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The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011 [Kindle Edition]

Athol Kay
4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (67 customer reviews)

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Book Description

The author of the innovative sex and marriage blog “Married Man Sex Life” brings together his edgy and brilliant advice in a single volume primer delivering the mother lode of substance.

The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011 cherry picks the best ideas of books like "The Mystery Method," "No More Mr. Nice Guy," and the volatile online world of the Pickup Artist a.k.a. “Game” community and merges them with a solid grounding in evolutionary psychology, sociology, biology and behavior modification. The result is a simple, effective plan for men to create sexually exciting marriages for themselves and their wives.

The opening covers the underlying ancient “hard-wired” biological and modern social reasons women find men attractive. Athol pulls no punches here and the sexual motivations of women are laid bare. Though rather than framing women as sexually devious and seeking to advantage themselves over men, he explains how their sexual behavior is entirely rational in nature and once understood as such, it becomes very useful information.

The second part of the book takes the framework developed in the first part and offers a wealth of tools to put it to practical use. The most important tool is The Male Action Plan, which charges the husband with the task of becoming a better, sexier man and thereby leveraging his increased attractiveness for a better sex life with his wife. As Athol says, "whoever is the most attractive in the relationship is in charge."

The third part of the book is a treasure trove of playful sexy and romantic moves women will find charming and engaging. It's clear that Athol could have a harem of young ladies, but here he displays an endless variety of playful instigation to continually charm just one.

The final section is a catchall of serious topics on what not to do, how to choose a wife, the current state of marriage law and a crushingly simple approach to dealing with being cheated on.

(Want a better man? Leave it where he can find it.)


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About the Author

Athol Kay is an innovative thinker, humorist and family man with a one track mind. He is a "Mixed Marital Artist" combining a variety of relationship approaches from evolutionary psychology, Pickup Artist "Game", sociology, biology, life experience, romance novels, crappy women's magazines, far too many books, blogging, behavior modification and cheap porn. He has distilled all this research into a few outstandingly effective tactics for gaining happiness and sex in marriage.

Athol was born in New Zealand and met Jennifer nine days before he was due to fly home after working on a summer camp in Maryland in 1991. Long distance for three years, they finally married in 1994. Married for 16 years, they have two daughters and live in Connecticut. They have a carefully balanced relationship where Athol dreams up all kinds of weird stuff, and Jennifer doesn't leave him.

The author is also aware that has painted himself into a corner by writing a book on monogamy. At around 112,500 words, it is the longest chastity belt in existence. It only chafes a little.

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  • File Size: 525 KB
  • Print Length: 345 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 1460981731
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B004W0IRQ8
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Lending: Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #10,127 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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20 of 22 people found the following review helpful
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Coming from a woman's perspective, this book hit RIGHT ON with the problems I was having being attracted to my husband. It actually tells men how to make their wives want them. It's written by a man, for men, and I appreciated that because the author gave examples with his own relationship with his wife on his daily interactions that work to help her lust after him. It made it much more concrete and real-life to us as the readers.

Not only does the book talk about why I was feeling less attracted to my very physically fit, tall, extremely athletic, highly intelligent, well-maintained, loving husband, but it gave specific steps for him to take in order to make me go crazy for him again. I had no idea it was as easy as him becoming more of an alpha-male at home with me. I knew I wanted him to be more assertive in the bedroom and generally in our married life together by making more or most of the decisions such as where we're going to eat or what we're going to do this weekend, but no matter how many times and ways I tried to tell him this, it didn't seem to compute because he's so polite with me and that's how he showed me love. This book not only explains to a man why and how to be assertive with women, but also has anecdotes of the author's personal relationship with his wife on little playful interactions and flirtation that a lot of men like my husband didn't do and didn't think to do. The author was able to put into words and communicate to my husband in a fun, comical way, what I could not, in explaining what I really wanted and needed in a man.

Be forewarned, the author sort of blames women for their unhappiness in the marriage and points the finger at women for helping to "create" men they won't desire. It wasn't until I read further, that I had to agree with him. I am one of those women who thought that by "training" my husband to do more chores around the house and by getting him to be more domesticated, nurturing and sensitive in our relationship, I'd be happier. Even though it's clear the book is meant for men to read, I couldn't help but read most of it myself. I decided to stop reading about 80 pages from the end because I didn't want to know, in advance, what alpha "sex moves" my husband may try on me. I love surprises! I must also say that just the act of reading the book turned me on to my husband more before he even attempted the new improved alpha-male with me.

