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Mom, Can I Move Back In With You?: A Survival Guide for Parents of Twentysomethings [Paperback]

Linda Perlman Gordon (Author), Susan Morris Shaffer (Author)
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April 22, 2004
A guide for the parents of the dazed and confused generation identified in the runaway bestseller Quarterlife Crisis.

Today's twenty-somethings are facing an unprecedented cultural shift in which they're feeling lost, uncertain about the future, and/or in crisis. What used to be the traditional markers of adulthood, from getting married and starting a family to earning a living, are increasingly being delayed-and it's causing as much confusion for parents as for their adult children. Quarterlife Crisis identified the difficulties twentysomethings are facing. But what about their parents? Guiding your twenty-something kid requires a whole new set of parenting skills. Here, finally, is a book to help parents navigate this tumultuous period in their adult children's lives.

Is it OK to let your kid move back in with you because he can't seem to commit to any one career-and therefore has no paycheck coming in? What do you do when your child calls you and says that her rent is due and she needs some quick cash? Just how involved should parents be in their adult children's lives? And what do twenty-somethings actually want and need from their parents? While parents are facing an urgent need for answers, few experts are talking about the subject, and there is little conventional wisdom to draw from. In this invaluable book, Gordon and Shaffer identify the complex issues these parents are facing and offer wise and effective strategies for successfully parenting a twenty-something "kid."

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About the Author

Linda Perlman Gordon is a clinical social worker and trained mediator with a private psychotherapy practice in Washington, D.C. Susan Morris Shaffer is the deputy director of The Mid-Atlantic Equity Center, an organization that addresses educational equity and gender-related issues.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 288 pages
  • Publisher: Tarcher (April 22, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1585422908
  • ISBN-13: 978-1585422906
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 5.4 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #256,565 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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5.0 out of 5 stars An Outstanding Resource!, June 25, 2004
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As a parent of an adult child I found this book to be an outstanding resource for families dealing with the realities of changing times. The concept of twentysomethings as ADULTescents is well defined and clearly developed by the authors. Using a combination of anecdotes, interviews with focus groups, and summaries of research, the book provides background information and practical strategies for parents facing the challenges of interacting with twentysomethings in a positive and constructive way. As an educator, I also appreciated the attention to the social issues and changing expectations facing young adults, particularly those related to gender roles.
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5.0 out of 5 stars So Valuable!!!!!!, July 18, 2005
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after reading Mom, Can I Move Back In.. I realized that I wasn't alone sending my son care packages at 26 years old. I'm not the only mother who speaks to her son and daughter more than once a day. It is helpful to understand my family from a broader perspective. The book helps me too understand how we got here and where we need to go. The characteristics of adulthood are INVALUABLE. I am grateful that someone took the time to look at twentysomethings and their parents so that I can have a guide now that my children are half kids and half adults.
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5.0 out of 5 stars This book is invaluable!, May 16, 2004
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If you have kids in their 20's or even older this book will both educate and absorb you totally. For any parent who finds themselves much more involved in their adult child's daily life than they could ever imagine, this book tells you that you're not alone! The numerous anecdotes sound like the authors must have eavesdropped at my home for the past few years. The book entertains and at the same time feels like it is well researhed and really thoughtful. Baby boomer parents of "adult" children should run to buy it.
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The twenties are a transitional period for adult children. Read the first page
Key Phrases - Statistically Improbable Phrases (SIPs): (learn more)
respectful interdependence, many twentysomethings, moving hack home, parenting adult children, emerging adulthood, baby boomer parents, traditional markers
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Move Bach, United States, Census Bureau, New York, World War, Move Buck, E-mail Versus Snail Mail, Phone Home, African American, Cold War, The Way We Were
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