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Manners [Hardcover]

Kate Spade
3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)

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Book Description

April 14, 2004
Making a good first impression, tipping for a haircut, dispensing with a large handful of cherry pits, and determining the so-called pedestrian passing lane on a crowded sidewalk are just some of the many etiquette conundrums we all face. As liberated as we've become in our dress and in our lifestyles, good manners are still essential.

Whether you're in Boston or in Phoenix, and whether you're a record producer or a dog groomer, the same quandaries can occur: Who goes through a revolving door first, a man or a woman? When is it polite to correct someone's mispronunciation of your name? And what if you can't see over the head of the person who has just sat in front of you at the movies?

For Kate Spade, growing up in a large family required good manners, and to this day they are a natural part of her daily routine. In Manners, she shares her ideas about etiquette in lighthearted but down-to-earth terms. Kindness, common sense, and levity are the foundation for good manners at home, when dining, in the office, or out in public (at a sporting event or on an airplane). The art of communication is still important today, especially when it comes to written correspondence and being considerate when using cell phones, and Kate has something to say on both subjects. A "Manners Miscellany" concludes the book, casting a wide net over topics such as air kissing and "we must do lunch" to competitive parking, rain checks, and re-gifting.

Manners is an unpretentious guide to navigating the social shoals of modern life. Kate's sensible commentary coupled with the nearly 200 captivating watercolor illustrations make Manners a welcome addition to any home library. As portrait photographer Slim Aarons writes, "Good manners are never passé."


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Back in 1993, the editor-turned-designer Kate Spade made a splash in the fashion world by turning out a small collection of boxy, utilitarian handbags, each elegantly accented with her name stitched in discreet, lowercase letters. As a result, the simplicity and unabashed refinement of the Spade moniker on those Lilliputian labels has come to define the very foundation on which the designer has since built a fashion empire, one that now, in addition to handbags, includes shoes, clothing, and smart home things, all of which embody the Spade formula of timeless style--a seamless merging of cheerful colors, clean shapes, and well-chosen embellishments. Not bad for a Kansas City-born girl who used to comb vintage stores for fun. Having perfected and expertly marketed her own brand of personal style (one that has famously been counterfeited throughout the world), the designer has emerged with an equally elegant trio of books whose topics Spade has become a virtual authority: Style, Occasions, and Manners.

Spade overhauls and replenishes our wardrobes in and celebrations in Occasions. With Manners, the designer steers us through the more sensitive arena of etiquette, showing us how to pull it all together with grace and style. Common conundrums like tipping, thank-you notes, and maneuvering embarrassing moments like "toothsome tidbits" (spinach between your teeth) are all succinctly addressed. But Spade picks up where Emily Post left off by dealing with more modern mysteries like "Cell Hell" and sample sales with wit and wisdom. Best of all the approach is decidedly un-preachy, which makes this new twist on the manners mix a fun read. --Christene Barberich

From Booklist

Moving from creating handbags to dispensing advice, Kate Spade, of the eponymous fashion house, plunges into publishing with a smart little book akin to Coco Chanel's oh-so-classic little black dress. Surprisingly, her volume yields a goodly amount of verve and veracity, wit and wisdom. It begins with a few questions and answers (called "Have you ever wondered?"), which function as teasers to what lies within. The book is divided into three sections; two are filled with direct advice and the third is a collection of miscellany. The advice is classic and always in the best of taste. Barbara Jacobs
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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 96 pages
  • Publisher: Simon & Schuster; First Edition edition (April 14, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0743250664
  • ISBN-13: 978-0743250665
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.5 x 8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.9 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (22 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #58,668 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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37 of 41 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Kate Spade's Pet Peeves January 30, 2005
Format:Hardcover
This book reads more like a list of Kate's pet peeves. There is really nothing new to be learned from this book other than what most people already know, such as chewing gum in public, turning cell phones off in the movie theater, sharing arm rests, splashing people with water while in the pool, etc.