This book concentrates on telling you the truth and giving you common sense, logical solutions to the problems. It may not be what appeals to some women's sensitivities and feminist-minded viewpoints. In other words, it's not politically correct, but I liked that! I've read those types of books and nothing helped my situation. I truly believe my husband needed to be "de-programmed" from the feminist mindset he was raised in and made to understand that his instincts about how to take the lead and give a few orders as the head of the family with our kids as well as with me, while also showing me his love (which he already knew very well how to do, are natural and good for our relationship. Don't get the wrong impression. The author isn't condoning any kind of abuse or jerk mentality, he's just stating the facts - that most women want and need to be dominated in their sexual relationships in order to be truly content and turned on sexually.

I plan on recommending this book to any and all of my friends complaining about their relationships / marriages. It really was a life-saver!
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31 of 37 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Fantastic Book May 15, 2011
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This is one of the most liberating books I have ever read. Pop culture would have males believe that speaking up for themselves and being a leader is somehow demeaning to women.

The feminist movement has for too long purported that the sensitive male is what women really want. They do. Everyone needs emotional closeness. But women also want men to be men. Women want men to lead. Testosterone is not the evil that the pop psychologists would have you believe. Being a man is not about demeaning or dominating or abusing your mate. It is about being a leader.

My wife is an immensely talented highly valuable career woman. Yet she wants me to be the leader at home.

The book gives married men good advice on being a better leader at home.
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16 of 19 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An amazing, truthful book May 19, 2011
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If you have the feeling that somewhere along the way the rules of marriage have been changed on you, read this book. Athol Kay helped me understand that I had been playing by the wrong rules all along - the reality is that I have gone through most of my life with a set of assumptions about men and women that is simply wrong.

His book described my situation so clearly and gave me such sensible advice that I have no choice but to give it five stars. I would rather give it ten. Now I have to put it into practice. That will not be easy, but having a clear understanding of my situation and what I can do to fix it is an immeasurable gift. Someday I'll pass this book on to my own son and I can't give any higher praise than that.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars very usefull
insightful and useful, also an easy and enjoyable read. This has had a positive impact on its intended subject. Read more
Published 3 days ago by Mark
5.0 out of 5 stars Don't be a fool. Read this book.
I wish a book like this had been around 38 years ago when my marriage began. I plan on giving a copy to both my sons. Read more
Published 22 days ago by Reluctant Reader
4.0 out of 5 stars Really wanted to give it a 5
There are some things that are just annoying about this book. The author's seeming obsession with semen is a little disconcerting and the crass attempts at projecting "alpha" are... Read more
Published 24 days ago by Buckfever
5.0 out of 5 stars Hmmm yes its probably all true
Buy this book if you want to get a better understanding of what gives you more control in getting sex. It worked for me but its still a battle to get on with the wife sometimes. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Tim Young
5.0 out of 5 stars Should have read this years ago
I have been married for many years, and like so many of my friends, I could see what I was doing in my marriage, and how ineffective it was as the relationship kept sliding. Read more
Published 1 month ago by techuser
5.0 out of 5 stars Perfect book for the formal alpha that turned beta in your...
Best book for a guy looking to regain confidence in himself and relationship. It give the "why" as well as steps to get through a tough situation.
Published 1 month ago by mr incredible
4.0 out of 5 stars Could be really helpful
If only I had purchased this book a couple of years ago... I would have (probably) saved my marriage from a lot of pain...
Published 2 months ago by Alessandro Cazzaniga
4.0 out of 5 stars Simple, practical and fun advise.
I loved this book. It has a simple down-to-earth approach to relationships. I'm sure you will at least gain a richer perspective on your spouse as well as yourself and this book... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Andres Garcia Saravia
4.0 out of 5 stars Good Tips
This book along with another book no More Mr. Nice Guy which were recomended to me. I enjoyed this book more for the tips that it provided me about improving myself and my... Read more
Published 2 months ago by J. FEIBEL
5.0 out of 5 stars The way to be a Man in today's society
Athol's book covers the reality of today's culture. As such as men are lead to believe that being nice, considerate and wonderfully giving people, that doesn't help a marriage. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Ian Koenig
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