Married for Better, Not Worse: The Fourteen Secrets to a Happy Marriage [Hardcover]

Gary Lundberg (Author), Joy Lundberg (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: July 5, 2001

Nearly every couple has some degree of difficulty in their marriage and most believe they are stuck with it. In too many marriages there is a spouse who has at some time thought "Wouldn't it be wonderful if he/she only. . ". In Married for Better, Not Worse, Gary and Joy Lundberg's husband-and-wife perspective addresses the different needs of men and women in sensitive, realistic, easy-to-understand advice that they are uniquely able to offer. In addition to having been married-and having raised five children-for more than forty-five years, the Lundbergs are the authors of the inspiring bestseller I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better, praised as "a magnificent book" by the authors of Chicken Soup for the Soul. Married for Better, Not Worse brims with fresh ideas, astute tips, and examples drawn from real-life couples' stories-including the Lundbergs' own. Their fourteen secrets cover everything from finances and parenting to communication and sex, from being each other's best friend to preserving a sense of humor and the surprising power of courtesy. Married for Better, Not Worse is the perfect prescription for healing hurts, enhancing communication, and achieving mutual emotional satisfaction.

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About the Author

Gary B. Lundberg is a licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 300 pages
• Publisher: Viking Adult (July 5, 2001)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0670899836
• ISBN-13: 978-0670899838
• Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.9 x 1.2 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,996,377 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Couples Resource, August 4, 2001

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S. Lee Bracken (Enterprise, Utah United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Married for Better, Not Worse: The Fourteen Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Hardcover)

The Lundberg's book "I Don't Have to Make Everything All Better" has been a great resource to me as a church leader and counselor. When their new book "Married for Better, Not Worse" was released I bought it without hesitation. It is well researched and they have carefully integrated their own ideas with concepts and articles from many others. The real test of any book is if it can help stimulate a positive lasting and permanent change in behavior and understanding. In order for that to happen it must be easy to read, offer hope that conflict relief is achievable, and contain common sense solutions to everyday problems. Although there are many books available on this popular subject, it has become my book of choice when counseling couples in trouble. I have already witnessed some very positive results with its use.

14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Secrets No Longer, June 19, 2001

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This review is from: Married for Better, Not Worse: The Fourteen Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Hardcover)

I was having problems in my marriage and a friend recommend The RoMANtic's Guide and this book. I read them both and it was as though a light bulb was turned on in my head. I finally began to understand why my marriage wasnt better, even though my wife and I try.

Thanks.

7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great resource for Couples, August 3, 2001

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S. Lee Bracken (Enterprise, Utah United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Married for Better, Not Worse: The Fourteen Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Hardcover)

The Lundbergs first book, "I Don't Have To Make Everything All Better" has been a great resource to me as church counselor. When ths new book came out, I purchased it without hesitation. It is written in the same easy to read and common sense approach. The chapter on improving communication reminds the reader the importance of validation and teaches this important skill. The chapter on sexual intimacy is very direct and to the point. Other chapters address specific tasks and exercises to help restore romance and nurture each other. It is well researched and carefully integrates important material and ideas from many other articles.

There are countless books out there on this subject. The real test is if it has the capacity and content to help troubled couples make permanent and lasting changes in their relationship. I have already used this book several times in counseling settings with members of my congregation, all with very positive feedback and results. It has become my book of choice when couples ask for reading material to help solve conflict or enhance their marriage.