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Mary's World : Love, War, and Family Ties in Nineteenth-century Charleston [Paperback]

Richard N. Cote (Author)
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Born to affluence and opportunity in the South's Golden Age, Mary Motte Alston Pringle (1803-1884) represented the epitome of Southern white womanhood. Her husband, William, was a wealthy rice planter who owned four plantations and 337 slaves. Her thirteen children included two Harvard scholars, seven world travelers, three socialite daughters, a U.S. Navy war hero, six Confederate soldiers, one possible Union collaborator, a Confederate firebrand trapped in the North, an expatriate bon vivant in France, and two adventuresome California pioneers.

MaryÂ’s World illuminates in lavish detail the world and psyche of this wealthy, well-educated, highly-principled nineteenth-century Southern planter's wife. This biography was drawn directly from over 2,500 pages of MaryÂ’s unpublished letters, journals and diaries, none of which, she could have imagined, would ever be read by strangers. Therein lies their power.

In her own words, Mary tells us about the joys, sorrows, frustrations, and terrors she and her family faced before, during, and after the Civil War. We also learn about the vastly different lifestyles, food, clothing, and experiences of their 337 slaves. Mary’s World also pays special attention to Lucretia “Cretia” Stewart, Mary’s favorite servant, Cretia’s husband, Scipio, and their free descendants, some of whom worked for Mary’s grandchildren well into the twentieth century.

Between 1861 and the Union occupation of Charleston in 1865, Mary and her husband, William, stood helpless as two sons were killed, another was driven insane, their slaves were freed, their entire social class was destroyed. Mary felt that God had forsaken her and the the Confederacy. Unable to adapt to the realities of post-war life, she and William died forlorn relics of The Lost Cause. How they, their children, and slaves lived before the Civil War, clung desperately to life in the eye of the maelstrom, and coped – or failed to cope -- with its bewildering aftermath is the story of this book. The letters and images they left behind offer priceless insights into the roots of Southern social history.


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"A fascinating, mesmerizing, and satisfyingly lengthy look into a fractured world." -- The (Myrtle Beach, S.C.) Sun News, March 25, 2001

"An amazing chronicle of how Lowcountry South Carolinians -- white and black -- really lived before, during, and after the Civil War." -- Ethel Trenholm Seabrook Nepveux, author

"How the Pringle family adapted or failed to adapt to the modern era is a significant contribution to historians." -- Alexander P. Moore, Ph.D., former Executive Director, South Carolina Historical Society

"Mary's World is wonderful; an accurate description of life as it was then. It has an unconscious nobility to it.” -- Eleanor Pringle Hart, a native Charlestonian born in 1910.

"Mary's world is chronicled in rich detail thanks to an astonishing assemblage of original materials." -- Mary M. Giles, Archivist, Diocese of Charleston

"Superb descriptions of rice culture, slave life, schooling in Charleston, and of one of America’s most amazing U.S. Navy heroes.” -- David F. Emerson, Vice Admiral, U.S. Navy (Ret.)

"The author has done a masterful job of presenting a glimpse of life behind the scenes in 19th-century South Carolina." -- Agnes Leland Baldwin, author of First Settlers of South Carolina, 1670-1680

"The journal and letters keep the audience fascinated.... A fabulous non-fiction work." -- Midwest Book Review / Internet Bookwatch, February 2001

Côté has taken Mary Pringle’s letters and diaries and has put them together in a marvelous new way. --Dick Estell, National Public Radio's

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Mary Pringle's letters, journals, and account books show her as a woman resolutely determined to meet her responsibilities in a world where the veneer of a life of ease often masked deep fissures. As Victorian and Southern culture insisted, Mary was expected to fill many roles: * A charming, dutiful, and fertile companion to her husband;
* A nurturing and instructive mother to her thirteen children;
* A practical manager of the Miles Brewton House, the opulent Palladian mansion in which she lived;
* A responsible mistress of her thirty-two house slaves;
* A benevolent patron of the poor and pillar of her church; and
* An indestructible vessel which preserved and passed on her ancestors' knowledge, traditions, values, beliefs, and property.

Yet just below the surface of her culturally ordained skin lay a woman powerless to control major areas of her own life:
* Born into a family wealthy for generations, and despite her own inherited wealth, she watched helplessly as her husband ran their family into financial ruin.
* The wife of a major Southern slaveowner, she became convinced that slaveholding was morally indefensible and was in conflict with Biblical teachings.
* A woman of great intelligence and learning, she was forced to live out her dreams vicariously through her sons, while she watched her daughters become imprisoned by the same rules which prevented her from achieving her own potential.

Mary Pringle was a vibrant woman torn between her own needs and aspirations and the limitations imposed upon her by Southern Victorian society. Mary's World is an intimate, visceral window into the heart and mind of a well-intentioned woman whose entire world and value system was ground to dust by the grist mill of historic change.


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  • Paperback: 480 pages
  • Publisher: Corinthian Books; Second edition (2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1929175043
  • ISBN-13: 978-1929175048
  • Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 6 x 1.5 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.6 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (32 customer reviews)
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Richard N. ("Dick") Cote, is the author of three acclaimed biographies, two histories, and a contemporary novel. They include Mary's World: Love, War, and Family Ties in Nineteenth-century Charleston; Theodosia Burr Alston: Portrait of a Prodigy; and Strength and Honor: The Life of Dolley Madison. His first novel, The Redneck Riviera, appeared in 2002. His latest book, City of Heroes: The Great Charleston Earthquake of 1886, was published in 2006. His next book, In Search of Gentle Death (2010), explores the right to die with dignity at the time and place of one's own choosing.

