Mars and Venus Together Forever: A Practical Guide to Creating Lasting Intimacy [Mass Market Paperback]

John Gray (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: December 5, 1997

If John Gray's runaway New York Times bestseller, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus helped you understand and communicate effectively with your spouse, his brilliant new book will help your relationship become even more exciting and intimate. With Mars and Venus Together Forever you can create a lasting intimacy that will only grow richer with time. You will learn:What Makes Women Happy What Men Really Want How to Create a Lifetime of Love Dance Steps for Lasting Intimacy How to Talk So Your Partner Will Listen How to Listen Without Getting Upset The Seven Secrets of Long-Lasting Passion

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About the Author

John Gray, Ph.D., is an internationally recognized expert in the fields of communication and relationships. The author of fifteen books, he has been conducting personal-growth seminars for more than thirty years and writes "Mars Venus Advice," a weekly syndicated column that has appeared in more than one hundred media outlets, including Newsday, the Los Angeles Times, and the Detroit Free Press. He also has a weekly Internet broadcast with over two million listeners at Marsvenus.com. Gray has been a contributing editor at Redbook and a contributor to ivillage.com, Brides, and Divorce magazines. He lives with his wife and three children in Northern California.

--This text refers to the Paperback edition.

Product Details

• Mass Market Paperback: 368 pages
• Publisher: HarperTorch; Revised edition (December 5, 1997)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0061044571
• ISBN-13: 978-0061044571
• Product Dimensions: 6.6 x 4.1 x 1.1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #974,029 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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68 of 68 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars If you are both in love, but can't make it work, read this!, February 16, 1998

By A Customer

This review is from: Mars and Venus Together Forever: A Practical Guide to Creating Lasting Intimacy (Mass Market Paperback)

I have frowned on this author's premise...that men and women are different biologically my whole life. Imagine my surprise to actually read this book and see myself and my recent ex on every page. I read parts of this book with him and we laughed until we cried about how totally RIGHT this book is. We have decided to give us another try utilizing some of the techniques in the book. So far...so good. A must read if you both want to make it work, but seem to be at the end of your rope. All my friends wanted a copy of this book once I talked to them about it. There are some really terrific insights into male/female behavior. And so far, I have found the advice about what we can each do to be a better partner to be right on the money. ---KMS

45 of 47 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great book for Men and Women, July 27, 2000

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Kevin Miles - See all my reviews

This review is from: Mars and Venus Together Forever: A Practical Guide to Creating Lasting Intimacy (Mass Market Paperback)

My wife and I have had our problems off and on for the past 14 years. It seemed we had problems we would never be able to solve. We both tried very hard but we didn't make much headway. I remember how much I was doing for my wife, thinking that is what would make her happy. I bought this book and read it first. I tried the suggestions and they worked. It sounds terrible but I have been able to decrease the amount of time I spend trying to make her happy. This because I can focus on her three or four specific needs as a woman.

The other side of the story, I now know what my needs are. She can focus on the three or four key needs I have so she can use her energies most effectively. For example when I have a problem, I need time to work it out in my mind. I need my time alone to do that. In the past, my wife would want to spend more time with me to talk about it. I didn't know why that irritated me so but it did. Now I understand why after reading John Gray's book. Often we do for our partner what we would want done for us. What is most interesting is, what we want done for us exacerbates the problems when they are done for our partner as in the above example.

Despite what some may say, men and women are different. I have four children, two of each gender. We have tried not to force our boys or girls to play with one toy or an other but the boys both gravitated to cars and the girls to Dolls. We even bought dolls for our oldest boy because he wanted what his older sister had. He later abandoned the doll and went for the trunks and cars. We are different, and how beautiful the difference.

Learn what those differences are so you can develop the love you have rather than work on the problems you are having.

20 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Very insightful, June 3, 2005

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L. Margaret - See all my reviews

This review is from: Mars and Venus Together Forever: Relationship Skills for Lasting Love (Paperback)

In response to other reviewers, yes, this book does rely heavily on stereotypes of male and female behavior. If you find you don't fit the stereotypes (and of course not everyone does!), then you'll need to look for another book. But for many (most?) of us, the insights and advice in this book will be very helpful. As I read, I was constantly amazed by how much I could see myself and my husband in John Gray's descriptions. Last night I had my first opportunity to try out his techniques on how to prepare a man to listen...and it worked beautifully! A situation that would certainly have escalated into a hurtful argument was diffused into a calm, brief conversation that left both of us feeling warm and loving toward each other.