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The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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I found this book to be exceedingly useful but it very much depends how you use it. If you want a manual with diagrams and step by step guides, then I'm sure there are many out there but that is not what this book is. However, if you are looking for an in-depth understanding of what 'Great Sex' really is and how to find it, this is your book. The essential thing it teaches men is that great sex is not all about them. When we learn to focus on our wives and what they need from their love lives, it is then that we truly begin to discover great sex. It takes two to tango, and this book will show you why!

As a the wife of a man who read this book it revolutionized our sex life after 18 years of marriage. It is the best sex book we ever read (we've read a few beginning as newlyweds). This book helped my husband understand me and helped me to know I was not weird or frigid, just a normal woman - quite different from a man - in what arouses my sexual responsiveness. It dispelled the common myth that the clitoris is the key to female arousal (something I had asked him to quit because I felt he was just trying to flip a switch) and moved him to better things which lead to me feeling truly treasured and vaginal orgasm (a much superior experience). No, this book may not help you if what you need is marriage counseling but if you have a reasonably good marriage but are just not connecting sexually the way you'd like to this may indeed be the answer for you.

This book does very well in writing out the basics for men in married relationships. For those seeking even more study in this important area, the dvd "New Free Sex" offers a very advanced guide to spiritual sex without offensive nudity or foul language, and the dvd/video "New Sex Now" is great for those less shy. All these three are very worthwhile and important tools for happy and healthy marriages.

Two experienced sex therapists elaborate on how to make a relationship fun and meaningful without feeling guilty. I hoped that "The Married Guy's Guide to Great Sex" would tell me what I really want to know, but I'm not sure if I understood everything they were talking about. I can't recommend this book to men who want to discover what brings pleasure and intimacy to a relationship if they need a marriage councellor.

Before I buy a book in a book store, I always look at the front and back covers, the front & back flaps, the Index, and an example or more written within without reading the whole book.
I noticed on another book offered on this web site, SHE COMES FIRST, all of these portions of the book is offered, which gives me a better idea of whether or not I want to purchase it.
This book, THE MARRIED GUY"S GUIDE TO GREAT SEX, has none of those features.
I'm supposing the authors (or publishers?) have a certain amount of control over what is presented for the buying public. I'd suggest those in control provide these selling points in their review.
I'm not putting any money on this book when I'm not sure of its contents!