Dick majored in political science and journalism at Butler University in Indianapolis. A Vietnam War veteran, he spent six years in the U.S. Air Force, and in the fall of 1979 he joined the staff of the South Carolina Historical Society, where he worked for several years before turning to writing full-time. Since the mid-1980s he has conducted extensive research into Southern biography, social history, microcultures, architecture, and the international death-with-dignity movement. His not-so-secret passion is writing contemporary fiction, and has two more novels in progress.

Dick has been chosen as a Featured Author and a Master Class Instructor by numerous American book festivals. In 2004 he was awarded the Bobby Gilmer Moss Award in History by the Daughters of the American Revolution for his outstanding contributions to historical writing. He has appeared on C-Span 2/Book TV and was a featured expert in programs by Dateline NBC and The Weather Channel.

Dick delights in sharing his love of history, biography, and the creative process. He lives in Mt. Pleasant, South Carolina, where he writes, lectures, and serves as Editor-in-Chief of Corinthian Books.

 

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29 of 31 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars dispassionate, deep and well researched history, December 20, 2000
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This review is from: Mary's World : Love, War, and Family Ties in Nineteenth-century Charleston (Paperback)
_Mary's World_ traces the life story of Mary Motte Alston Pringle, a prominent South Carolinian woman, from her youth in the early 1800s to her passing at an advanced age. Much of the story is drawn from her own writings, which are voluminous and articulate, though Côté steers clear of the trap of overquoting and invests the effort to interpret and present--just as an historian should.

Most authors would be delighted to succeed in one significant way with a book--Côté succeeds in many with _Mary's_. It is dispassionate history, navigating the shoals of one of the most partisan events in US history (the Civil War) without demonizing or deifying either side. It is 'herstory', if you will, giving us a view of times past from the standpoint of a courageous woman who went from genteel wealth to genteel poverty. It is also African American history: the blacks who played integral roles in Mary's world have names, faces and attitudes, which naturally changed with society. It asks and answers deeper questions about the protagonists' motivations, ideas, beliefs and viewpoints. It makes abundantly clear that Reconstruction was an equal opportunity failure, destroying rather than redistributing wealth. Côté's style is uncluttered, perceptive and engaging. It plays no favourites and panders to no one. The notes often explain contemporary slang and add value to the main text; the index is very helpful; the bibliography is impressive.

Strongly recommended as 19th-century US history, Southern history, Civil War history, women's history and/or black history. It would be of particular value for the high school or college student of US history writing an essay or looking for inspiration for one, and I look forward to more work of this calibre from the author.

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17 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Delightful starter on civil war history for foreigners, August 8, 2002
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Apart from the reading plaesure "Mary's World" provides, I immensly enjoyed this book for the following reasons: foreign history, in this case the American Civil War history, can be daunting for outsiders. Mary's World eases the foreigner not only into the life of the Pringle family but also into history of southern plantation life years prior to the war. This circumstance greatly facilitates the amateur's understanding of the time leading up to the war and the war itself. What I particularly appreciated was the southern view of that history. Even in Switzerland we are familiar with the northern issues of industrialism vs. agriculture (prominent geographically in Europe at that time also), the slavery issue etc. Rarely do we hear about the life and thoughts of Southerners other than the great military men. The history of Mary Pringle written by Richard Cote transports you into a Charleston household in two seconds flat. It is all so lively and easy to imagine that it is hard to put down the book. I felt I knew Mary Pringle and her children! And I felt I had never learned more about the South.
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16 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Best and Most Personal Account of Life in the Old South, July 24, 2002
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I just finished reading Mary's World last night at 2:00 A.M. I couldn't put it down. I had long searched for a book that told about the actual lives of an Antebellum family. I had bought it while in Charleston, and it was my best book buy of the year!

Many other books I have read about the same topic have been good, yet they are explained as mere facts. Mary's World was indeed portrayed as if it were fiction, yet it was a true and researched account of Mary's World, an amazing glimpse into a bygone era. It was well written and very enjoyable. If I could get my hands on more books of this type, I would certainly do so. There are many books about the Old South, but none that I know of that allow such a close and personal look and feel into the real lives of those persons having lived in the years leading to, during, and after the Civil War.

There is an amazing national interest in Antebellum life told through the "voices" of those having lived during these actual times - and Cote has done a great job of sharing the true stories and lives of the Alston, Pringle, Frost, Middleton, and many other families/persons in this wonderful book.

I have studied old southern families for years, and I know a great deal about several families from Charleston, Savannah, and New Orleans. The real life stories about which Cote writes in Mary's World are so fascinating that anyone reading the book will fall in love with Mary Pringle and Old Charleston.

Mr. Cote, thanks again for a most wonderful book, and please keep similar books coming.

By the way, for those of you whom read and loved Mary's World, Cote's next book about Mary Pringle's sister-in-law, Theodosia Burr Alston will be out soon.

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