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An exploration of the darker side of maternal behavior drawn from scientific research, psychology, and the real-life experiences of adult daughters, Mean Mothers sheds light on one of the last cultural taboos: what happens when a woman doesn't or can't love her daughter.
Mean Mothers reveals the multigenerational thread that often runs through these stories—many unloving mothers are the daughters of unloving or hypercritical women—and explores what happens to a daughter's sense of self and to her relationships when her mother is emotionally absent or even cruel. But Mean Mothers is also a narrative of hope, recounting how daughters can get past the legacy of hurt to become whole within and to become loving mothers to the next generation of daughters. The personal stories of unloved daughters and sons and those of the author herself, are both unflinching and moving, and bring this most difficult of subjects to life.
Mean Mothers isn't just a book for daughters who've had difficult or impossible relationships with their mothers. By exposing the myths of motherhood that prevent us from talking about the women for whom mothering a daughter is fraught with ambivalence, tension, or even jealousy, Mean Mothers also casts a different light on the extraordinary influence mothers have over their female children as well as the psychological complexity and emotional depth of the mother-daughter relationship.
I have already recommended . ...I sent to my mean mother...I hope she read it !Published 2 days ago by kathleen curley
Can't wait for the "Mean Brother: Favorite Child of the Mean Mother" book aka SOB. I've had to cope with these two for years and years. Read morePublished 1 month ago by sls
I have learn ed more from this book than I ever did from years of group thearopy. This book is a real mind blower. Read morePublished 1 month ago by Chickadee655
Helpful in understanding the behaviors of this type of mother, and carrying on with confidence and purpose. Wish I'd had this book years ago, will be recommending it!Published 4 months ago by Judy A. Klynstra
Peg Streep openly states she is not a therapist, but she diligently does her research! An answer to a prayer. Read morePublished 4 months ago by Atticus
In a number of recent books writers have written about the grief of a daughter losing a mother, but for those whose mother never really "mothered" them have suffered a different... Read morePublished 5 months ago by Anne-Marie