connect with their past and the fear of
hurting the people they love so much, their
adopted parents! It is unfair that they should
be placed in this position in the first place,
by laws that consider the rights and feelings
of all members of the triad except the adoptee.

My second reading of Tim Geen's book was
shortly after I found my birth-mother. Tim
captures only too well the utter panic I
experienced when I dialed the phone and made
contact with my birth-mother for the first
time in 51 years! The Kirkus reviewer may
call it "slick", how fortunate he is not to
have had to feel the terror that you are
about to be rejected again by the person you
so desperately need to finally accept you!!
I felt Tim's anguish when he said "Is anybody
there?" when his birth-mother didn't respond
immediately, and I felt his joy . It would be
a rare reviewer indeed who could do justice
to this book without experiencing what Tim
Green and I have both experienced. To dismiss
this book so glibly is a reflection of the
reviewer's ignorance. This is a book written
by a man who understands both the pain and
the joy, and should be read by all who seek
to understand the plight of an adoptee.

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