I found two things disturbing about the book. A lot of the advice she gives, which is very little, in handling awkward sitauations is to grin and bear it and be sure to hit the booze while you are at it. I do not see how getting drunk is a remedy. I think that sometimes it is more appropriate to speak up for yourself in a way that will not be offending to others around you. It's just that when these occasions do arise, sometimes it helps to get a little guidance on how to speak up tactfully, and this book will not provide any such guidance.

I also was floored when she claims that apparently it is a faux pas to wear a band-aid on one's foot that is visible while wearing sandals. ????? eh???? This I do not understand at all. What is one to do if they've injured their foot and it's uncomfortable to wear regular shoes? This advice is a bit too much and way off the mark.

I did learn 2 useful bits of knowledge (like splitting a check and visiting someone's home), but other than that, there isn't anything practical or useful to be learned here.
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14 of 15 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Emily Post Redux April 16, 2005
Format:Hardcover
This is a cute book, but lacking in substance. Like her other books in this series, it's layout is like a magazine- with watercolor illustrations, quotes and short paragraphs interspersed through out the pages. The advice Kate gives is not bad- it's just that you can get this information, and in greater detail from Emily Post's book. Kate does give some modern advice for cell phones and re-gifting, but nothing you have not heard already. It was an entertaining one-time read that you can finish in about 1 1/2 to 2 hours. Check it out at your library instead of buying a copy though.
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21 of 25 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars Don't Waste Your Money May 3, 2004
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Format:Hardcover
I agree with the other reviewer. I bought all of the books in this series and am shocked at how much of the advice has been taken from previous authors on these topics. She is copying classics like Emily Post and simply re-wording the text. Except for the cute drawings, this series is a waste of money. If you want to know how to do things "correctly", read Letitia Baldridge's "The New Manners For the '90's". It covers everything and is written by a woman with the education and experience to know of which she speaks! Not someone who using her fashion connections to flood the magazines and talk shows with her "discovery" of this information.
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2.0 out of 5 stars For Whites Only.
Nice little book if you were raised by the Croods but I really don't understand the absolute and complete lack of racial diversity in the otherwise lovely illustrations. Read more
Published 15 days ago by Kitty
5.0 out of 5 stars Small reference book on Manners
Kate Spade is nifty for the younger generation. So I got this book to sit around the apartment hoping it would be used by them.
Published 2 months ago by sailor lady
5.0 out of 5 stars review
i love this book, its great for someone who didnt grow up in a household were proper manners were required
Published 4 months ago by ms johnson
5.0 out of 5 stars Delightful and Refreshing-
A darling book. One so many young women and men need today. Manner's never go out of style. And... as my mother used to say "They can take away just about ANYTHING... Read more
Published 8 months ago by Penelope :)
5.0 out of 5 stars Manners
I bought this book on-line thinking it would be perfect for my early teen-age grandsons...What a mistake. My young-men did'nt like it. Read more
Published on October 1, 2009 by Bev Books
5.0 out of 5 stars light reading. a quick reference for manners
I picked this book up while staying as an overnight guest at my sister-in-law's. What a great find! The reading was light and comical at times. Read more
Published on July 28, 2009 by Aggieash
4.0 out of 5 stars Easy Etiquette Found in "Manners"
Kate Spade, the designer of all things accessories, offers up her opinion on manners. Her book, published in 2004 and aptly titled "Manners", is a fun glossing over of various... Read more
Published on March 3, 2009 by Lisa Plancich
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Brush Up
I enjoy many manners books and found Spade's book was an appropriate reminder of all the things one should keep in mind. Read more
Published on March 30, 2008 by L. Clark
5.0 out of 5 stars Manner's
Living in times of constant change it was so refreshing to read a book on manner's. As a world we have become very pushy and fast paced which has lead to good manner's being left... Read more
Published on January 20, 2008 by J. R. Willaimson
2.0 out of 5 stars Stuff you already know
I thought this book was going to have lots of advice for manners but a lot of the stuff was actually pretty obvious to most normal people. Read more
Published on July 2, 2007 by Miss Juliet
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