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16 of 17 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
The best of its kind, highly recommended, March 6, 2002
This exquisite and richly drawn story provides a realistic and moving account of the challenges that a black woman and white man face when they try to forge a romantic relationship: one that isn't always accepted by society, one that is even sometimes questioned in their own minds. Lee is an African-American journalist from Baltimore. Intelligent, independent, and attractive, she witnesses the thrashing that Porter, a white reporter, gets from revelers while he's trying to cover the Rodney King riots in Los Angeles. Lee steps in, rescuing him from further harm. Porter never forgets her, wants to see her again. When Lee applies for and gets offered another job in Philadelphia, at the same newspaper in which Porter is employed, he is elated to again cross paths with a woman who not only rescued him, but who subsequently amazes and charms him. With persistence he becomes a friend, then a lover. And with time, Porter examines his motivations for loving a black woman like Lee, a love that he justifies, a love that torments him. Meeting of the Waters is a pure joy to read. At times funny and reflective, it is the consummate novel, one that provides a balanced viewpoint from both white and black perspectives. The characters are living, breathing, fascinating and passionate. Lee's love for Porter and vice versa is believable, and no matter how hard you might be tempted to frown upon their relationship, just because, you cannot. The author's style is conventional yet has a certain rhythm, a hard softness that gives the reader a delicious journey they'll want to savor. And the conclusion? Perfect, not fairy tale, not predictable, but a satisfactory conclusion to a superb and commendable story.
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11 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
way to go, kim, November 14, 2001
probably the truest book i've ever read about interracial relationships. mcclarin, through her characters, expresses her thoughts on the subject with honesty and clarity. Porter and Lee meet during the l.a. riots when lee saves his life. porter rediscovers her at a newspaper in philadelphia. he can't seem to get this woman out of his head, so he goes after her. lee is the tough, independent, intelligent black woman who has kept men at arm's length in her relationships. she has never even thought of dating a white man until.... both characters are dynamic and the prose is sterling. we see them come together, fall in love, discover their insecurities, hangups and prejudices. lee was honest; it bothered her to see black men dating white women, but she lowered her defenses to let porter into her life. i would have to disagree with mcclarin: i don't think black women and white men catch as much hell for being together as white women and black men of course, porter and lee get the usual opposition, " the guess who's coming to dinner type scenes." I like porter because he didn't come off as some white liberal saint; he had issues, he wasn't perfect, but he worked through them. love doesn't conquer everything, but it brought porter and lee togethe
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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Good read overall! Be prepeared to be slightly annoyed!, March 12, 2005
This review is from: Meeting of the Waters: A Novel (Paperback)
I purchased this book after reading the reviews from other customers. It was not a slow read as some customers felt, in fact quite the oppposite. I liked the character Porter. He knew what he wanted, (which was the character Lee) and pursued it. Nothing wrong with being wooed. However, the character Lee in my opinion, came off as a narrow-minded, but educated black woman. Her constant tests throughout the book that she makes Porter go through would drive any man insane. To be honest, most black men would have kicked her to the curb from the get go. As a black woman myself, I know what it feels like to date another member outside of my race and think about the repercussions that are going to follow. But, if you let the differences consume you, allowing it be a constant reminder that your heritage is different, amongst other things, you end up making yourself and your partner miserable, not allowing yourself to enjoy the relationship and the great feeling it is to have a partner. This is exactly what happened with Porter and Lee. But the fact that one character is obsessed with their racial differences, and how her close friends and family would feel, is in fact a big problem that mixed couples face in real life. The book is realistic, and at the reasonable price that Amazon is selling it for, you really can't go wrong. I would like to read Ms McLarin's other book, "Taming It Down".
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