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Memory Slips: A Memoir of Music and Healing [Paperback]

Linda K. Cutting (Author)
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January 6, 1998
"There are three kinds of memory slips, I tell my students. One, when Memory slips but you find your way back without losing a beat. Two, when you don't find your way back until the downbeat. Three, when you don't find your way back in time and must stop and restart the music. I don't tell them about a fourth possibility, when one memory slips, another intrudes and you don't find your way back for a very long time." -- from "Memory Slips"

Linda Katherine Cutting's memoir of family and music movingly portrays the trauma and recovery of a woman whose childhood was betrayed by those who were supposed to protect her. In exquisite prose she illuminates the inner life of a child for whom the gift of music was the only refuge, a refuge that protected her as long as it could. For when Linda began to remember what her father had done to her and her brothers -- both eventual suicides -- she stopped being able to remember Beethoven's notes.

Linda Cutting's writing bears witness to what had occurred. Her stunning "Hers" column, originally printed in the "New York Times Sunday Magazine" in October 1993, was clipped and carried in wallets and pocketbooks and reprinted around the world. Now, her memoir "Memory Slips," will not only reach out and give voice to victims of abuse but also move anyone who cares about the power of writing, the beauty of music and the innocence of children. "In her writing, Linda Cutting displays the same grace, thoughtfulness and talent that she's always brought to her music-making. With courageous candor, Linda has shone light into the darker corners of her own compelling life, and we, the readers, are richer for it." --John Williams, Academy Award-winningcomposer and conductor laureate, The Boston Pops Orchestra "This is a mesmerizing story about the loss of music and innocence and -- very nearly -- the self; and the subsequent recovery of all those things. It is testimony to the power of Linda Cutting's writing that the same book that tears at your heart can, in the end, make it rise up with gladness." --Elizabeth Berg, author of "Talk Before Sleep," "Range of Motion" and "The Pull of the Moon" "It is testimony to the power of Linda Cutting's writing that the same book can tear at your heart can, in the end, make it rise up in gladness. Thank God this rare individual had the strength and courage to survive--and to tell her story."--Elizabeth Berg, author of "Talk Before Sleep," "Range of Motion," and "The Pull of the Moon"

"What survivors want is to go beyond their trauma into healing. Linda Cutting's understated reserve and the dignity in the way she tells her story is very special. This is a subject that's been sensationalized, but this wonderful book is not about an issue--it's a human story. I stayed up all night reading it and couldn't put it down."--Ellen Bass, coauthor of "The Courage to Heal"

"A remarkable survival story. The language's lyrical beauty lifts it above other memoirs of abuse." "--Library Journal"

"Intense and perceptive, it should satisfy a large, serious readership." "--A. L. A. Booklist"

"Will lend great strength to other sufferers whose memories have met with such willful disbelief, for she has built a persuasive indictment with this dignified, eloquent book."--Margaret Moorman, "New York Times Book Review"


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Concert pianists perform from memory, a brutal but inescapable convention of musical life. Of all the demons they face onstage, none is greater than the fear of a memory slip. Cutting's bitter, dignified memoir tells the story of a musical life nearly shipwrecked by childhood molestation at the hands of her minister father. Beginning with a terrifying slip that triggers the gradual breakdown of a successful concert career, the narrative moves through hospitalization, painfully recovered childhood memories, and finally, a struggle toward compassionate understanding and a truce with the past. Throughout, she weaves the powerful theme of music: as a bribe, an addiction, a joy, and an escape. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

From Library Journal

A concert pianist who has performed with many top orchestras such as the Boston Symphony, Cutting writes a poignant, moving account of the mental illness she suffered as a result of abuse in childhood. After the suicides of both her brothers, Cutting's "memory slips" became more severe, and she herself was hospitalized as suicidal. Her tale of remembrance and healing is a remarkable survival story. The language's lyrical beauty lifts it above other memoirs of abuse. An excerpt in Cosmopolitan and an author appearance on the Today show will fuel interest in this book. For public libraries.
-?Marguerite Mroz, Baltimore Cty. P.L.
Copyright 1997 Reed Business Information, Inc. --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Perennial; 1edit edition (January 6, 1998)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0060928794
  • ISBN-13: 978-0060928797
  • Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 5.2 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,623,282 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars the most honest portrayal I have ever read, December 31, 1998
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This review is from: Memory Slips: A Memoir of Music and Healing (Paperback)
the 1st review asks, Is this true? I'd like to ask why the reviewer chooses to ask that question. A truly human account of what it's like to have this happen to you. Not a courtroom drama nor an attempt to prove anything to anyone -- that is totally beside the point. I routinely recommend this book to everyone I know. The author's truth is unquestionable.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Too much music tech, December 5, 2007
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E. S. Charpentier (Brainerd, MN United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Memory Slips: A Memoir of Music and Healing (Paperback)
This memoir described one month in the recent past of the author, while she was in therapy and one year in her less recent past. The convention of switching back and forth between the time periods and showing the correlations between events was less confusing than I thought it would be. The musical terminology and descriptions of pieces of music were much more confusing to me. She described her feelings a lot of times in terms of certain concertos and symphonies. I don't read music at all, and I had a hard time grasping the point of what she was trying to say.
I also didn't feel that the book really resolved. She went through a lot of abuse and broken relationships and her therapy was all about coming to terms with that. She described the process of that very well, but even though the book includes a 'Coda' (Epilogue) that takes place 3 years later and then the entire work was copyrighted 2 years after that, the author does not say how she now relates to her family and whether her father continues to be an abusive clergy person. I'm glad she can play the piano again, but I'd like to know how other things are going as well....
Possibly I shouldn't have attempted reading a memoir so steeped in musical theory with my lack of knowledge on the subject, but I was reading for the personal story, which I thought got lost amidst all the musical analogies. Also, I understand that this is probably a very difficult process, to write about one's childhood abuse, so I feel apologetic for judging the work rather harshly.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Similar life, January 16, 2000
This review is from: Memory Slips: A Memoir of Music and Healing (Paperback)
I've read this book with a mixture of tears and relief. In reading it, I've relived a life of torment and pain, which I could only escape through music. I am now a professional oboist (freelance) and, while I love music, I only have this career because I practiced to escape mental, physical and sexual abuse. To read Ms. Cutting's words and memories was to learn that others have shared my pain and my experiences. Thank you, Linda, for writing so much of what I have felt and could never say.
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